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31 lonely looking for a friend

31 bi, just a guy looking for people to talk, im happy with my life but having little to no friends is not a great feeling.

Apart from work, i spend my day doing things that i enjoy such going to the movies, watching tv or anime and playing video games.
I also love moving and doing physical activities i work out, and do MMA, im short (5ft5 lol) but i love playing basketball, bowling, tennis, Running and cycling are also fun.

All im looking for is some one to talk to about all that we do and like or anything on our minds just feel free to say anything to each other and have some one to share life with.

Im kinda shy and a little awkward so sorry in advance lol.

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u/opscure83 — 4 hours ago

31m, full-time wheelchair user. Looking for friends between 23-45

Hello there, 31m, bi here. I'm a Senior in college majoring in political science. I'm a full-time wheelchair user due to having Spina Bifida. I'm here looking for friends around my age to chat with. Dm's are open.

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u/wheels19942 — 7 hours ago

30M from Oregon looking to make some friends.

I'm living out here in the mountains of Oregon and it can get a bit lonely out here so I'm hoping to make some new friends today but I'm a gamer who plays on PC and I play a variety of games I'm also a big comic and movie guy who also loves to hike and camp so it would be cool to find some outdoor people I can do that with but I'm an open book and I'm down for anything so if anyone's interested feel free to say hi I'll be around all day anyways take care.

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u/Successful_Smoke1966 — 5 hours ago

41/m/PA looking for new friends

Greetings,

I'm Mike. From Montgomery County, PA. I work from home, so always looking for new people to talk to. Love horror movies, cars, and talking about the latest tech just to name a few interests. Feel free to say hi.

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u/istgradfrompsu — 8 hours ago
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40/M. Looking for friends in NY/NJ area.

Hi there. I'm looking to specifically meet people who live in NY/NJ. I'm mainly looking to meet people 30+. Mid-to-late 20's is okay. The goal is to befriend someone who wants in-person time. Penpals are fine, but I have enough of those. Regarding interests... I love watching and discussing film. I'll watch anything from Criterion titles to B-movies/cult horror. I also enjoy reading, travel, and exercise.

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u/vampyre_fan — 8 hours ago

35 South FL looking for like minded bros

What’s up, bros! 👋
Looking to meet some like minded guys who are interested in building a genuine friendship.
I’m an entrepreneur growing my business, so during the day I can get pretty busy and might not be the quickest to reply. Nights and weekends are usually much better, but I always get back to people when I can.
I’ve also been on a weight loss journey over the past year and I’m starting to get more into fitness. It’s made a huge difference in how I feel, and I’m excited to keep improving.
I’ve been single for a few years now. Still haven’t found the right one, but hopefully that’ll happen when the time is right.
I have a few close friends in real life, but they’re mostly married with kids now, so between busy schedules and family life, it’s not always easy to hang out or even text. 😂 I’m also involved in a few networking and community service organizations, which keeps me busy in a good way.
If you’re into cars, entrepreneurship, fitness, or anything I mentioned above, send me a message! Bonus points if you live nearby so we can actually grab a coffee, hit the gym, go to a car meet, or just hang out.

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u/F1speed23 — 10 hours ago

43 Married in search of fellow awkard nerds

I am awkward AF. The older I get the worse it seems to be. Lol I am a huge nerd. Lover of all media of Sci-fi and fantasy. Comic and Renfaire geek as well. Just looking for someone to click with. I haven't many friends outside of my husband and few close friends, and sadly they do not reach the level of nerd that I am.

If you wanna shoot the shit and chat throughout the days. Chat about anything really, it doesn't always have to be nerdy stuff. And you won't ghost after a few, hit me up.

