r/r4rAsexual

I am in asexual, aromantic, and asensual spectrum. As aromantic, I can't feel romantic attraction but I love my partner with all my heart and soul, anyway as aromantic I can't feel attraction, so if anyone flirts with me, I take it as a sign of interested in relationship, then I invest in then quickly. If you are not interested in a relationship please don't contact me, or flirt with me. I don't want to invest my time if you are not interested.

I'm tagging a post here to give you more perspective but feel free to browse through my profile. https://www.reddit.com/r/aromanticasexual/s/VlMyI82BSX

Also I'm not looking for lavender marriage for the society, it took me a long time to undo the systemic imprint society has left on me. If you are Indian and in LGBTQA+, and want lavender marriage, please don't contact me.

I have built a good life on my own terms. Stable career, my own home, two dogs named Kage and Mazie who will judge you before they adore you. I have been to Japan, England, Toronto. I built a campervan with my own hands just so I could disappear into the weekend whenever the walls got too close. I cook well, I explore often, and I am always planning the next thing worth looking forward to.

But I am done doing all of it alone.

I know what I want and I am not here to waste anyone's time finding out. I am looking for something serious and lasting with someone who is equally established in their life and ready to build something real. If you are still figuring out who you are or what you want, I am probably not your person right now. If you know exactly who you are and you are just missing someone to share it with, keep reading.

What I bring is loyalty that does not waver, depth that does not quit, and a genuine desire to show up for the right person in ways they have probably never experienced. I want a true companion. Someone to come home to, cook for, travel with, and face the ordinary days alongside. A real partnership where we are genuinely invested in each other's lives and dreams.

I am on the ace spectrum and open to a quasiplatonic relationship (QPR) with the right person. If that resonates with you then we already have something worth exploring. Emotional connection and committed companionship are where I live. That is what I have to give and it is what I am looking for in return.

I am looking for someone within roughly two hours of Raleigh, NC. I need real time together, not just an endless text chain. If you are local or close enough to actually meet, that matters to me.

My dogs will love you. I will make sure of it.