r/phlgbtr4r

Hello! We’re a couple from Metro Manila who’ve been together for 16 years (and still going strong 💛).

We’re in an open but exclusive relationship, and we’ve reached a point where we’d love to explore building something deeper with a third person — whether that becomes a genuine throuple situation or a consistent and meaningful constant in our setup.

More than anything, we’re looking for someone we can genuinely connect and vibe with first. Someone conversational, emotionally present, consistent, and open to seeing where things naturally go. Friendship and comfort matter a lot to us before anything else develops.

A little about us:

42 and 35 years old
Both masc-presenting
Based in Metro Manila
One works as an L&D Manager in the travel industry
The other works in recruitment
One is average-built and currently getting back into the gym life
The other is twinkish/chinito
We enjoy good conversations, humor, chill dates, and genuine connection
Sexually: top + versa top, if the chemistry gets there 😅

What we’re hoping to find:

Preferably 30 below
Around Metro Manila as well
Consistent and conversational
Open to commitment and long-term connection
Interested in or curious about poly/open relationship dynamics
Someone we’re mutually attracted to (of course attraction goes both ways 😊)
Bonus if you💦 a lot — preference only, not a requirement hahaha

We’re not rushing anything and we’re definitely not just after a random hookup. We’d rather take our time getting to know someone properly and see if the connection grows naturally from there.

If this feels like your vibe, send us a message 😊

It’s been so mentally draining at work and I’d love to have a qt to relieve some of that stress lately.

Let’s take turns helping each other chill the fuck out!

About me:

32 Bisexual Femme, ENM

5”6 Half-Japanese

People say I look like Barbie Almalbis/ Maxine Magalona (I think they just say that more cause of my aura)

Mandaluyong-based.
Can host in my Condo with 2 rooms (if you wanna have alone time in the guest room sometimes)
With a well stocked fridge cause I do cook and enjoy good food!

Verbally expressive

Willing to make you forget your worries with a lot of titty sucking and orgasms

About You

20s-30s
Switch (Can be Dom or Sub)
Financially Independent
Can carry a conversation (please let me rest from having to take lead all day!)
Bisexual/Bi curious (it’s ok if not as long as you are not Biphobic!)

If interested send me an intro of kinks you’re into or woulda like to explore, shows you wanna watch together with or food you wanna try!

Will share photos over telegram next and let’s take it from there !

SKL Mejo taglibog ngayon pero hindi tayo basta basta. Baka meron po jan recently tested and OK with protection. I just want to fuck while my cousins sleeping. Sneak ka lang we can fuck. Sana big dick.. or matagal labasan. If you have a car mag park ka sa labas then lets do the deed. I dont suck raw because mataas cases ngayon. Lets be horny and safe.

About you: Single or take basta practicing one partner only. No strings attached. Pass po sa mga masyadong risky. Please i cant stress the safety enough. Bawal if mabaho tnx.

Loc: Marikina

Yung available lang ng madaling araw sana

See u in my dms 🥰

Hi want a sexual tarot reading? :)) you probably have a lot of stress and sexual frustration piled up in your balls that you want to release.. You can tell me all about it so I can read what's good for you. Open up your sexual energy to me and tell me everything that stresses you and pleases you.. My tarot cards can reveal things that could satisfy you about sex that can make you happy! Im focused on sexually healing recently and I want to share this with someone who’s in need of satisfaction 😊 (looking for 3 people)

Let me know if you want me to touch your sexual energy and read everything there is about you!

This also comes with a sexual astrology reading so please send me these! ✨💕🌸

✨Your nickname
✨Your full bday with year and age
✨What city were you born
✨What city do you live in now
✨What’s your job/business
✨What has been stressing you out in sex recently? ✨What have you been craving for? What’s one question you’d like to ask the Universe anything about sex? Feel free to be as expressive as possible 🙂

The reading should reveal things that you possibly didn’t know about yourself (example: What should you fix on yourself to get laid more often, what's your strongest factor that can pull in partners, is there anyone in your circle who’s available to fuck, etc.)

🌸✨P.S. - Sorry sometimes I get spammed with messages and I usually only respond to those who send me the complete infos that I ask para mabilisan 😊 See ya!

