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Not a single dollar in a year helps

I don't know what to do anymore. I've never earned more than $100 USD and I've had this site for two years. Can you tell me or give me some advice, please? A scammer stole all my content before, and to this day I owe him $60 USD, which I can't even manage to pay off. Please, any advice would be greatly appreciated. 🙏🏻

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u/bigFun3920 — 17 hours ago

Custom request awkwardness

How do you get past doing customs that make you feel awkward?

Example, person wants pee content, no problem. But says "maybe before you pee you "find" the camera and you get embarrassed."

Im cool do do customs but I am so awkward when it comes to the acting side of it.

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u/Desperate_Ad_89 — 18 hours ago

Any Straight older men making content??

Im a 65 YO man... 7 years ago I had a large following on Insta and on Reddit where i posted sexy pictures and nudes (under a different Nom de Plume) but Wife was freaked about the sausage fest that was over flowing my inbox... I never sold content... I dont even know how to find out if there is a market for grandpa bods... I do know that the customer base is going to be 99% gay and dont care... Ill flirt with gay guys, but sex isnt ever going to happen... Any advice or thoughts would be awesome...

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u/RunDownTheHighway — 16 hours ago

Locked message with only text

So this guy just got really huffy because we started dripsexting and one of the messages I sent was just locked text (really sexual and explicit but just text). I reminded him this was the idea behind sexting, but I am wrong? Should every single message in dripsexting contain a pic/video?

And this raises another question for me: I feel as if dripsexting is not as worth it as a plain, paid-in-advance sexting session, as it ends up taking up much more of my time, because the guys unlock when they want and I can’t just stand there waiting for them to unlock. So I’ll send a pic for $5, which with my sexting rates would be 1’30’’ - if he unlocks, say, 4min later and I’ve been waiting, that’s not cost effective for me :(

Thoughts on that? Thank you!!

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u/PetiteParisian — 20 hours ago

Discovering my niche

Hi everyone! I’m currently experimenting and trying to find my niche. I’ve been building my page for about 4 months, and I’ve been learning everything on my own, mostly thanks to all the valuable information shared here, so thank you for that. I’ve noticed that there are many subs who really enjoy conversation and connection. I genuinely find it easy to be kind, caring, and interested in getting to know someone — asking about their day, their hobbies, and what they enjoy outside of the platform. At the same time, I definitely have my more playful and wild side too haha.
The girlfriend experience doesn’t really feel like the right fit for me at the moment, because I don’t feel comfortable offering that kind of dynamic from the very beginning.I was wondering if there is a specific niche where people enjoy not only explicit content, but also some level of attention, guidance, and a more personal dynamic (like being cared for, receiving direction, or having someone to connect with).Sorry if this is a basic question — I’m still learning and trying to understand my audience better. I’d really appreciate any advice or experiences you can share.

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u/Mayavlvttt — 21 hours ago

Help with pricing?

Hey y’all! I’m not sure if this is the right place to ask this but I’d like help with pricing for a client that I provide online companionship to.
He and I only have s3xting sessions but he’d like me to start messaging when I’m intimate with someone else. Like, describing what I’ll be doing or what I’m wearing, etc.
My question is how do I even go about quantifying and valuing that? It’s not like I’m going to be spending 10 minutes texting him whilst being intimate with my partner.

Possible notes of importance:
-Our dynamic isn’t priced per text; we usually have 1-3 hour sessions.
-we’ve had this online relationship for years which has grown in intimacy
-he always pays well (he pays my rate plus a little extra)
-$75/hour for him; rate increases if I’m using toys and sending videos. (Is this too low for other potential clients or is this a reasonable price?)

I’d really like to provide joy to this client but also I gotta get that paperrrrr.
Thank you for your help! ☺️✌️

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u/Sad-Huckleberry-4841 — 23 hours ago

Help with growth

Really trying to grow my page feeling kind of stuck. Been considering a manager did my first paid promotion that we’re going out today. Thoughts?

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u/izzy-barrett — 18 hours ago

My % getting worse

Anyone possibly know why my % is getting worse? I’m making good steady income, get a good amount of tips, tons of new subs and lots of page interactions everyday yet somehow my % is getting worse every day…..My page is doing extremely well but for some reason every time I check my statistics it’s getting worse? 😆 Any advice on why this might be happening?

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u/Naughty-MILF2025 — 1 day ago

platforms for selling (help)

Hi everyone, I’m a Brazilian girl and I’ve been selling content for a while. I’ve noticed lately that my posts are going viral outside of Brazil, so I’d like to know what platforms you use abroad besides OnlyFans. I’m currently in the process of changing my name and updating all my documents, so I can’t have an OF account until everything is updated and I get a passport (I’ve never had one), and OF doesn’t accept Brazilian ID cards. The platforms I use in Brazil aren't well-known internationally, and the payment methods are geared toward the Brazilian market, so I’m pretty lost—my traffic is coming from outside Brazil, but the followers I’m gaining can’t actually buy my content, lol.
Latina girls, which platform do you use for LATAM? American/European girls, which platform do you use besides OF?

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u/Choice-Map-343 — 17 hours ago

Traffic from X

Hey posting from my friend’s account. I recently made X in a very specific niche and got 70 subs in a few days but 0 clicks to my OF link. I put direct OF link without oopsie, beacons etc. is it normal and how many subs on Twitter I should have to get stable traffic to my OF from there? Would be greatful for your advice!

