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Dealing with extreme hate on one of best marketing platforms

I have recently had my instagram reach the starting stages of blowing up! I’m reaching hundreds of thousands of views all the way up to 4million on one.

I post controversial stuff I’m not going to lie but it’s not extreme. The hate I’ve been receiving atm is so extreme though. From being accused of being a racist, to getting called a Troon and being absolutely blasted online. There’s a lot. I’m even getting told to k1ll myself.

Now if this was me and my posts that get 20 comments yeah okay but this is hundreds to hundreds of thousands of people straight up bullying me in the comments disguising it with “rage bait”

Now I don’t want to delete these posts or turn off commenting because I’m currently getting so many monthly views and I want to keep riding the algorithm.

I guess I’m asking is there anyway I can turn the algorithm back around? Start getting the people who actually want to see my content to see it?

I feel like instagram moderators are purposely making me a lol cow at this point.

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u/purrfectkitty666 — 12 hours ago

Shadow banned on reddit?

So, recently I have been having issues posting, a lot of big subs in my niche just straight deleting my posts instantly despite me having posted there for years. I haven't broken any rules, and when I message the mods they ignore me. Reddit is the only platform I promote on, so this is getting frustrating.

Should I just create a second account? I will need to build up karma again and that sounds annoying

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u/JayKRowling — 9 hours ago

Bought the most expensive subscription on twitter and views are under 100..

I bought the most expensive subscription and posted 3 pictures and they only got 29 and 61 views. It’s honestly a bit disappointing when I got promised I’d get more views. What can I do? Is this normal? I’ve posted a picture of my face and my booty

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u/Proof-Raisin-8454 — 1 day ago

Experience with warnings from OF?

Hi there! Trying this post again as it keeps being removed with no explanation.

I am guessing at this point it may be because of the screenshot photo I have attached to my first two attempts so this one I'm trying without!

Has anyone had experience with notifications from OnlyFans for TOS breaches? I received three notifications today but they are rather vague and I am left wondering whether they were just written warnings to not repeat the TOS breach or if my account is going to be banned. For now, I can still use my account as usual but the warning gave me a link to OnlyFans' "Deactivation Appeal Form" so I am rather worried at the moment and unsure of what to do!

Any advice or input is greatly appreciated!! Thank yooouuu

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u/lexil0v3 — 1 day ago

Blocking by IP address

This may be useful to others. I sent an email to the OF support email and received help within 24 hrs.

I recently had someone making multiple accounts to message me after I restricted them. I reported them to OF and Only Fans blocked their IP addresses from accessing my profile and issued them a warning.

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u/New_Skill3221 — 1 day ago

Anyone else absolutely tired of the instagram algorithm change? It's become so useless.

Instagram has gone to complete shit this month with the new algorithm. I'm not even mad about having to put the link in highlights but the quality of views is straight garbage now. Reels now either go viral but gain you extremely little followers, interactions and subs or get high interaction but little views. I'll post a reel and it will get 50k+ views (80% non followers) but only 500 likes, 10 comments and 5 follows which basically converts to 0 new subs. Then my next reel will only get 8k views (40% non followers) but 1k likes and 30 comments which results in basicly no subs since hardly any new people really saw it.

I have 52k followers on my main account I started a few months ago and up until the last couple weeks I was gaining 3-5k followers a week usually. I've only gained 2k followers in the last 2 weeks despite getting millions of views. Yesterday I had around 100k reel views across my 3 accounts yet only 7 new subs on OF. A month ago that would have been easily a 15+ sub day plus 1k new followers. Tiktok still gets lots of views and followers but has always converted horribly since you can't mention OF or put a link anywhere other than your Instagram. Basically all Instagram cares about now is Skip rate and keeping people watching reels instead of actually showing them to people who are interested in your content.

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u/escobarlives69 — 1 day ago

Sommerloch ?

Hi , ich habe gerade gelesen das bei OF oftmals ein sommerloch eintritt . Also die fans weniger kaufen und interagieren... ist das wirklich so ?

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u/Own_Cod_3061 — 1 day ago

IG restrictions to reach without reason?

So I've obviously read that IG restricts the reach of SWs for numerous reasons but now my reach has been restricted and it doesn't tell me why or what I could do to undo that.

For context I got eligible for the Meta verified Mark on Monday after I already paid for some ads to have at least 100Followers and it feels like my reach has been restricted since then even though I only noticed the exclamation point today.

So I kinda feels like IG took my money and then restricted me without even telling me why, even though their own help claims that I should have more information on why I was restricted on the account status page.

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u/LunaLilithLoveswood — 1 day ago

TikTok link in bio: is it as stressful as in IG?

Hi Ladies! So I've been on IG for a couple of months now but I'm finally taking the plunge and starting a TikTok too. I've never had TikTok in my personal life , so I'm coming in completely blind lol

My main question is about the bio link. I use Beacons as my link aggregator... has anyone had good or bad experiences putting a Beacons link directly in the TikTok bio? Does it work smoothly, or does TikTok restrict reach the way IG has been doing lately with external links?

