r/sexover60

My wife has these loud, convulsive orgasms which is what I'm used to. Most women I've been with have these kids. It's like their orgasm takes over their body and they just cum hard. Sometimes loudly, their moaning just takes over. I had an affair with a woman for about 2 years. The first time she told me she hadn't had sex in so long she didn't think she would cum. She said she just turned off sex in her brain and she was afraid she couldn't orgasm anymore. When we had sex I made sure she was comfortable, turned on and I went slowly. She said her husband never made her cum when he fucked her so she only came from her clit. I am blessed with stamina so I can go as long as a woman wants. I had her on the edge of the bed and I was fucking her. Not pounding but a nice rhythm. She started to cum. And cum. And cum. Not a big strong orgasm but smaller ones that kept going and going. I swear I never felt a woman cum so much and for so long, They would last for minutes. I could see it build, she would tense up, her eyes would roll back and the they would start. Any other women cum like this? I've been with my share of women in my life and she was the only one who came like this. It was so damn sexy.

I'm curious. How many woman, older of course like cumshots?

It seems that quite a few people are not getting any. I just wonder how hard you are trying. Are you doing what you did when you won her/him over? Try music, a nice dinner and maybe a favorite adult beverage. Look your best, try. They once wanted to have sex so maybe you need to seduce them like the old days. HRT helps for us and we both try to look as attractive as we can. Lose the gut if you have one. Get exercise together if possible. Dress better. Tell them you love them and desire them. Work at it. If my wife isn’t very horny and I want some then she tells me it is my job to get her in the mood and I love that part. It’s an all day, every day affair. Work at it people. I realize there are lots of other reasons but seducing your partner like you mean it can go a long way. Thoughts?

has anyone here tried to wear a sleeve to add a little extra for the wife to help go a little deeper and even slightly thicker. we have experimented and put a dildo into her pussy beside my cock slowly and she liked that so just curious

Happy Fourth of July to all you sexy seniors 🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸

I’m often on the mood and more than I was back in my younger days. Then I ghost wrote Romance Novels for a side gig and sometimes used my personal experiences to describe the actions between my characters of mine or those given ti me to outline. Today I mostly reminisce those times and wish I could practice them again. Finding a FWB or casual relationship is difficult at our age; especially since I’m attached and my partner after multiple bouts of cancer has zero interest in sex of any kind or intimacy in general. So what is the solution to my dilemma? Any an all advice accepted with gratitude .

None since 2010

Where do I start? I'm 66, was sexually active before marriage 43 yrs ago; husband was a virgin.

I have PCOS, which causes slightly high testosterone in women.

Because of the time/place I grew up in in my teens, we had certain ideas about sex: missionary position only, nothing oral. If a woman did oral she was seen as slutty. Men were seen as less masculine if they went down on a woman. These ideas still color my perceptions, but I'm actually ok with them.

Here's the thing: after we got married, my husband started researching sex techniques etc via VHS tapes he rented or bought, and it opened up new ideas for BOTH of us, bc before him it was just ordinary vanilla sex. For yrs our sex life was AMAZING, and we tried everything.

But after menopause, though my libido stayed high, his started to change. We tried Viagra but it didn't help. I tried everything.

He has health issues so I know that's part of it.

Thinking about all this has led me to think about other things too. Things I wonder if others my age go through.

Fellatio in my day/place was seen as forbidden. That made me want to do it but it would've made guys think I was trashy. My husband is the only one I ever did it with and he had me watch videos to know how.

He loved going down on me, and even though it made me cum for the first time, I don't like it bc of that old attitude that it makes men less masculine. And giving it, for me, turns me on like crazy BECAUSE it was seen as forbidden yrs ago.

Am I the only one who is like this, or in this situation?

