My mom needs a new pair of walking sneakers. She does walk often and a lot, but she's 64 and she absolutely hates all these sneakers with huge soles.
I've tried to explain to her that that's what makes the shoes more comfortable, but she says it looks stupid.
So, do any of you know what are some good sneakers for walking, but with more of a classic look?
Thanks in advance!
Rothy-like shoes , sandals, wedges, and everything in between for a good capsule wardrobe. Most I see are either bad quality, look like bulky orthotics, or look too aged.
I’m terrible about styling shoes with dresses and skirts and always just opt for strap sandals. We have a UK trip coming up at the end of July and with the heat waves I plan to wear mostly midi length skirts and dresses. But we are walking a lot.
What is a good, stylish sneaker? My go to sneakers are Ryka and have bold colors (running errands, gym) or Vans (paired with jeans).
My husband’s grandfather passed and we have a double funeral (service and burial are in two different places). I’m planning on picking up a nice linen skirt and top for the burial, as it will probably be hot outside, but I would like to wear something I already own for the service.
Are prints okay? I’m leaning toward this vintage dress and heels, but not sure if the trim and pattern make it inappropriate.
Editing due to a couple comments: I’m not planning an outfit change. The funeral and burial are in different cities, three days apart. I didn’t even think about it reading like this, but I promise I’m not trying to steal the spotlight with some elaborate outfit change.
I’ve been trying to be more intentional with my wardrobe this summer because im tired of buying pieces that look cute for one month and then never get worn again.
The main things i am looking for are pieces that feel simple but not boring like the short sleeve linen shirts, the easy linen tops, or the lightweight knitwear for cooler evenings, denim that doesnt lose shape and maybe a silk or cotton top that works for both work and going out after. I like the general styling of brands like sezane, cos, massimo dutti and sometimes zara but i keep running into the same issue where something looks beautiful online and then the fabric composition is disappointing in person and especially with the recent heat ive been paying way more attention to linen, cotton, silk and lighter natural fibres because commuting in synthetic tops like polyester has been awful.
Ideally I want pieces that can work for real life not just like pinterest outfits like something I can wear to work, weekend brunch with friends, a casual date night where I want to look a bit more put together, or travelling without feeling overdressed.
Where are you people finding summer staples that actually feel worth it lately? I’d love recommendations for brands that sit somewhere between regular high street and full luxury pricing and especially if the quality/fabric feels better than the usual options.
Anyone have experience with April Cornell? I really like the looks of this coat: Audrey wool coat
But I have no experience with this store. Any thoughts on quality, service, etc? Any other similar products from somewhere else?
Thanks!
I’m looking to get some linen pants for summer. Looking for something that’s good quality and flattering!
I've gone through a significant transformation this past year, and am trying to navigate my new body. I'm looking for a dress for a semi-formal wedding. I loved this dress online, but now I can't tell if I still love it on me.
Obviously it's wrinkled and not altered, but is it a keeper?
Edit: thank you so much for the feedback! I think I'll take some of the things I like about this dress, but keep looking for an even better fit and color.
I know it’s summer but I’m heading to Alaska for 3 months. I’ve included a tank top picture to show my figure for reference. I don’t have a big enough mirror to do a full body picture.
I’m in my 40s and lately I’ve noticed how differently I think about getting dressed compared to when I was younger.
I used to care a lot more about whether my husband noticed a new outfit, liked a dress, or complimented something I put effort into. Not in a “dressing for him” way exactly, but his reaction definitely used to affect how confident I felt in certain clothes.
These days my wardrobe is much more about comfort, routine, and what actually works for my life. I have my usual outfit formulas, my safe pieces, and a lot less patience for clothes that look good but feel annoying by 2pm. But every once in a while he’ll randomly notice something I’m wearing, and I’m always surprised by how much it still lifts my mood.
Do partner compliments still affect how you feel about an outfit, or has your style become something you mostly do for yourself?
I recently have lost (and still in the process of losing) a good amount of weight. I can now fit into most straight size shops, which on it's own is pretty wild to me. It's been over a decade since that was possible. Anyway, I am discovering that vanity sizing has really gotten out of control in that time. I just got some workout shorts. I bought an XL, because honestly, I am still XL. They got here and I could have easily gone down a size. I went on the website and the listed measurements are a full 8 inches off of my actual measurements and they fit loose. They shouldn't fit at all.
I bought some t-shirts at Academy (all of my old workout/play clothes are hanging off me) and thank goodness I went in person because they were so oversized I had to get a medium. I am in no way a medium. On the other hand, I tried on XL clothes from another brand there and they were so tight I wouldn't feel comfortable wearing them out. I have some old shirts from the last time I could wear straight sizes, and they are XXL and are smaller than shirts I am buying in L today.
As much as I bitch about plus size clothes, at least the sizing is fairly consistent. If you are 1X or 18 at Lane Bryant, you will be fine with 1X or 18 at Torrid and you can be fairly certain those sizes will fit you across retailers. Of course, there is variation, but not like I am seeing now.
How are we supposed to shop if we can't know what size something really is? The fact that you can't rely on sizing charts online is really annoying. Can someone also help me with knowing which brands I should be trying? Does Free People run large or small? Anthropologie? (These are brands I have coveted for years lol. I don't even know if I will like the clothes on TBH.)