Also curious: is the TikTok bio link situation as chaotic and ever-changing as IG has been? It feels like every few months there's a new "rule" on IG and something that worked fine suddenly gets you restricted. Is TikTok the same kind of moving target, or is it more stable?

Any other tips for the bio/funnel setup on TikTok would be massively appreciated. Thanks in advance! 🤘

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u/lady_smurfette_of — 1 day ago

Did conversion go down noticeable since we have the link in highlights?

Just wondering how/if conversion changed for y'all.

I had a long break from insta after all my accounts were perpetually shadowbanned, I deleted all content but they got "permanently" banned after a few weeks of them being completely empty. They just randomly gave them all back (after 20 days😑😒 meta can't get their shit together), and I started posting again and they seem normal but they're slow on gaining traction, like fresh accounts. Only one of them can take a normal link without being flagged, all the others have it in highlights.

I'm hoping because so many of us are using link in highlights now, guys will pick up soon and conversion should stabilize, but so far is not looking very good for me.

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u/Prize-Association-30 — 2 days ago

Is it OK to back out?

So I responded to an ad on one of the selling forums, and the customer reached out to me with a script in mind of what he wanted me to do and while it wasn’t vanilla it wasn’t that extreme. He quoted me a price (60) we accepted, and I gave him my timeline which was only a day. And I wake up the next morning to find out that his first request had already been filled, and he sent me a second request, which was much more detailed and had ass to mouth and what’s a much longer script and instead of the 60 originally promised, he was now only going to pay 25. I talked to him out of the.ass to mouth. But the whole situation just is off in my opinion and he has not paid me yet. I also feel like if I do do this for the guy, it will set a precedent that he can do this to other girls and I don’t want that on my conscience

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u/alexaisking — 2 days ago

Anyone dealt with targeted doxxing + leaked content from old OF that won't go down? Need service recs

I used to have an OF 6 years ago. I quit and took down all my content myself. Recently I found out there's an obsessive group of people who doxxed me and are still actively posting about me out of pure revenge on a specific thread. They spread lies, reposting my old contents (screenshots) , spreading lies and someone been sending death threats to me for the past 3 days lol
I've already tried DMCA takedowns myself and they worked for leaked contents but now i'm dealing with reuploads on this one Southeast Asian forum and I have no idea where it's hosted or what jurisdiction it operates under, so I genuinely don't know if standard DMCA or Western copyright law even reaches them. I'm also not in a country where reporting to authorities is a realistic option so i think getting rid of my digital footprint for now is a good move.
Has anyone used a paid service that actually does the investigation work and figures out where the site is hosted and handles the takedown for you, rather than just blindly firing off a takedown form?

looking foward for your advice! thanks everyone for reading

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u/kawamax — 1 day ago

What "Link in bio" sites are you successfully using?

Im currently using link tree but curious what other options there are. I looked at the milkshake app but see that it's against their TOS to link to adult content. What other options are easy to use, neat and clean interface, and allows for a 'build your own site' experience (like Milkshake)?

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u/hotwife-korra-rae — 2 days ago
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I wrote a poem

I started my onlyfans a little over 2 months ago and wrote this poem about my experience so far, pulled mostly from actual messages with a few tweaks (artistic license)… interested to know how other people’s experiences compare!

It's fine (you didn't squirt this time)
Nice to meet you, love the girl next door vibe,
Tbh you’d prob get more if it was cheaper to subscribe.
No pressure at all, it’s been fun just flirting,
But I gotta ask… any luck with the squirting?
Not sure what others ask for but here is my plea:
Latex gloves, spitting, is that something I could see?
How ‘bout you in lingerie and a hard hat,
Or sucking off a dildo, I'd be down with that.
But wait, don’t forget the power of your voice!
“Bet you wish this was your cock?” would be a good choice.
This platform sucks but you still got some cake.
I'll def tip you later if I’m still awake.
And for real, no hard feelings it’s fine.
Thanks for trying maybe you can squirt another time.

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u/Certain-Potato-1308 — 3 days ago

Getting Reddit messages to of

Obviously you post and your inbox blows up
So are you upfront in stating you respond on of only or chat a bit then direct them there?

My profile is free with most nsfw as pay only

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u/Resident-Double-570 — 2 days ago

Skin care advice/tips?

I want an entire glow up after I finally give birth. Curious does anyone else bleach their down there? I feel like I’m much darker than I’ve ever been. I don’t mind it but I wouldn’t mind trying to lighten it some. Aside from that, does anyone else deal with an occasional red bump or two on their butt? It’s not acne, but it’s a scar now that never goes away. I get insecure about it when filming occasionally bc I wonder if it looks like acne or something. I’ve tried different oils and stuff but nothing fades it. 😐

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u/Ready_Drama_6724 — 2 days ago

Chicas de Venezuela

para las creadoras de Venezuela, qué método utilizan para retirar? en una ocasión use pago mundo, una cantidad mínima de 30$ y me llegó a los 3 días sin ningún problema, había dejado de hacer only pero ahora estoy volviendo, sin embargo estoy viendo por redes que le dejan malos comentarios a pago mundo que le están robando el dinero ¿que otros métodos están usando aparte de ese?

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u/Criisbell — 2 days ago