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26 [m4m] top here, lf kachat

got bored due to my client dint have much task for me today! haha bit hrny and got time to be freak at chat haha. if you are bottom, tara hmu, and lets have a chat

me: 6’0, into thiccc in all aspects.. 🍑, di naman maarte so dont hesitate to hmu, loves to play ball and run pag may time, into kdramas pag free time

you: bottom. can be treated like a girl.. haha, and bottom uli.. idk what to add

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u/kl4ythompson — 1 day ago

23 [M4M] LF Fun

Hello! I'm looking for fun. Feel free to dm me and let's trade pics on tg 🙂

About Me:
5'8"
Slim/Twink
T
No place, but willing to split cost (50/50) for check in
From QC

About You:
Has a breeding kink
Preferably has place or willing to split cost (50/50) for check in
Free every Saturday morning/afternoon

Please attach a short intro/details about you when messaging. Thanks!

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u/apart-the-part — 1 day ago

25 [m4m] Tropa fun

m 25 from tomas morato

Yow, anyone wants to be tropa outside tapos you’re making me your slave in private? I’m a kinky man down for anything, if you’re into spa fun, outdoor fun, orgy with men or orgy with women, and any wild ones. Message me.

got vids I can share.

Teegee

@ecoecofo

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u/Fantastic-Box-1721 — 1 day ago

30 [F4F] A cozy third place

I just finished rewatching Ted Lasso and I can't stop thinking about the Dutch concept of Gezellig. It has no direct translation in English or Tagalog, but it describes that specific, warm, heart-opening feeling of togetherness, the kind of coziness that you feel kapag nasa tamang lugar ka, kasama ang mga tamang tao, at walang nagmamadali. As adults, it seems like our lives revolves around two places, bahay at trabaho. One day, you'll just notice na wala na yung physical o emotional sanctuary kung saan pwede kang pumunta para lang maging tao, huminga, at maging payapa kasama ang iba (or a third place, ika nga).

I'm looking to build or find that third place with people. Not necessarily something romantic, but genuine, long-term adult friendships o soul sisters. Stuff like maybe, we can make fresh pasta together, test out recipes, drink wine with no pressure! We can most definitely watch films and TV shows and sit on them and talk about how stupid or profound they are. Just talk about life and maybe discover things within us along the way. Lahat tayo pagod sa life and sa sistema ng gobyerno at flood control at impeachment and lahat ng effects nito sa buhay natin as average mamamayan, so it might be nice to have a place and people of sanctuary, ano?

If this resonates with you, let's connect? Tell me about the last film that made you feel something, or last experience you've had that led you to contemplate how fucked the world is and if you think there's something we can do about it.

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u/araline_cristelle — 2 days ago

23 [m4m] tall nerd lf potential boyfriend ;p

hey! help ya tall boi find his potential partner!

here are my deets:
- 23, mature; yours to determine if true haha
- 5'9 - 5'10, pero gentle and softboi umasta :3 (pwede rin bad boi haha)
- lean chub; not super, proportional naman sa height (daily walks for weeks alr, planning to be in better shape)
- moreno ;)
- nerdy (heck yea smart) and has sense of humor (yapper!!)
- loves pokemon, sci-fi/fi, supernatural, old songs (70s to 90s)
- qc (w/ a roomie)
- 6/10? you be the judge ;)
- V and switch :) i'll adjust sayo haha
- engineer in it field :)
stable, di naman po magiging dependent, pero nakakakilig parin gifts 😔

abt u:
- abt the same height ( ++ points if short or tall king)
- understanding 😲
- has good sense of humor (i like it when we make jokes while sucking each other)
- preferably a versa and a switch as well
- stable :)
into ltr or exclusive fubu setup (for safety)
must have a place nearby!!

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u/yippiedooyahoo — 1 day ago

35 [F4F] LF kalambingan physically tonight

Like:

soft, slow, sweet halikan
suck, lick ng boobs
pussy? lets not go there if we are not ready and comfy

Tonight sana kasi ive been craving this for too long

About you:
- age 28 to 40
- femme/girl (non nego)
- PRETTY
- willing to send pic first
- exploring
- clean (hygienic and disease free)
- average body to chubby
- around makati/manda/bgc para near lang to me

About me:
same as you :)

I want you to be my friend as well. Para we experience both worlds, friendship and sex. Im bi, i reserve romantic relationship with men, kaya this is for frienship and sex only. If youre looking for the same, maybe we can vibe?

