r/gayfriendfinder

I'm 37 i'm gay and looking to meet new people

I'm 36 into gaming, watching movies, or just relaxing with good music. I'm down to chat about our favorite games, share movie recommendations, or just talk about how our day is going. Looking for some chill, genuine guys to connect with and build a solid friendship.

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u/GayBottom36 — 4 hours ago

Hey 31 male for long term chats with guys around my age or older :)

Hey I’m Alec 31 Ireland here looking for some long term chats chats if possible

I’m a big horror fan who loves to cook bake and swim love to travel and collect vinyls currently have around 300 in my collection! :)

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u/PotentialSir8616 — 6 hours ago

18m looking for gaymer buddys

Hi! Im 18 chub and I like to play games! I do only play a few games due to me being verry easily pleased... roblox, marvel rivals, Minecraft and some fortnite, I play a few mobile games but their not popular, im looking for a buddy who enjoys gaming and... other things

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u/Artistic-Bad-3270 — 11 hours ago

23m, looking for someone genuine to talk to

Hey, I’m 23 from Germany and looking to meet new people to chat with and hopefully build a long-term friendship if we vibe 🙂

I’m into music, cars, gaming, and mountain biking, so if we share any interests feel free to message me. I enjoy good conversations, getting to know people, and just having someone to talk to regularly.

Always open to genuine connections and seeing where things go 🙂

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u/Spiritual_Passage179 — 15 hours ago

24yo IT guy from Austria looking for friends

Hey everyone. I’m a 24 year old guy looking to make some friendships. I wouldn't say that I feel alone, but I have all this energy and quite frankly, I never get tired of talking to new people! Big plus if you're close enough to meet up in person and do some activities together. I myself live in the city of Graz.

I really like tech, and lately I've gotten into retro laptops and all sorts other technology from the 90s. As such, many of my hobbies also revolve around technology, like collecting and cataloging albums and books, scanning and organizing photos, or working on various command line applications. I use Linux daily, and maybe I can convince you too ;)

When time allows it (though I doubt it will be anytime soon), I play single-player video games with a penchant for retro. I've always been a huge Nintendo fan, with some of my favorite childhood games being Pokémon Platinum and Animal Crossing. I would love to find some people who can relate to those games :)

Beyond electronics, I also really enjoy hiking and history. Don't hesitate to leave a message if you're interested.

Cheers!

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u/PCG-FX501 — 15 hours ago

22nb looking for long-term friends around my age

Recent college graduate struggling to find new friends after graduating. Looking for long term friends around my age (preferably 18-25). I’m a theatre nerd, I like hiking, games of all types (I play a lot of video games, board games, and a couple trading card games). Feel free to message if you’re interested!

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u/Productiveinsomniac — 15 hours ago

19m Im feeling lonely so I thought id give this a try *read description yall*

So ive been kinda feeling lonely so im looking for new people to talk to new friends or more ig if we vibe? Im 19 and im Britishhh, idm any age so if you think we'd vibe just hmu :)

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u/LowkLonelyy — 19 hours ago

29yo European artist yearning for friends and community

Hey. I'm giving this a shot and would like to make some cool connections accross the world. I love drawing and taking photos on film. A lot of my time I spend on creative projects, playing games or watching movies. I'm quite active when my full-time job allows it, but I am slowly breaking out of my shell to get to know some more people.

I am currently looking for some new friends with reciprocal interest in each other's lives. I like checking in on people, and I get very very happy when people show any interest in my work and art. As long as there's something you're passionate about, or are trying to find that one thing, we will have a lot to talk about. Aside from that, a kind heart and keen interest goes a long way for me.

I am also doing plenty of gym stuff, and am looking for some accountability as my friend has jumped off.

If that sounds fun to you, feel free to shoot me a DM. I also do Discord for that stuff. Thanks for reading!

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u/Lyonid — 19 hours ago

31M [Friendship] - Looking For Long Term Friendship

James. 31. Half Scottish, half American.

LGBTQ+ progressive Christian with a background in sociology and theology — still endlessly curious about both.

I’m into history, horror, and the stranger corners of the world — academic parapsychology, unexplained mysteries, and true crime. If it’s eerie, I’m probably interested.

Big lover of ghost stories — especially M. R. James and E. F. Benson.

Film buff. Audio drama enthusiast (especially horror). Also a longtime Doctor Who fan — particularly the Big Finish audio adventures.