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u/Zealousideal_Fig2288 — 11 hours ago

Older guy looking for friends

Older guy looking for mostly friends from the UK which could be online, and maybe meet for a drink and a chat days out/in once we get to know each other. Would be happy chat to people further afield as well

I am single and well all work and no... kinda gets boring 😴

My interests are walking, cooking, classic cars and travel. Love visiting new places 😍 and meeting people 💕 and reading.. oh and movies 🎬

If you are still interested message me and see where we end up

Hugs

M

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u/persim99 — 11 hours ago

30 M living in klamath falls Oregon

Hey all I've been out here in the woods for about 3 months now and it can get a bit lonely out here so I'm hoping I can make some new friends on here I can game with maybe even find someone who loves to camp and go hiking but I am a PC player but I play a variety like DBD, phasmo, repo etc. and I also love all things movies and food so there's that but if anyone wants to chat just feel free to message me anyways take care.

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u/Successful_Smoke1966 — 16 hours ago

I'm 19, BIsexual. If you wanna chat, please take the lead, and message me. If you ask me to message you, I may just forget.

u/no7orP — 17 hours ago

18 year old looking for older guys

I'm an 18 year old guy from Spain looking for friends. This may sound weird, but I'd like to talk to older men to have a nice friendship. I feel very lonely when it comes to having guidance, if that even makes any sense. I want someone I can learn from, ask for advice about any topic, or just have deep conversations.

I usually like to have a great talk to see if we get along. If not or if I don't see interest, I'll just tell you ^^. I don't like to ghost people. So feel free to DM me if you would like to share your experience or advice with me.

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u/PurpleGur1324 — 20 hours ago

20 twink boy looking for friends

Hello, I'm a new gay man. I've never been in a relationship before. I'm 20 years old, 163 cm tall, white, and slim. I'm looking for both long-term and short-term friendships. I'm open to everyone. I love movies and TV series, and I also love history and art.

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u/isam_LN1 — 22 hours ago

Anyone else feel this way??

Feel like they have come out ( to themselves) too late? I feel too old for the club/bar scene. I don’t feel super comfortable on the apps but in my late 30s where else is there??

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u/Personal_Bed2696 — 1 day ago

Why is ghosting so common nowadays?

Why do people ghost instead of just being honest?
A simple, “I’m not interested,” or “I don’t think we’re a match,” hurts a lot less than disappearing without a word.
Ghosting leaves people questioning themselves for no reason. Just be upfront. It’s free, it’s respectful, and it gives the other person the chance to move on.
Anyway… if you don’t like me, just say it. I’d rather hear the truth than be left wondering. 😂
By the way, I’m 29 from the Philippines. I love music and gaming, especially classic games from the ’90s and early 2000s. Always happy to meet people with the same interests.

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u/Capricorn_0197 — 1 day ago

Heyy, 21 from the uk melting from the heat ;-;

Hey, im james 21 from the uk. And currently melting from the heat and lonely at work cuz working alone ;-;

I dont mind short or long chats but prefer if I make a friend by the end of it haha.

Im into art specifically illustration and design and photography, also into gamjng though like overwatch or fortnite but chill games like stardew and Minecraft aswell.

When im not working or gaming also go for hikes in the local forest with my bf of 2 years to touch grass lmao.

But yeah if that peaks anyone's interest or you just wanna say hi feel free to dm :3

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Summer’s here! Any outdoor concert enthusiasts in/near MKE?

Hi guys. I’m Chase in Milwaukee. I’m a singer with several musical friends whom I love to support by attending their performances. If there’s anyone out there who would like to join me, please lmk. 😊

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u/chasemke69 — 1 day ago

41 M, looking for friends around my ages. If you believe the owls are not what they seem, then we have a better chance of getting along.

Into film, gaming, TV, books, theatre. All the arts really. Only sport is running (which I love to do, but not watch). Back into actual running for myself recently, up to 50km per week, shifting the dad bod I gained in my 30s, so if anyone is on a similar journey, all the better. Similar age please (nobody under 35).

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51 married man looking for friends. Sci-fi nerd. I read a lot. Love to garden. Homebody. Laid back and a bit reserved.

51 yo guy in Houston. I’m looking for like-minded friends preferably close to my age. Big Star Trek fan. Also enjoy baseball and football. Big fan of being outdoors. Feel free to say hi or feel free ask for more info.
Have a great day.

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u/Timely_Fishing5566 — 1 day ago