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u/Active_Study_7921 — 1 day ago

Free Page

So I've read other creators saying that they have a free OF page, in addition to the paid one, just for PPV content. So everyone has access to mh PPV stuff all the time, npt just when I decide to send it out. It sounds like a good idea to me, but are there any negatives to this? Like will people skip the paid page and just go for the free one for the PPV?

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u/shortixxxrock — 21 hours ago

Hola, una pregunta

Bueno yo tengo una cuenta free dónde me hago siempre un poco más de 5000$ cada mes y he estado pensado en abrir otra cuenta de pago, quería poner la suscripción entre 100$ o 150$ y llenar el perfil con buenos videos, anales, bg, masturbación etc, también fotos de todo tipo y así. Mi pregunta es creen que este bien el precio por poner videos que ya tengo grabados solo tendría que publicarlos y ya, o es muy poco o es muy costoso?

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u/Tiny_Idea_2825 — 1 day ago

Rate my Reddit?

Would anyone mind taking a peak at my account and giving me some feedback on my account here? ;)

Im rebuilding consistency here after a break, but im struggling on getting upvotes on my posts.... is my promo content just junk?

Thank youuuu!

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u/harpervalentinexx — 1 day ago

How do I re-establish paid boundaries with a long-term "GFE" fan who stopped gifting/tipping?

Hey everyone, looking for advice on handling a long-term fan without burning a bridge, while protecting my time and business.

The Situation:
2-Year Dynamic: Daily casual texting (GFE check-ins) and a weekly 30–40 min video call. Mostly friendly, spicy only 4–5 times a year. He’s a very nice, shy guy, on the spectrum for sure but I genuinely enjoy the rapport.

Then: He used to buy heavy off my Amazon list (~$15k+ total over time) and send a few hundred here and there, plus $5 tips on daily posts.

Now: The big gifts/tips stopped completely a couple of months ago, but he still expects daily texting and the weekly 30–40 min video calls.

I’ve started pulling back on texts, but he’s still asking for our regular Friday call. He’s gotten too comfortable getting full GFE attention for free/pennies. I’m not naturally pushy and don't want to be mean, but this is taking up real time and energy.

Questions:

  1. How do I gently script a transition back to paid calls/GFE without sounding harsh?
  2. Has anyone successfully reset boundaries with a fan who got used to free attention?
  3. Is it better to set a clear price tag now, or just phase the attention out?

Appreciate any scripts or advice!

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u/oystersinmypocket2 — 2 days ago

I found my first whale. What can I do here?

I (like an idiot) sent him my cash app. Luckily though, OF only gave me a warning. Does OF permit you to sell links to private groups on Discord/Telegram? I'm finally getting to the point where it makes sense to tier my subs. Or would a VIP page make more sense here? My page isn't really at the size yet where a VIP page makes a ton of sense. Curious what you guys do. Thanks!!!

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u/yaboipale — 2 days ago

A fan just charged back 2K+ after I declined becoming his bf?!

Had this fan spending a ton and texting me nonstop. Kept saying he wanted to be my “cash sub,” wanted me to empty his wallet type of thing but I still just treated him normal. He was going through some stuff so I spent 3 days genuinely listening and trying to make him feel better.

Then he started asking for my WhatsApp? wanting things to get more personal.. Told him I don’t give out my number been doing this for years never given any fan my personal info, that’s just a boundary I keep. He said fine, he’d end his sub. I said that’s his call but asked if all the spending was only because he expected something personal back cuz I genuinely get way more than he gives me from fans that want nothing in return & showed him screenshots as proof lol

Over $2K he’d spent just disappeared from my earnings right after.

Not mad someone unsubbed, that’s obviously their right. What actually pisses me off is spending days being genuinely kind to someone, then I just set a normal boundary, and this is what happens.

Be careful when someone starts spending a lot fast and start asking for personal info

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u/Content-Pace-3962 — 2 days ago

Had someone subscribe (free profile) and buy a bunch of content from my wall/posts. I’m guessing this will end in a charge back?

They just subscribed and about 45mins later bought a bunch of content. Haven’t got messaged by them or anything. Is this normal?

Guess it’s just a toss up on whether it’ll end up as a charge back… from reading up on here since people getting charged back up to a year later.

Been doing this since the beginning of the year and still figuring things out

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u/MaxSterlingz — 1 day ago

What made you realize that being a good creator is more than just posting good content?

I’ve been thinking about this a lot lately. I’m currently going through a diagnosis, and honestly, creating new content hasn’t been my strongest point recently. At the same time, I still need to support myself and pay for my studies, so stepping away completely isn’t really an option for me.

It’s made me wonder if being a good creator is really about constantly creating more and more, or if there’s something deeper to building a genuine relationship with the people who support you.
What made you realize that for yourself?

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u/Dry_Owl_4570 — 1 day ago

how do you manage your OF content? what is/are your strategie/s? what are the ones that don't work for sure?

just anything you can share. i have a lot of content made but it's all disorganised and so is my head

EDIT: im talking more specifically about how you organise your posting

for example: when you do a new photo session, do you only post that until you finish and then continue with the next session our you mix everything up?
if you do more than one niche, you just keep posting the content all mixed up? how many pics per post? etc. like what are your DOs and DONTs

i know i have to find my own way, and i think one of the greatest ways of inspiring myself is reading you guys!

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u/miapink33 — 2 days ago