Might be a long shot but context, back in my school days I had this weird dynamic with this girl I liked but there was another guy vying for her attention and when I met him we kinda... started kissing each other. It made me think that I actually didn't mind if I end up with both of them. (Never happened with either though and we all went our separate ways).

It didn't help that I was in the middle of bingewatching Sense 8 either lmao. I've never had another experience even close to that and every other MF couple willing to try only had a straight guy and only wanted sex. I'm looking for a poly relationship where everyone is attracted to each other. If there's some peeps out there hmu!

If you're alone and want to try something with me and another stranger that replies to this, why not din?

About me:

-gamer

-i like any music

-huge d&d and mtg nerd

-5'8", 148 lbs calisthenics beginner, lowkey tryna get rid of the skinny fat

-i have a stable job

-super low maintenance I actually prefer being alone (but being lonely is different)

-mabilis magreply

-Will go anywhere with you guys

-Actually sociable even given how much of a hermit I can be

About you guys:

-pref a couple that is physically active but also huge nerds

-hopefully clear with their own boundaries and can respect mine

-I need both of you to be on board I can tell if only one of you actually wants to try tas yung isa monogamous na martyr wag ganon po 😭

-I just want everyone to love each other uwu char

very much bored lately and e-sex hasn’t been that fun so maybe i should try some irl action lol

sorry already for long description about how i present cuz it gets annoying to explain 😭

about me: 23, 170cm, non-binary (assigned male at birth) and attracted to men, i lean feminine in style and expression (sometimes even appearance), but not transitioning and don’t plan to (but i get told a lot that they thought im transitioning), long hair (i have bob rn), average built, wears glasses, working already + arts and culture sector, from laguna (but can meet in manila), in theory im versa LOL and can be sub or dom depends on the mood, whenever i do online stuff with other guys, im into spit and g00ning 😅

about you: same age or older (<30), preferably with experience but okay lang rin if none so we can both explore but please be kinky (no to outdoor fun tho), i don’t mind also if ur masc or fem too (i kinda have a fem2fem fantasy), twink or chubuffs to the front!! lanky guys that can be dom and sub are also my fantasy!

let’s talk and vibe check! generally free at night after work and during the weekends! can check-in or go to ur place!

I have been touch deprived for a year now, i only had sexual relationships with men coz i am shy with women and more emotionally attached to them (also im liking straight girls lagi hays) now i really need to be in spaces with queer women more! Help me and also help me on the pleasure side pls!

About me:
- bisexual femme leaning into girls
- petite but i do boxing and strength training once a week haha
- 5’1, 48 kg
- have tattoos
- short hair
- small perky boobies
- love to be eaten and rubbed down there
- switch but since it will be my first time can be a pillow princess so teach me!
- love films, theater, art and museums - also an advocacy girlie
- i have a car not so tinted pero can drive anywhere and can share the fees sa motels / hotels
- im new to this with girls

About u
- femme and cutesy and petite din sana
- 25 and above hehe
- single
- also good with your mouth haha, can be top leaning or switch din para i can top u hehe
- again im new to this so pls be gentle hahahuhu
- hope you are a bit of a nerd like me

Couple here looking for 3s

About us:

-29, 5’7

-Got place in Taguig

-T and V

-Fit and toned, works out

About you

-V/B

-Willing to get fucked or suck us both

-Hygienic

-Can travel to Taguig

Hi!! 😜We're two 29-year-old guys and we want to jack off online and if we vibe have a threesome (sides) IRL we can host

About us: We're both 29, 5'6", in corporate, and have a place in BGC.

Looking for: Men 24 and older with an average build and cute. Must enjoy dirty talk in English (no Tagalog pls we prefer dirty talk in English). Ideally someone open to have f2f or just getting each other horny by talking online then let's see if this progresses to anything irl :) Just really horny haha

We're open to singles, couples, throuples, etc.