I’ve got a soft spot for anthology TV: The Twilight Zone, The Outer Limits, Black Mirror, Are You Afraid of the Dark?, Goosebumps, Tales from the Darkside — and honestly, anthology storytelling in general.

I also enjoy ambient/experimental music, old-time radio, nature walks, and anything atmospheric or creative.

Football fan (Dundee FC) and baseball fan (Boston Red Sox).

My personality is basically:

Progressive Christianity, obscure theology books, Gregorian chant echoing through ancient churches, tea, cosy lighting, universal salvation, ghost stories, paranormal research, old hymns, and the firm belief that every rural Scottish village is hiding at least one unspeakable entity beneath the soil.

Surprisingly harmonious combination, honestly.

I somehow became the kind of person who can sincerely say:

“Yes, I’m a progressive Christian who believes in universal reconciliation, enjoys Gregorian chant, researches paranormal case studies for fun, finds old churches emotionally restorative, and relaxes by listening to horror audio dramas while drinking tea.”

Looking to connect with like-minded people — especially those into horror, theology, the strange, or storytelling in any form.

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u/Dizzy_Lime_3494 — 1 day ago

25m looking for guys around same age and interests to chat with. Oh and morning 🥱

Interested about gaming,music, nudism, plants and traveling. I wanna find friend that i can talk about everything and anything. Mby visit at someday tooo 😌

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u/_NinetaledFox_ — 1 day ago

Looking for native American English speaker friends to improve my language and share things

Hey i am 20 years old fine art student. I love animals. I have some parrots 🦜🦜🦜🦜🦜🦜🦜....

I love to do sports and diet I am on a glow up journey (lol) Want to improve my English and Spanish.

Couldn't add any picture of myself idk why.

I am bi curious gay guy

If you like to talk about birds, animals, nature and art I think we can be friends.

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u/lilartes — 1 day ago

Boring Gay Guy here looking for friends? im a world traveler but im boring hehe

Hey Im in my 30’s in a good direction in life, looking to build a good friendship with someone who enjoys life, likes to travel, discover new countries, cultures, food etc, why im boring (i dont drink, i dont smoke, im not a party guy, i like outdoor adventure, beach, history, politics, gym, Im a family guy, born first in my family and I had to learn responsibility and consequences of actions at a young age, hence shaped me.
My favorite visited places ; ROME, SEOUL, MALDIVES, and some other cold places hehe,

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u/FlyingLover — 2 days ago

30m from Canada, I need gay friends

All my friends are straight and it gets a bit lonely.

My mind is preoccupied by the NHL play offs right now but I also like documentaries, food, hiking, camping, etc.

I work from home and it's nice to have someone to talk to during the day.

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u/acatok — 1 day ago

Hi, M25 here! 🇫🇷 Want to chat ?

Salut ! Je suis un homme de 25 ans, originaire de France.

Je suis plutôt introverti, mais si le courant passe bien, je peux devenir très bavard :)

Que puis-je dire sur moi et ce que je recherche ?

J'aimerais discuter avec d'autres personnes, de préférence francophones. L'anglais n'est pas un problème si mon niveau vous convient 🫣

J'aime regarder des vidéos sur YouTube ou Netflix. Je suis passionné d'informatique, de jeux vidéo, d'automobile et de bien d'autres choses.

N'hésitez pas à m'envoyer un message, je serais ravi de vous lire.

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u/OtherwiseStretch949 — 2 days ago

M24 Dutch boy looking for nice chats 😊

Hello guys! I’m 24 from the Netherlands. Today is gonna be a hot day ☀️! How are you doing? Looking for nice chats and friends! Dm me! 😊

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u/Gloomy-Skin2819 — 1 day ago

27m looking for slow paced chat

Currently playing c&c ra and league while recovering. Overwhelmed by work.

I actually find it interesting to learn about different people's lives daily routines and learn about why they prefer those routines. So I am looking to connect with people who likes to share. Not like personal details but things like where do you want to live and why kinda thlngs. So hit me in dms if you like a noisy guy asking questions

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u/gargoyle11guy — 2 days ago

What I don’t get about people

People in groups like these always ask for friends or to have a mutual relationship but never respond when being messaged? Why even be apart of groups like these? Do other people in here feel the same about that because it happens a lot

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u/PsychologicalBell576 — 2 days ago

21M- Looking for friends :)

Gay guy from Illinois here lookin to make some friends! I game, chill with my cats, and I draw. :) currently playing mc! Don’t be afraid to text! Hope everyone has a great day/night!

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u/TheDeceasedPhoenix — 1 day ago