No threesome please..

See you in my inbox :)

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u/Lower_Deal_7479 — 2 days ago

21 [F4A] basang basa na ako dito oh

hi, nagjijingerbells ako rn at naghahanap lang ako ng makakausap ko tapos mamanyakin ako nang todo. i'm so fucking horny rn at wet super wet na rin ng puke ko hahaha parang gusto ko nalang ng kakantot sakin nang todo tas kakainin maigi puke at sisipsipin suso ko

about me:

thicc

i have big boobies

matambok na puke

super wild

sub

about u:

pls be older than me

wild

loves dirty talking (hehe gusto ko tagalog pls)

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u/badonkd0nk — 2 days ago

28 [F4F] LF someone to play and suck my 🍒

Hi! I'm looking for someone to suck, play, and lamas my 🍒🍒 near qc/manila. Just been craving lately for book sucking and also momol. Can also do it vice versa.

About me:

  • femme
  • wfh girly
  • got experience
  • plus size with big 🍒
  • clean and hygienic

About you:

  • working professional
  • clean and hygienic
  • bi curious or femme
  • small or big 🍒 haha any so I can suck you too 🤭

DM if interested so we can talk more about it.

P.S.NO MEN! NO TO THREESOMES! Won't entertain any DMs from you so don't bother.

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u/runformewillya — 2 days ago

23 [F4F] Looking for a gay guy who can pretend to be my partner

I (23F) am a lesbian, a foreign student studying in the Philippines. I go to a college in the Taft area.

Long story short, my home country is a very religious place where queerness is criminalized and severe punishments like jail time and deportation can be inflicted upon you if you are found out.

Most of my classmates and friends here are from my home country, and they are all quite religious and homophobic as well. However I ended up becoming close friends with a few of them and came out to them (in my defense, they acted quite open minded at first). Then they ended up being crazy homophobic towards me, and I had to distance myself from them.

However, I am very afraid that they will out me to the rest of the students in our section. It's an unfortunate possibility because they said some things like that to me during my last conversation with them. If they out me to everyone, and especially if word gets out to my family, my life would become quite difficult. To put it lightly.

So I'm looking for a gay guy around my age to pose as my "boyfriend" and do some sort of soft launch on instagram/fb and keep it up for at least a couple of months, then there would be substantial evidence that I am "not a lesbian."

Any straight-passing gay guy around my age (23-26) in my area (Taft Manila) (preferably someone who has a boyfriend already), who's willing to help me out? It would also be nice to make some queer friends along the way.

I'm not sure if this is the right place to post this, please direct me if there's a better page to get some help. Thank you.

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u/le-ssapphic — 3 days ago

25 [M4M] bro premium

Hey any masc bros out there looking for tropas that can way beyond tropas. Looking for vs for curiosity. Lets hang out in public and kiss in private. Im 5’9, ave bod, good yapper and a kisser. Masc and mostly sides pero lately up for exp! Hmu for comp test

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u/zrnxjcb — 3 days ago

30 [F4A] Looking for regular conversations

I miss having someone I can talk to regularly. Not necessarily all day, every day, but consistently enough that we actually get to know each other. I’m open to friendship, and some of my longest sapphic friendships started on Reddit, so who knows?

A little about me:

- I work in marketing, specifically advertising.

- I’m usually the person my friends approach when they have problems. My hunches are right around 9 times out of 10. Maybe it’s intuition, or maybe I’ve just done enough therapy to recognize patterns. 😅

- I’m a Swiftie and a mood listener. Right now, I’m in my basic white girl pop era, but I also love jazz.

- I occasionally watch theater and enjoy conversations about art, work, relationships, human behavior, and whatever random rabbit hole catches our attention.

- I have my own life going on and won’t demand your time or attention. If you genuinely want to spend time talking to me, I’ll appreciate it.

- I’m warm and supportive, but I also match the effort and energy I receive.

I’m looking for someone warm, thoughtful, and capable of depth. You don’t need to be serious all the time. I love humor, brain rot, and completely unserious conversations too. I just want to know there’s a real person underneath it all. Someone curious, self-aware, emotionally mature, and able to have meaningful conversations when they matter.

I tend to know fairly quickly whether I’ll vibe with someone based on how they converse, sometimes even after only a few exchanges. I know the kind of energy I want in my circle, and I value people who have substance and lives of their own.

