r/southernhospitalitysc

Give this woman a bigger part/platform on the show. She deserves some recognition after how well she handled Emmy when she TRIED once again, to explain how dangerous Emmy’s growing narrative is about Bradley. Emmy keeps doubling down, adding more lies to the story, crying when she’s not getting the reactions she wants or the responses she wants, then walking away, shows how fkn fantastic she is. Julia has tried to stay quiet, and to let Brad handle it, but I’m SO glad that Julia has gotten to say her piece. I just watched the last dinner in Punta Cana. Not going to make this any more about Emmy, but did you notice how relieved everyone looked when she said, “ I just need a minute”? I wanted them to stand up and clap. Damn girl, you are intolerable.

i’m just starting s3 and it’s killing me that one of the girls has a photo w her family in front of a PRIVATE plane like hello??? then they show them all working so hard and busting their butts at the jobs they very clearly don’t need to be doing (below deck and vanderpump included) somebody PLS laugh w me about this. it’s like the only time they can do a regular poor or working class person job is when it’s for tv 😭 it’s giving Marie Antoinette cosplaying as a commoner and having a fake little cottage and farm set up for her and her kids to try to “relate” to the starving and traumatized peasants begging for a piece of bread outside of the palace gates. okay… maybe that was a reach LMAO but isn’t it the modern day equivalent??? coming from a teen from a poor immigrant family struggling to find a normal job so maybe I’m just jealous HAHAHAH

For all my vanderpump Stans out there

Is anyone else annoyed that mia’s storyline this season/last season seems to be about her diet and how little she is eating and how she is avoiding carbs? It feels like I’m watching an early 2000s reality show with the disordered eating habits. This recent episode with her talking about her lettuce burger bun…just feels like an odd choice by producers to emphasize her eating habits

Omfg was anyone else raging at Michol’s mom saying if you don’t stop crying I’m leaving…! That’s insane motherly behavior. It broke my heart

as i said- i’m new to this sub so i apologize if this has been discussed before.

so im on season 3 ep 2 and im just curious…. are the VIP staff- predominantly the servers and hosts- just allowed to clock out and leave randomly during shift or not show up at all and it not be a problem?? i’m sorry but ive been a bartender at various types of venues for over a decade and this would never fly as often as i see it happen on this show.

it’s like they girls and guys just show up and look cute and party and just get to leave whenever like Emmy just saying she’s going to clock out because the girls were talking about her pocketing dress money…

anyway, maybe i’m missing something lol

I guess it's common in the newer generations, but, man, does Lake drone on when she speaks. She just speaks so slowly and monotone. Just aggravating. Like pick up the pace.

Grace lily talks to Maddi like absolute shit. She talks down to her and is super snappy. Doesn't seem to have any respect for someone G.L. says she cares about.... I don't know how Maddi has tolerated it for so many years.... Her sense of entitlement and lack of accountability with friends is gross.

I give her major credit for being vulnerable about her drug issues BUT she also isn't being fully honest about it... As was made obvious from her recent arrests. I'm sorry to say it, but she shouldn't of even been on this season.

Despite it being a million times better than this season of The Valley there wasnt someone from Southern Hospitality on WWHL again. And when Danny Buuko from The Valley dropped out they brought on Tom Schwartz to mumble incoherently along side the virtually silent Luke rather than anyone from Southern Hospitality.... The cast have barely appeared on WWHL this season and there is no after show, no renewal rumours and not much love on the Bravo socials.

Is Bravo quietly cancelling the show?

I’m not sure if anyone has already brought this up but last season and most of this season he gave the impression that has mom basically disowned him because he was gay. That was the storyline. I felt awful for him as someone who left a very religious background myself. Now, seeing the way he interacted with his mother last episode, I think he mischaracterized the situation and I wish his mother stood up for herself more.

Hearing him say, as a child she would ask him if he was gay and reaffirm him that it was okay, and she would love him no matter what…. I was shocked. She has every right to be pissed about how he spoke about her on the show. Also the scene where she dropped the phone call, I was so upset for Micholas, and now to hear that she was literally at the doctors and couldn’t talk in that moment. He’s creating a narrative. The constant push back of, “this was my truth, and my feelings at the time” is valid to a point but there is also THE truth.

