r/malehousewives

I've been thinking about this recently. Currently I don't really have a schedule, at least not a written down one, about what chores to do when etc. I of course clean up after dinner daily and all that but having a schedule outlining when to change towels, when to change bedding, when to do extra like clean the over etc. I don't have.

I think having a schedule, written down and agreed with my wife would be helpful - then we would both know what chores I should be done with / should do at any given time. She would then not be tempted (feel the need) to do them herself as she would know they are my responsibility and they are due at some time in the near future.

I suspect that in the past she would have found a schedule like that strange but we have come a long way and I have assumed so much of the chores that it would make sense at this point and would actually make her life easier I think.

Do you have a schedule in your home for the male housewife in your home?

If so would you mind sharing a little what it looks like?

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But I’m trying to take as much as I can off her plate. I work full time and am on my feet all day. She works late and makes a lot more than me.Despite being on my feet I come home everyday ready to start my second shift. Daily kitchen cleaning, cooking meals, all laundry, folding and putting up. Bathrooms, vacuuming. Errands. All of it. She’s grateful for all I do. But I love doing it because it because it makes me feel like a house wife. I don’t know if I’ll ever reveal what my motives are. I don’t see a need to right now. But pleasing her pleases me. I don’t want what I have to change so maybe not

I outed myself today, deliberately. My wife was on the front porch chatting with her friend Chloe and they had been there quite some time. Chloe has a vegetable garden and brings produce for my wife usually in Tupperware containers. I had just finished doing the dishes, including some of Chloe's Tupperware. On one of them there looked like a burn mark —the plastic was black and uneven. I couldn't get it off and it looked a little like burned on food. I took the Tupperware out to Chloe and apologized; told her I'd been doing the dishes and no matter what I tried I couldn't get the mark off. She said not to worry and looked me in the eye with what I think was a knowing stare as I stood there in my white maid's apron.

Last weekend, my wife let me cum after several months without. It was fantastic to connect with her and felt great.

I am halfway into the week and am having trouble finding motivation to clean.

I am still getting things done, but lack the eagerness I enjoyed before. I feel a bit guilty this is happening, like I was only working hard because of a fetish.

I have no regrets, just miss my ambition.

Any advice?

I’ve been lurking here for a while and finally wanted to introduce myself and share a bit about my day-to-day as a full-time male housewife. I’m in my 60s and will be early retiring soon, happily married, and we’ve gradually settled into a very clear female-led dynamic where I handle everything at home so my wife can just relax and enjoy life. My routine looks like this: I’m usually up at 6 a.m. in my maid uniform (black polo shirt and flared shorts that look like a skirt, plain black oxford shoes designed for wait staff, crisp white apron) and I stay in it all day, every day. I do all the cleaning—kitchen deep cleans, dusting, mopping, laundry, dishes, bed-making, shopping, cooking, and serving. I make her tea or little snacks without being asked, keep the house spotless, and quietly tidy up after her. If she leaves scraps on her plate, I incorporate them into my meal, which I eat separately and after her. No expecting thanks, just silent service that feels completely natural to both of us now. She’s always been a bit lazy and naturally dominant, and watching her lean into that more and more has been so fulfilling for me. She spends her days playing iPad games, browsing, watching TV, or going out with friends while I keep everything running in the background. Her comfort and leisure really are my only purpose, and it brings me a satisfaction I can’t even describe but which makes me shudder. Serving her feels like the most peaceful thing in the world. I’ve been simplifying my own mind too—lighter less demanding novels and always thinking ahead to the next task, focusing only on household tasks. It’s made everything even smoother. I have gynecomastia and wear a C cup bra which complements my lifestyle exactly. There is no kink to this, we long ago gave up sex and intimacy and she has the master bedroom while I have the smallest room, saving the other room for guests. When I retire I'm looking forward to devoting all day every day to my wife. If other male housewives or partners in similar setups are reading this, how did your dynamic evolve? Any tips for making her life even more effortless or for intensifying the quiet service side of things? Anyone else wear a uniform full-time?