So itong friend ko nagtry mag dm sa looker dito and things got spicy sa chat that quick they forgot to ask each other kung anong klase ng F4F hanap nila, pagdating nila sa meetup parehas silang butch! Which ofc di nila type ang isa’t isa hahaha so please if maghahanap ka, please inform mo na kami agad sa post mo para hindi awkward na magtanong kung anong team ka.

hi im really crvaing for someone to suck my tits good

abt me: femme, morena, flat na petite, clean and hygienic, pillow princess, from mnl

abt u: from mnl, femme/andro/soft masc, -2/+3 of my age, respects boundaries, not dds/bbm, normal bmi, clean and hygienic, can host / can pay for CI (a plus if u have a car/motor), top

men and coupled dni !!!

Hello. I stay in Manila (Sampaloc area), anyone nearby who wants some safe fun? My place is free right now, and I've got nothing to do so far.

About me:

27 (they say I look younger in person), 5'6, discreet, Vtop (top when it comes to that), Average built, Wears glasses, From big 4, Working (I'm free on evenings), gives great head (10/10 according to guys I've been with), good dick size (pic upon request lol).

Hit me up for more details.

Single bi femme here who has minimum experience pa with girls kaya i’m still craving for moreee lol. I’m constantly horny so i hope you are too 😋

I’m looking for phone sex / sexting muna then let’s see where it goes. Yung tipong maingay mag moan and doesn’t hold back when we talk. I’m only into femme / bi femme, not butch pls.

About me:
Single (not into commitments atm)
Physical appearance is super femme
Big boobs (my asset, they say lol)
5’1
Submissive
Always hornyyyy

About you:
Femme looking (pretty face is a plus 🤍)
Single too pls
Big boobs din sana kasi i would love to suck you if we meet
Always horny or can keep up with my horniness 😋
MAINGAY mag moan kasi it turns me on so much

DM meee. I’ll be waiting 😈

We're opening our gates again! Just opened this server last May 14th and I received so many requests to join! Thank you so much for joining ❤️

If you messaged me before and I wasn't able to get back to you, hit me up again (the messages piled up. I'm sorry lol). Also, >!I will be asking you 3 questions if you do want to join, just to check if you'd really be part of the community or you'll just be a lurker (boo)!<. So, expect a few questions before being invited!

Anyways, about me, the community, and what we're looking for:

About me:

• 24, Metro Manila, into Drag Race, Sitcoms, soft games (genshin, minecraft, stardew), and NSFW stuff ❤️

About the server and current members so far:

• A wild bunch! Ages range within 20-33. We have Drag Race girlies, Fashionistas, Valo players, and even gooners lol
• We don't wanna be a big server, we just want a genuine bunch in our circle! Thus, entry is limited and quite selective
• NSFW access requires age verification.

Looking for:

• Generally, people who longs to be a part of a community. Let's share a safe space together
• At least 20 and above, but we're currently looking for older people (for our older members to vibe with)
• Players, especially of: Valorant, Minecraft, Stardew Valley. Other co-op games are also welcome!
• We currently have a talented set of artists, and it wouldn't hurt to have more!!
• Those who likes chilling in Discord voice channels
• Wild enough to join in the heated actions in some of our fiery channels 👀🔥

If you find this interesting, this offortyunitea meebee 4 yew!
PS: Please bear with me, I'm the sole admin of the server and I message each requests.

See you! ❤️

Need someone 🥺

Anyone interested with a pregnant single momma?

Hello yes, you read it right. Im a single pregnant momma because of that one incident.

Problem/Goal: I wonder if there are people here still interested to talk despite my situation. Im very much pregnant just turned 7months. Very kikay nurse here.

Context:

Im Dee, 29 from Pampanga

Im working at a private hospital. Work bahay nang everyday. Hoping to meet someone nice here 🥺 You can talk about anything with me ☺️🩵

Hello! Allied med field guy here looking for constant connections and see where it goes - I’m open to possibilities but not expecting much na din. Still, feel free to dm me if you find me interesting :)

• 28
• 5’7
• average body
• looks: hit or miss. many people find me cute, but i also get rejected on by many people
• i look younger than my age daw
• allied med field. working in manila
• lives down south
• loves music, animals
• love traveling, i’ve visited a number of countries na din
• loves a lot of random stuff din like pop culture, pageantry, uaap vball, etc.
• love language would be physical touch. i’m really clingy and i wanna see you always
• goal oriented, and kind, especially to animals
• can cook. also loves to eat!
• plays genshin and NTE

preferences (if you feel like you’re not listed, pls feel free to still dm 🤗)

