r/sexover60

What makes you horny beside money lol my wife things is a few cocktails and a little dirty talk and massage her feet tell us what gets you going

Women what’s your favourite. Please rank 1 being your favourite and 3 being least favourite.

PIV - sex
Anal - sex
Giving your man a blowjob and finishing yourself.

Put these in order that you like during sexy time

I love my wife and sex with her. In general she really struggles with any kind of non positive feedback, constructive or not. For most of our relationship she has only occasionally given me blowjobs and for almost all of I've them she'll generally just grip my entire penis with her hand and then just suck the tip maybe going back and forth a bit and using her tongue. This feels good but doesn't really get me off. She also used to suction it a bit and "pop it" but that actively hurt and after I told her that it stopped.

I've gently tried to give her feedback during and outside of sex to play with my shaft more, use her tongue more outside, play with my balls, vary it up by going deeper etc, but she just kind of ignores it and had done so for years now.

It's a little frustrating because there's been times on our relationship where she has criticized my technique, pretty non gently, for giving her head and for how I thrust during sex and I took those in stride, researched and then practiced with her and got feedback to make sure she felt great. I feel like sometimes our sex is so focused on her pleasure and getting her to multiple orgasms that she often seems tired and or unmotivated to do the same for me.

I was chatting with another redditor and this came up.

Have you ever had angry sex? Or makeup sex while one or both of you were still pissed off a little?

Here's my story.

I was the one who was pissed off (don’t remember why!). Not super angry, walk out the door and leave angry or anything, just pissed off at something she’d said or done or not done or whatever.

She saw that and wanted to make it up to me with sex. I wasn’t really having it because, pissed off, right? But she kept pressing, getting into my space. I pushed her away a couple of times, just to get my space back. But she kept coming in. This was so uncharacteristic of her! Then she put her hand down to feel my cock and I was getting semi-hard. Traitor body!

She knelt down in front of me and unzipped me and took my cock in her mouth. This I didn’t push away because, what am I, crazy? It felt pretty damn good. But then I thought, hey you pissed me off. You’re not getting off with a simple blow job.

I took her head in my hands and started thrusting into her mouth with my cock, using her mouth for my enjoyment. She was loving it! I could tell by her reactions and I wanted it too. I was in charge and taking what I wanted.

I kept on thrusting my cock into her mouth, fucking her face really, feeling her lips holding tight, her tongue dancing all over. It wasn’t too long before I came, draining myself in her mouth. I told her to swallow it all and clean off my cock. She obediently did all I commanded.

She then stood up and told me that was a lot of fun and maybe she should piss me off more often.

So there was that.

She has had Hpv 16 for several years and has decided on having a total hysterectomy. She will be 70 in a couple months. She already has low libido.
What does this do to her libido?
What does it do to her having a climax?
What chances does she have on being sexually happy?
Cervix cancer is in her family.
Pap test this spring still should Hpv 16