No physical preferences. Please be 29 or older. This is strictly SFW, laid-back, and pressure-free. I’m open to eventually hanging out if we vibe, but there’s no need to force anything. Let’s talk and see if the conversation flows naturally.

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u/Any_Track4546 — 3 days ago

27 [M4M] Throuple?

is anyone interested in throupling?

perks:
(1) economically beneficial (rent and utilities x/3)
(2) travel triplets
(3) more fun in bed?? haha

it’s not everyone’s thing but i cant be the only one wahaha

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u/EnvironmentalOne676 — 3 days ago
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35 [M4M] Let me try again

Hi everyone I'm not really expecting na I will find a romantic relationship here but maybe it's worth trying. As someone na on his mid-30s and the crowd is young it might be hard to find it here but let's see.

About Me:

35 and a Southie

Currently 63 Kgs (working out and in Cal deficit).

Has skin texture but hygienic and presentable.

Loves to wear perfume.

Discreet in a way but not shy to show my sexuality when I'm on my safe zone.

Working from home but go to the office once in a while.

A bit shy in person but a yapper when feels safe.

Sides for now but VB when it comes to that.

Emotionally Available.

Last relationship was in Sept 2016, so single for about 8-9 years.

About you:

I'm open to ages 27-up, not really into any physical preference sabi nga ng mga friends ko ibibigay ni Lord ang kailangan mo at hindi ang gusto mo.

Someone who is outgoing has that vibrant sunshine energy.

Decent and Hygienic (Non-nego)

Working Professional (Non-nego)

Open to sides for now but prefers T or VT when it comes to that.

Emotionally available too

Slide me a DM if you're interested.

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u/Lopsided_Chicken7764 — 3 days ago

30 [F4F] trying this again :)

So heyy. Actually not sure what exactly is my intent in posting here again. Blaming the weather 😛

Maybe im looking for a kachikahan about politics? Life? Travels? An errands companion is nice too. Or we can play ml and i hope u r good cos i am 🤣 we can play switch games here sa bahay. We can discover nice restos / coffee shops around metro manila... Also can go to my place just for cuddles 😬😬😬 Or momol? Haha. Really... anything.

Working so hard lately and a release from all the chaos wud be nice hehe. Bawal lang magtrauma dump or rant about ex cos girl, i got a lot on my plate na 🤣 chill lang tayo dito.

So yeah hit me up if youre interested:

Me:

- fit (cycling, pilates) travels a lot, professional, femme, confident with my looks naman :), good hygiene, has a place, good sense of humour, gusto ng mga nanay 🤪 good swimmer (and diver too 🤪)

You:

- 26 to 32yo only. Not dds, femme, fit, di palibre, no contagious disease, no putok, same wavelength :) No butch or mascs pls 😅

We can exchange pics for vibe check.

I have opportunities abroad - so pwede kita isama kung manalo si sara sa 2028 🤣🤣🤣

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u/momolnights — 3 days ago

21 [M4M] LF exclusive fubu

Hello! I have been so horny lately because of work and I miss the feeling of having sex. I hope I can find someone i’m looking for.

Abt me:

Moreno

5’7

Has a ghibli tattoo

Wears glasses (if that matters)

Working na

Lives in QC (i cannot host tho)

LOVES CUDDLING

A nerd about random stuff

Loves ghibli movies

A gamer boy

A verse top

Abt you:

Verse/bottom

Close to my age but negotiable if 30+ haha!

CAN HOST

Around QC/MANILA (i can travel naman)

Tbh i don’t really have a type basta you’re cute and good with conversation.

If you’re interested feel free to send me a short intro sa DM or send me a message sa tg \\\\\\\[@Kevvi3\\\\\\\]

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u/astreaeclipse — 3 days ago

23 [m4m] tall nerd lf exclusive fubu / partner

hey! help ya tall boi find his exclusive fubu (or even ltr if it's a match!)

here are my deets:
- 23, mature; yours to determine if true haha
- 5'9 - 5'10, pero gentle and softboi umasta :3 (pwede rin bad boi haha)
- lean chub; not super, proportional naman sa height (daily walks for weeks alr, planning to be in better shape)
- moreno ;)
- nerdy (heck yea smart) and has sense of humor (yapper!!)
- loves pokemon, sci-fi/fi, supernatural, old songs (70s to 90s)
- qc (w/ a roomie)
- 6/10? you be the judge ;)
- V and switch :) i'll adjust sayo haha
- engineer in it field :)
stable, di naman po magiging dependent, pero nakakakilig parin gifts 😔

abt u:
- abt the same height ( ++ points if short or tall king)
- understanding 😲
- has good sense of humor (i like it when we make jokes while sucking each other)
- preferably a versa and a switch as well
- stable :)
into ltr or exclusive fubu setup (for safety)
has place nearby!!

