r/pastorskids

I’ve had the sneaking suspicion since I was a child that my grandfather (a pastor) has led a double life. My suspicion is that he possibly cheated on my grandmother or at the minimum, had a pornography addiction. Any pastors or pastors kids willing to share their stories in relation to this topic? My grandfather is actually the best man I’ve ever known, so it’s ironic to be asking this question. I could go into the reasons why I’m suspicious but I’m more interested in real stories of people who have discovered duplicity in their own lives or in the lives of their close relatives. Thanks!!