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35F looking for a fellow survival game gremlin / long-term co-op buddy

Hey!

Right now I mainly want to play Soulmask, so ideally you’re genuinely into that game already (or very interested in getting into it), not just “sure I’ll try it for one evening.” Later on I’d also love to play Enshrouded, and maybe Valheim or V Rising eventually.

I’m looking for someone around my age (roughly 30+) who is patient, calm, emotionally stable, and actually enjoys the full survival-game experience:

  • exploring
  • gathering
  • crafting
  • base building
  • organising storage for 3 hours for no reason
  • endless grind loops
  • slowly progressing instead of rushing endgame

I 🤍 LOVE pretty/cozy bases and getting distracted by side projects halfway across the map.

Important disclaimer: I am not a sweaty gamer. I’m pretty mediocre mechanically and especially bad at combat sometimes. You need to be the kind of person who can laugh when things go wrong instead of getting irritated or passive aggressive. If fumbling around, accidental deaths, getting lost, forgetting food, or panicking during fights ruins your mood, we probably won’t be a good match.

I’d strongly prefer someone who:

  • doesn’t rage
  • doesn’t micromanage
  • doesn’t treat co-op like a speedrun
  • communicates clearly
  • is okay with quieter/chiller voice chats sometimes
  • enjoys the process, not just efficiency

I’m looking for something fairly regular. Ideally playing a few times a week, not just once and disappearing forever. I’m usually available after 5 PM in the Warsaw/Berlin timezone (CET/CEST).

I’m much more interested in good long-term vibe compatibility than “skill.” I’d rather play with someone kind and relaxed than someone amazing at games who turns everything stressful.

If this sounds like your kind of survival gaming, send me a message with what survival games you’ve sunk way too many hours into 😄 and discord/steam id.

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u/Jar_Of_Despair — 1 day ago

STEAM TRADE

F25 hi i was just curious about game trading i don't know much about it the games im intrested in are heart cage steam and speakeasy and speakeasy last call and who murdered my empress steam keys im from the uk feel free to dm me if you are intrested in trading

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u/Live-Pineapple-7467 — 1 day ago

26F Looking for gaming friends!

I’m looking for some people to play some games with but please be a little patience as I’m moving from Xbox to pc so I’m adapting… but would loooove to have people to have fun with! I can voice chat but I want to warn you that I can be shy so it might take me a bit to warm up and be more talkative and I do have a tendency to swear a lot ( more specifically when playing dead by daylight ) so if that makes you uncomfortable, I would suggest not adding me. I am also taken so please do not add me in the hopes of trying to get in a relationship with me because I’m simply not interested. I’m only interested in making making long lasting friendships. Thank you.
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Accepting ages for friends: 21+
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Timezone: PST
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Typical play-time: Usually around 10pm to welinto the AM hours, but I am flexible. Currently trying to fix my wrecked sleep schedule. I’ll play whenever, just send a message and I typically reply asap or as soon as im available.
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Genre: I prefer games that are interesting and fun. I’ll play about anything honestly, especially if something that I can get into for hours. I really enjoy cozy games like Minecraft or grounded but also love playing horror games like dead by daylight for exam

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u/Capable-Will-277 — 1 day ago

23F looking for gaming buddies in Switzerland🇨🇭

Heyy im 23F, I live in Switzerland and Im looking for new friends I can chat and play with (I speak italian, german and english). I mostly play Roblox, Repo, Rainbow Six Siege and more (and I want to start playing Sea of Thieves).👾

I like animes, especially JJK, Jojo, One Punch Man and One Piece.🌸

I would like to play and chat with someone from Switzerland, so we can maybe meet irl in the future (sorry Im NOT interested in distance online friendships)❗️

PIs be between 20 and 25 years old.

Feel free to introduce yourself with a dm!

