r/match

Getting ZERO matches in Bogota
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Getting ZERO matches in Bogota

Hii! I don’t really get a ton of matches (1 per month) but lately it has been literally zero! Help me find the culprit detail? Haha or is Tinder just messed up? I even have paid bullshit subscription too with no luck.

Looking for something serious, this is my bio:

Odio la etapa de chatear; quieres ir a la montaña? ☀️🌎🏔️

Respect and care above all else, not here for games
Musician, engineer, and traveler! ❤️ I love my active life: movement, dancing, playing, getting lost in the city 🎶

u/Zuliandres — 1 day ago
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Did I get unmatched?

I’m going on a second date this week with this girl. She texted me today to confirm. I checked the app and see that her profile is no longer there. Was I unmatched? How to tell the difference between unmatched and deleted account? Should I ask her about it on our second date?

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u/Bob_Burgero — 1 day ago
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Looking for My Person, My Partner, My Forever

I’m a 35-year-old man from Hyderabad, looking for a genuine connection that can naturally grow into love, companionship, and eventually marriage. I’ve been through a divorce, and while that chapter of my life taught me many important lessons, it hasn’t changed my belief in love. I still believe that love can happen again, and sometimes the right person comes into our life when we least expect it.

I’m looking for someone kind, understanding, emotionally mature, and genuine — someone who believes that a strong relationship is built on trust, respect, communication, loyalty, and understanding. I don’t expect perfection, because none of us are perfect. I simply want a relationship where two people can be themselves, support each other, laugh together, stand beside each other during difficult times, and celebrate the beautiful moments of life together.

I love meaningful conversations, sharing little moments, creating memories, exploring new places, and making the person I care about feel special. For me, love is not just about romance; it is about choosing each other every day, respecting each other’s dreams, and creating a peaceful and happy life together.

I’m not looking for something temporary or casual. I’m here with a sincere intention to meet someone who is also looking for a serious relationship that can lead to engagement and marriage. I would love to start with friendship, understand each other genuinely, and let the relationship grow naturally without rushing.

I believe everyone deserves a second chance at happiness, and I’m ready to give love another beautiful chance. ❤️ If you’re someone who values honesty, loyalty, affection, family, and a meaningful partnership, I’d be happy to know you and see where this journey takes us.

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u/Outrageous_Ant_1642 — 1 day ago
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Over sensitive swiping

I will be scrolling through a profile and if I so much as move my finger by 1 degree it swipes.

I turned my touch sensitivity down even. How do I stop this pos app from swiping when I barely fucking touch it???

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u/SoGoodAtAllTheThings — 3 days ago
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Banned for no reason

I made a profile, paid and was banned right after I started matching with people. I have Apple wed through their process and they said they won't consider it, I violated the terms of service but they won't tell me what I supposedly did and I know I didn't do anything. I was only on there for like 5 minutes so nobody could have reported me and there was nothing offensive or scammy in my profile.

If they aren't going to lift the ban I want my money back and I want assurance that my profile is deleted. I don't want my pictures floating around on a site that I can't access.

I tried filing with the BBB but they said "match said you have to contact them" which I DID but it's all AI no.real person.

This is unacceptable! They can't take my money for a service that they didn't provide and have access to my pictures that I don't! What can I do??

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u/Weird-Internet-9541 — 4 days ago
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So confused about "super note"

So in the Discovery tab, I can "like" someone without paying for the dumb Super Likes.

However, sometimes - and there is NO indication of why - such likes cannot be sent a message without also buying Super Notes. (I'm a paying user by the way.) But sometimes a regular message goes through. And of course, until the match is reciprocated, I've no idea what super note did get through or not, or if a regular message got through, since sometimes it lets my type a regular message and THEN sends me to the "buy some super notes" screen without stating if the message was sent.

Can someone explain this nonsense?

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u/Novel-Respect-4511 — 5 days ago
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Single Dating status in match

I haven't seen this discussed yet, but I see people who have "Single Dating" as their status, as opposed to "divorced" or "widowed", etc. I thought perhaps it meant never married, but when I tried setting my own status to "never married" under my marriage history, it comes up as "never married" (I switched it to that & back while my account was hidden). There doesn't seem to be any option that will result in "single dating" in the list I'm presented. Is that an option in another tier? Is it a legacy item? I'm curious to know what it meant/means.

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u/UnlikelyRegret4 — 7 days ago
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Account blocked

Just wondering if anyone else has had their account blocked for no apparent reason? I made a new account yesterday evening and had set up my profile and ended up paying for the 6 months subscription. I started talking to some people yesterday and I was able to use the app until this afternoon until it had logged me out. When I tried to log back in it said account blocked by match.

I don't understand why and I'm really annoyed as I was having a good conversation with someone. And obviously because I've paid for 6 months and had my account blocked in less than 24hrs.

I know I haven't broken any rules or anything. I'm just a bit baffled. The only thing I can think is that I was adding/changing my profile as I've not used a dating app before so I was trying to figure out all the different settings etc so I don't know if because I updated my profile a few times it's got flagged or something?

Idk. I'm confused, upset and annoyed 😭 & the customer service email hasn't been any help 😑

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u/Popular_Ad_8248 — 13 days ago
▲ 1 r/match+2 crossposts

Looking for a genuine gf🙂‍↕️

Am currently in 2nd yr chem engineering student at hbtu kanpur

Looking for a cute, pretty, understanding gf

Am 5'6 height btw

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u/Educational_Staff543 — 13 days ago
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Phantom matches

For about the last 2 - 3 weeks, I’ve been getting several notifications by email that “XXXX likes you”, with an age in my age range, and a real town nearby. Sometimes it’s preceded by a notification that the same person “viewed you”.

But when I go to the Match app, there are no new “likes”, and if I click on the “View their profile” button in the email, it takes me to an empty page.

I know it can happen, the person “likes” then changes their mind I guess and blocks you. But this has happened several times over the last 2 or 3 weeks. Anyone else seeing that?

I do have a paid subscription.

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u/HurryHurryHippos — 14 days ago