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u/yippiedooyahoo — 4 days ago

25 [TF4M] Fuck my brains out

Need a good fuck, not gonna lie.
Looking for a one-time thing with someone clean, respectful, and knows how to treat a person right. Hygiene is a must, consent and respect are non-negotiable.
8 years on HRT, heavily tattooed, and I’d say I look pretty decent. If you’re confident, discreet, clean, and can keep things chill, maybe we can have some fun.
No drama, no pressure—just good vibes, good chemistry, and one memorable night. If interested, slide into my DMs.

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u/The_Cork_Screw — 4 days ago

25 [M4M] Lf genuine sparks (dates or more ✨)

Hey, it is your 25M Chinito engineer shooting my shot here again! Lf genuine sparks (as the title suggests), if we click further we can do constant excl. fubu since mas nakakaturn-on ang fun kapag may connection kayo sa isa’t isa (but let’s see).

About me:
- 6 ft (so good for cuddles)
- Average to Stocky Bod
- Not fem and not too masc
- Cute as most sabi nila (Chinese/Korean ang common sinasabi but you can check) (Hirono na big size (?))
- Decent Face tho expect looks younger than my age
- Working so sorry for the slow replies so I hope you understand
- Free tuwing Sundays but in the near future Sat and Sundays are free na
- Video Games as my past time (Rivals lately)
- Plays the instrument 🎹
- Hindi masyado yapper but will try to keep the convo going
- In the Metro

About you (Sneak peak if we click further):
- Hopefully near my age (+/- 3) and not super layo or can meet halfway if ever
- Near my height kinda (?)
- Decent face and personality
- Understanding kasi more on Sunday lang free day ko most of the time

Extra NSFW portion (but not my priority)
- Vb (but can top naman basta flip fuck para makabawi ako Hahaha) since gusto ko mag-explore
- Likes Foreplay
- Non-negotiable - safe sex and hopefully you know your recent status
- Can lead in Bed kasi sasabayan ko libog mo

Hmu your short infos! Looking forward for those messages. Please just don’t say hi or hello.

Edit: Please introduce yourself ;) as first message.

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u/Independent-Pie-1137 — 5 days ago

41 [M4M] Shooting my shot here

I don’t know if it’s the week-long rain that’s causing this, but I’m left feeling incredibly lonely recently. Baka lang merong open to dating dyan, see if we click, and then take it from there or at least be friends. Considering my age and that I’m HIV+, maliit na rin ang mundo ko so why not try meeting new people 😅

A few things about me: I’m already in my early 40s, overall healthy kahit na 10 years na kong undetectable. Ambivert but leaning on introvert, a good conversationalist kapag naman naumpisahan na. I’m not tall, I’m average looking, tries to go the gym, runs regularly and normal BMI. Really just your average joe. Stable na sa buhay even if I don’t really own much as a bachelor. Based in QC pala, around Diliman area. I love hanging out at coffee shops and just chilling, lalo na on my spare time.

Wala naman akong expectations from you but just be healthy and present yourself well 😊 open naman ako to anything so if we don’t hit it off as romantic prospects we can be friends naman, unless of course di tayo swak sa personality and values. Having said that, DDS need not message 😅 DM if you have questions!

EDIT: it seems important itong bit of info na ito kasi laging naitatanong: I’m bottom/side. Hindi po ako top daddy, sorry 😅

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u/Odd-Builder2254 — 5 days ago

40 [M4M] looking for NSA Fun

Looking for fun, where we don’t have to talk except to communicate what we want done to us. Mostly looking for side fun, lots of kissing and nipple play, and maybe eventually we can explore fucking (V). We don’t even have to give our real names. But trust is important. Of course, hygiene.

Location: QC
Scheduled meet up
Can share photos in TG
5’7
73 kg

You:

Above 21
Up for non-committal fun
Nice smile, on the cute side
V, but B/T is okay

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u/rusellhobbs — 6 days ago