It’s very clear from her scene in the recent episode that this cast does not fw Grace Lily, like even a little. Girl was literally balling her eyes out, and Michols and Brad were basically stone faced like they were playing poker or something.

I get that her joke about Joe was incredibly homophobic and weird, but Emmy is actively committing racism…. So I’m a bit confused why the cast, for some reason, has decided to ice Grace Lily out while Emmy is still front and center in most episodes.

Ladies, I know it’s scary but knowledge is power! It’s not about action it’s about knowledge.

I also grew up like Maddie, auto immune diseases and being misdiagnosed. The only thing different is I had parents that were worse than the doctors that misdiagnosed me.

No one taught me about perimenopause and by the time I was 30 and got married to my husband, I found out I was infertile because I have primary ovarian insufficiency. No known cause.

My biggest regret is that I didn’t push for it earlier. I didn’t have the knowledge, gynecologist didn’t believe me. I always wanted a family. I always wanted to be pregnant and that option was taken from me.

And because I was sick for so much of my life, even now I’m sick, I really have a hard time thinking about going through IVF and dealing with the struggles of that on top of everything else.

So I know what Maddie’s mom said was really harsh, but that’s how I’m going to be towards my niece. You never want to be in the situation where that option is taken from you especially if you want it. You don’t have to do anything with the knowledge, but it’s better to have it than to have everything taken from you.

Maddie and people like her - I see you. It’s so fucking hard. You have community.

The title. Like others have said I really do not like michols and emmy. I’m still enjoying this show don’t get me wrong. It’s been better than the valley for sure. And maybe unpopular opinion but justin has been a great addition imo. I don’t really need levas occaisonal appearances, she’s just bland af for reality tv. They need to do a better show at structuring the show and centering who it’s about. And also, maybe a better villain but maybe i’m asking for too much at this point, it is bravo 2026.

okay i’m not a typical poster but i need to understand what im missing. i’m on season 4 episode 11 currently and for two whole seasons now, we have seen emmy lie, play victim, dodge accountability, and have numerous panic attacks just because someone calls her out. like she’s not even getting yelled at or attacked, people just explain what she’s done and she immediately starts hyperventilating. i have like no empathy whatsoever and im honestly really tired of seeing her on my screen like i love that most of the cast can fight and make up but her continuous need to claim she’s done nothing and make everyone else the problem like really makes it a hard watch as a viewer esp when she gets sm screen time bc she keeps lying and having panic attacks and taking every little thing someone does as a personal attack. i feel like they should remove her from the show honestly, but i know that probably won’t happen and she probably brings viewers in but i find that hard to believe when everyone ik cant stand her. like what the fuck is her deal? and she was not like this in season one like it’s insane regression. on top of that, ik when struggling w eds (not saying she’s ana but ik her workout regimen and diet and body are all like a high priority for her now) it can affect your mental and ik she said she’s unmedicated this season (fucking clearly) so i’m trying to give grace as someone who also struggles w ed/bipolar but genuinely like WHAT is wrong w her? like i wonder does she watch the show back and see what people mean or if she’s aware of her own lying or if she has genuinely convinced herself of every new narrative she spins. i’m just so confused and it’s easy when i’m able to see where someone’s coming from but like this is worse than watching scheana shay. like this is a new level of wtf is this person and i just want to understand her a little more so i can bare her enough to keep watching but like damn idk if i could deal w her for any more seasons. and im not trying to hate like she’s human and everyone has their own flaws and im not saying any of the cast is perfect but like genuinely i just want to understand what the actual hell is up w her brain

How did this show turn into the Michols Show. It’s 80% him and 20% the rest. Didn’t know this show was about one person. This season sucks.

OMG, I’m not even finished tonight’s episode yet, but I had to post because I’m honestly appalled by Michol’s mom’s behaviour tonight.

I feel so bad for Michol. You can tell he wants so badly to be accepted and loved by his mom, and watching her tell him not to cry, call him a crybaby, and threatening to leave if he didn’t stop crying while he was being vulnerable and sharing his feelings was heartbreaking.

No one should be made to feel ashamed for expressing emotions least of all your own mom!!