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u/Poci55 — 1 day ago

25M Europe - Looking for a long term gaming friendship (long post)

Hey there! I am looking for a friend who shares similar interests, someone who wants to build a proper long term friendship. A person who also actually wants to play games together and has some time during the day as well! But first of all please do not message me if you are just gonna drop me after a couple of days, i have had that happen so damn much already and it's just enough at this point. I'm also not looking for anything romantic so no flirty or weird stuff please, you can also expect me to not be that way towards you. I do not really want to harass random people on the internet honestly.

A bit about myself. I prefer to have an actual deep friendship with a proper connection, actually talk about how we feel and talk about problems that we may have. Be it the good or the bad. It's always good to actually be able to talk about heavy things with the people you care about. Something to mention is that i have social anxiety so i prefer to be 1 on 1 with people, i just cant handle bigger groups that well. That also means i am really NOT looking for random discord groups.

My hobbies are gaming, listening to video game OSTs, reading, watching anime/tv shows, hiking and occasionally drawing. As for the games i like and that i am interested in here is an incomplete list!

● Celeste ● Cult Of The Lamb ● Deep Rock Galactic ● Undertale/Deltarune

● Disco Elysium ● Doki Doki Literature Club ● Don't Starve Together

● Just Halo in general ● Helldivers 2 ● IMSCARED ● Inscryption ● Mewgenics

● OMORI ● Oneshot ● Outer Wilds ● PEAK ● Phasmophobia ● Rain World ● REPO

● Slay The Princess ● Slay The Spire ● Spiritfarer ● Subnautica ● Terraria

● The Binding Of Isaac and a lot more but this list is already long enough! Just a fair warning i am not the biggest fan of PVP games so i do not like games like Marvel Rivals and similar stuff that everyone here seems to play. I am very much open to new games you may like though!

As for the age question i generally do not really care as long as the person is mentally mature. We should also have a similar enough time zone, mine is CEST.

Being a fan of animals and having cats is also a big plus, speaking of animals please tell me your favorite animal so i know someone has actually read all of this. If you do not include that in your dm then i kinda have to assume you are a bot or that you have not read all of this.

If any of this sounds good to you then feel free to dm me, i would love to hear about you!

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u/rokarx — 1 day ago

30F - looking for friends to play with

Hi :) I'm looking for friends to play with, age 21+ , gender doesn't matter.

Some of my favorite games are Monster Hunter World/Rise/Wilds/Stories, Wild Hearts, Palworld, Ark Evolved/Ascended, Dark Souls, Diablo, POE

I'm in Alberta, Canada so my time zone is mountain time. I'm usually on after 6pm and play pretty late so looking for fellow night owls!

I also do a lot of streaming so if you're a fellow streamer even better!

Add me: babiesbelonginblenders 🥰

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u/Breezecake — 1 day ago

29F|PST|PC|Looking for long-term gaming friends 🙂

Hello! I’m in PST timezone and play on PC. I’m a shy introvert so won’t vc right away and hope you don’t mind texting meanwhile. Looking for gaming friends who are night owls. I’m mostly online weekdays 8pm-5am and weekends available anytime after 3pm. I play a lot of horror games and some slop games like Dead by Daylight, The Outlast Trials, Devour, Phasmophobia, L4D2, Dead Island 2, Sons of the Forest, Subnautica 2, R.E.P.O, PEAK, Pratfall, etc. I also enjoy watching horror movies so would be cools to watch some together. I like sending memes and also listening to music. Steam Code: 1845122302

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u/Neko_sukiii — 1 day ago

M(30) LOOKING FOR GAMER BUDDIES on PC

Hey all!
Chill dude here, is looking for friends to play games with.
Without any odd and weird stuff, that lies under that definition. 😅

I’m on steam. And really like sandbox survival base building games like:

Valheim

Enshrouded

Grounded (don’t have grounded 2)

No man’s sky

Sons of the forest

Conan

So pretty much if you have servers I’d be really happy to join from time to time because playing those, kinda felt lonely lol.