• med field too or students
• twink
• cute haha

nsfw details:

• i top but i like sides more
• big 😉

hmu and let’s make memories together 🤗

hi! if ur down for smthn naughty hmu!,,, pls send me a short bio and preferrably arnd marikina, katip, cubao ka lang. i'm also down for talks! nsfw or sfw

about me:

- feminine androgynous

- indo-sg (i look more southeast asian) but raised in the phil

- big 4 (if that matters)

- fat fat ass, super petite body (no boobs, can send you sex clips)

- pure bot but down to rim you

- i love books and reading

- 5'3 (pls be taller)

- big creamer

- i rep fast so i expect the same for u

about you:

- no preference at all! send me a short bio and a pic after i dm u my telegram so that we can jive, pls just be taller lang talaga HAHAHAHHAHA

ill rep fast until 12 am tonight! sana we can meet by tom yippeeeeee

chat awayyyyy

I’m very discreet, fit, no trace. 5’10. I don’t want to claim I’m a good catch but I’ve been in several print and commercial ads, so chances are you might recognize me if you see me in person.

Here’s the thing. I’ve never considered dating somebody of the same sex since I’m pretty much DL and only fool around when I’m horny. Long story short, I fooled around this one time and caught feelings. That’s when I realized I have the capacity to fall in love with another man.

I just want to explore of dating side of this on the low and give it a shot.

If you’re somebody who’s emotionally capable and well, also attractive (gotta be honest) then hit me up. I’ll give my instagram handle.

Cheers!

life's been lonely rn. tried joining discord servers and tg groups but it all felt like i'm talking to a wall. then i thought, what if i make my own lol im not really looking to be a big group, just a genuine bunch

feeling the same? hmu! let's make a group haha. let's talk about our favorite stuff, have a hangout call with music while we do our errands, or even do group goon sesh lol (of course, once legal age is proven; hell no to predators)

abt me:
- 24, from metro manila, tech nerd
- not looking for romance, but would love a flirtatious exchange
- with pleasing personality and a desayr for an exciting neu layf
- games into: genshin, minecraft, stardew
- shows into: sitcoms, drag race, and a bit of anime lately
- nsfw: >!vt, average bod, switch (leaning dom), loves gooning, verbal!<

📌 looking for friends:
- at least 20, please. i hate kids
- not a creep, knows how to respect boundaries
- not a douche. honestly, be masc or fem as u are but the moment you hate on feminine or soft guys, gtfo
- open to voice calls (but chats are fine too)
- into actually looking for friends and connections,
- nsfw: >!can prove they're of legal age before engaging into nsfw shit!<

we can make a simple group dm in tg or discord or we can make a whole ass discord server instead, i can create one for us. lets make it mainly wholesome with nsfw on the side (for those who are open to it)

honestly this is just a random idea. i'll delete this if i change my mind or if the group is established and are satisfied with the circle. so if you're seeing this, hmu!

to preface; am seeing where things go. never been in a relationship, i think it’s just that i’ve never met the right person at the right time? but with time passing, sometimes i feel like i’m being left behind. but i need not remind myself that at the end of the day, it really is not a matter of a rush for me. but there are times when i crave connection and being able to talk to someone at the end of the day would be nice.

if we’re talking attributes, am 5’6, average? with a bit of body fat. i wear glasses most of the times, i wouldn’t really put myself in either boxes of masc or femme presenting, but i dress rather creatively so you’d tell the queerness haha! i feel like my love language is mang-inis? it shows that am comfortable with you.

i am a person of a lot of interests, i run, do enjoy going to fitness classes like spin! i enjoy visiting cafes, love films and lately have been into analogue photography.

i guess am just trying to match with someone that might have similar interest or finding something similar? albeit the pressure, i don’t think the hookup culture is for me. so whilst i’m open to dates, i think i’m looking for more of a long term connection. someone that is of the same age or older, possibly around the same height or taller. but if we vibe, we vibe honestly. so if you reached this point, i guess it interests you so talk to me haha!