I’ll be 50 in 4 days and while getting dressed for dinner I wondered if soon this look will be too young for me. I love fashion and I have a young spirit but don’t want to seem like I’m trying too hard to look younger.
Genuinely Interested in diferent perspectives related to this topic!
Hi all,
I’ve had heel pain for over 3 years - it’s a strange case of heel fat pad atrophy, where I get massive aching in my heels when I stand for more than 5 minutes, even though I’m only in my 20’s.
I’m starting an office job next year that will require prolonged standing for presentations and workshop facilitation, and I’m nervous because the ONLY shoes I can stand in for longer than 5 minutes are the foam Birkenstocks (see pic).
I’m looking for a nice loafer or flat shoe that I can wear with skirts and dresses at work, that provide the same support as these foam Birkenstocks.
I’ve tried Vionics, and while I like the arch support, the cork-style sole is not squishy enough for me.
If you’ve got a recommendations of cute office shoes with thick foam-style soles and orthotic support, pls let me know! Thanks in advance :)
This might be more of a rant but I hate that every summer style v-neck dress I find in stores is spaghetti strap, has those flutter sleeves that make your shoulders look huge, or 3/4 puff sleeves. Like who are these styles made for and flattering on? Not me. Size 12/14 w/ larger bust.
I have a few Boden dresses but having little kids and the mess they come with I try not to wear them all the time. I just want something between Amazon fast fashion and expensive that is quality and comfortable. I’m trying not to slub it in jean shorts and Tshirts all summer but I might have too.
Been fighting wrap dresses for years! Love the look but hate spending the whole night holding the neckline closed or adjusting the skirt every time I sit down or move wrong. Plus having big tatats just doesnt help either and it makes me feel uncomfortable if it feels like things will pop out.
Tried absolutely everything from going bare underneath, regular bike shorts, did those weird bra clip in things that cover the cleavage line and hated it! nothing felt right. Last respirt layered a shaping cami with shaper shorts and holy crap!!! What a difference. The cami stops the neckline from gapping anf the shorts stop the skirt from twisting mid wear. For thin fabrics specifically, silicone edge shorts are the move.
Took me embarrassingly long to land on this combo lol. Posting in case anyone else has been suffering through wrap dress season unnecessarily.
I really wish I could find the original essay that put forth these ideas, but I read it probably 20 years ago and have no idea where it originated. The author was frustrated about the constant angst she and her friends dealt with regarding society's ideas about how women should dress at certain ages. So she fought back. Here's her list of what not to wear after age 35:
-- Rose colored glasses (they were cute and appropriate when you were a teenager, but are they really serving you well now?),
-- A chip on your shoulder (these look worse and worse the older you get),
-- The weight of the world (don't let anyone guilt you into putting this one on!),
-- Society's expectations (similar to the weight of the world, but more explicit), and
-- Too many hats (you'll soon be juggling so many that you won't even know who you really are anymore)
Everything else is fair game. Enjoy.
Can I get away with wearing black Converse with my straight linen pants? I work as a fair vendor and work directly with the public so I don't want to look stupid, but it's so dirty I hate wearing sandals. Any suggestions that won't be filthy in a couple days? I work with kids so comfortable is a necessity as well.
I have a decent amount of clothes but can never seem to understand what looks good with what! For example, I have a pair of lighter wash wide leg jeans, and for some reason everything I pair with it just looks wrong. It’s either too cropped which emphasizes my thicker midsection, or too long which makes the jeans look sloppy. Also, the cut of the shirt confuses me… should I go button up? T shirt? And color… I have some cute wide leg blue and white striped pants and can only ever pair a white shirt with it 😩 I always end up going a basic t shirt (typically long sleeve) with tapered pants (usually athleisure brand) for my casual office dress code, but I want to branch out to wearing my wider leg pants, or some nicer tops. I prefer a relaxed, somewhat oversized look, but not sloppy, which is where I’m failing. For reference, I am 5”4 and wear a size 10 in bottoms and medium/large top with a smaller bust. Are there any helpful “formulas” or websites/bloggers out there to help me with a basic idea of good fashion sense? As a mom to two preschoolers I am not as up to date with fashion as I want to be. I recently went back to Pinterest for inspiration and it’s full of AI now with no real information! So any help is welcome.
I’m 4 months pp and absolutely hating my body. I’m on a weight loss journey and have 25 pounds to go.
I’m going to a bbq today and seeing people I haven’t seen since I was pregnant. I know I need to be gentle with myself but I don’t want anyone seeing me like this. I really don’t even want to go.
I’m having such a hard time finding anything to wear, and to top it all off I’m getting my period in a few days and I’m unbelievably bloated. I look 6 months pregnant and my stomach is hard. Everything is uncomfortable and I hate the way I look.
I’ve spent DAYS obsessing over what to wear. I’ve finally managed to narrow it down to a few outfits that don’t make me feel completely hideous.
Which of these do you like best? Keep in mind it’s a very casual backyard bbq. I also haven’t eaten anything yet today so my stomach isn’t nearly as big as it’s going to be. It’ll add a few inches to the tummy area when I put a single morsel of food in my mouth.
Can anyone recommend where to buy good quality black dresses for work involving regular court appearances as I’m a DC.
I have some lovely old ones from Next which appear discontinued. I’ve checked.
They should be over the knees and short sleeved or 3/4 sleeves. Not low cut.
I’m based in Hertford but work in North and East London.
I’m five foot 9, size 14.
Thanks all x