Widow (69), dating a widower (will be 69 in 5 days) who makes jokes about having sex with someone else. Both of us were in 40+ year marriages. We have great sex - thank you Cialis !! We talk openly about our fantasies. We talk openly about our previously sexual partners including our spouses. We've been seeing each other about 8 months. Once he sent me a photo of a young dancing girl at a bar and asked if we could have a threesome with her. Last night while he was out of town, he called me and told me he needed a dental dam (condom for oral sex on a woman). He was pretty lit - I think he said he had 6-7 drinks. We're both pretty quiet and non confrontational. So I just got very quiet. We had a little texting conversation about it and he said I don't understand his sarcasm.
Important info - I've told him a dozen times "Please do whatever you need/want with whatever time you have left on this planet. We both lost our spouses to awful deaths". I think sarcasm is passive aggressive with an element of truth. Opinions ?? Thoughts ?? Advice ??

I’m 71 ( but can pass for early to mid sixties ). I weigh the same as I did at 28, and I actually as horny as I was in my late 20’s. My partner has had cancer and isn’t interested in sex at all. I’ve refrained from sex since then and that’s been since 2010. I’m frustrated to say the least but I’m not interested in a sex worker or the like. There has to be women who are in the similar situation that could use som sexual companionship; that enjoys good sex, massages and oral attention. Am I wrong in needing or wanting this. My interest are various, I have various fantasies and tastes in ladies and am open minded.

Here I sit . I’m m 61 w 58. Not sure if she’s lost her sex drive but has for me. I had the wow moment few years ago. She dresses too kill,,,insane gym rat was always the pretty nice girl. Good genes. Admits guys check her out…she’s masturbates on off probably more. I’m 5-11 160 CrossFit guru. Realize it’s about $$$$ I’m widely successful make 10x her income. We have 2nd home in lake region. Kids are olde. She’s a nice person but I had that big weird moment and realized she wasn’t into me..ughhh

My doctor recently prescribed this for me as a replacement for another ED med that was only somewhat working. How many days before it becomes efficacious?

67 [F] If you were dating someone long distance, [67M] who was still married going through a divorce 14 hours away from where you live, You’re single. You want to have a fun this summer and date…
Here’s the dilemma is oral sex, cheating, or intercourse the ultimate betrayal?

56m here. I was chatting with a friend (62f) and she mentioned she has never enjoyed having a guy go down on her, which really surprised me. It sounded like she had a bad experience years ago, but did not elaborate. It's something I enjoy immensely and have never encountered a woman who didn't enjoy it until that conversation. It got me wondering if there are other women in my dating pool that may not enjoy it as well. If so, I am cooked since it is one of my most favorite things in life.

Several years ago, I had a fantasy that I would do a lot of housework, clean the house one end to the other for sex with the wife. We did that for a while. She always said she couldn't believe I would do that much work for a few minutes of sex!

Later, after retirement, sex turned to a oily handjob. We don't do it often, but maybe once a month, I do a lot of housework and wife gives me an extended handjob with oil. She ges me close, the stops, rubs or squeezes my balls and we talk a bit, then starts again. I never know how many times I will get close until she keeps going, she decides that. Sometimes its 15 minutes, sometimes its an hour.

She will stop and let me lose my erection, then say "time to get you up again". She enjoys seeing me squirm and get close, then she stops.

I love housework, lol.

Where does everyone buy their Viagra or cials when needed is there a online place you trust. Tks I have a script from DOC but my Medicare don't cover it. I use it every once and awhile

We are a very happily married couple in our 60s. Due to vaginal dryness, intercourse is painful. We have a fulfilling sex life even without penetration. I’m curious if other couples are in the same boat?

I'm 67M and she's 69F.....I usually go out for an early walk this time of year as it gets into the 100's pretty quickly time of year. I like to head out about 4:45-5 and do about 3to4 miles in an hour or 1:15. The wife likes to sleep in at least till about 5:30 and we have coffee when I get home.

This morning I was especially horny when I woke up so on my walk I stopped and texted her to take a shower, shave nice and smooth and I'd be dining at the "Y" after I got home for a quick shower.

I received a text saying "Yes Sir" and had a very nice light breakfast after my walk this morning......I truly love this woman!!

I’m a male over 60 and my spouse has had two bouts of cancer in the last fifteen years and after the first one, she told me she’s not interested in sex. I however am and I need advice on how to meet someone here to alleviate my frustration on a casual basis from time to time. I live in Ga 28 miles NNE of Atlanta. I simply don’t want to go on frustrated. Any suggestions or help greatly appreciated.