r/oldest_daughter

I don't want to have to ask

I'm getting married in october, and my parents have not been super involved - but keep telling me that they are available and I just need to ask them to do whatever I need. I wish I didn't have to ask, I wish they would offer. Why do I always have to be the one to ask and plan and delegate??? Why does it only get done if I do it? Couldn't there be a balance???

Have I backed myself into an emotional corner with them because I am so self sufficient? 😭

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u/jmryo — 11 days ago