Also I really like shooters and I have

Deep rock galactic

Ghost recon breakpoint

Left4dead 1,2

Ready or Not

As for the games with plot, thinking to play:

Remnant: From the Ashes

The list above may look a little old and really specific but if you are interested please dm me will be really happy to become friends.
Hope to see your responds.
Thank you!

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u/Key-Travel-5316 — 1 day ago

29F:/ us/ est time

hiiii! 🖤 I’m looking for new friends to play with. I’m on pretty consistently after 6pm & mostly all day on the weekends. I’m into dead by daylight, overwatch, wuthering waves, valorant.. wanting to try games like phasmophobia, the outlast trials, any co op games…

a little about me, I’m a reader I loveee dark romance & romantasy.. obsessed with Sleep Token & horror movies.

Also, I just switched over from console so need people who can be a little patient 😂 21+ girls or guys, region doesn’t matter!

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u/bookishgirl134 — 2 days ago
▲ 8 r/steamfriend+1 crossposts

Cerco amici su steam per non vedere più la lista vuota

Sono m di 28 anni cerco amici per giocare ma anche solo per chiacchierare

Gioco molto spesso coon la mia ragazza quindi molto probabilmente ci sarebbe anche lei nelle sessioni di gioco

Ho diversi giochi per giocare online fra cui elden ring helldivers baldur gate 3 son of the forest ecc

Di solito sono disponibile alle ore 19 in poi fino alle 22 e tutto il fine settimana

sono in italia quindi fusorario d'europa

Questo è il mio codice amico 1595289376

E il mio link https://s.team/p/hwcj-dwdb/hcdcbqvw

u/ertogni97 — 2 days ago

30M/PC/Germany ~ Looking for friends!

Heyooo! I'm looking for new friends to game with and talk and whatever else inbetween and maybe form some actual genuine connections. I'm willing to talk about alot of things, or also just listen I dont mind at all!

I'm 30 years old and from Germany! I have due to circumstances alot of time to game so i'm on quite often.

I dont really mind how old you are or anything is fine with me.

I play alot of multiplayer games, but at the moment im spending alot of Time on Elden Ring Nightreign! I also play Escape from Tarkov, bunch of fortnite, WuWa, HSR, FGO, and in general alot of the souls games. but im willing to play about anything probably :D

I in general enjoy souls games and horror games alot!

I'm quite shy, but I am willing to vc and all, just takes me a moment to warm up to people, but i'll get there!

DM me if you want my friend code and yeah!

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u/Suspicious_Vast_8899 — 2 days ago

29F/PC/EST [English] - Looking for other casual gamers with too much free time [any games!]

Hello there! I have a lot of free time and spend it all in front of a computer; I have a Steam library of 1k games and a Switch 2 for Nintendo games, plus I am willing to pick up any game I don't have if I find it looks interesting!

I love games of all different genres and am willing to play literally anything, but am really just looking to have a chill time with other casual gamers who are having a hard time finding others to connect with. I also am down to just hang out and watch you stream single-player games while I work on some art (I love watching horror streams)!

The only games I won't play are souls-likes, Fortnite and adjacent-esque games, and racing games - I am just so bad at them and don't want to subject anyone to that.

I particularly like simulation and survival/craft games!

Some of my favorite multiplayer games I've played recently are:

Simulation:

  • theHunter
  • Supermarket Simulator/Supermarket Together
  • Cooking Simulator
  • Roadside Research
  • Schedule 1
  • Farming Simulator 25
  • Path of Titans/The Isle/Beasts of Bermuda
  • Powerwash Simulator
  • Goat Simulator

Survival:

  • The Forest/Sons of the Forest
  • Green Hell
  • Subnautica
  • No Man's Sky
  • Stranded Deep
  • Subnautica 2
  • Grounded 2
  • Medieval Dynasty/Sengoku Dynasty
  • Windrose
  • Necesse
  • Dune: Awakening

Slice of Life:

  • Roots of Pacha
  • Stardew Valley
  • Dinkum
  • Spiritfarer
  • My Time at Sandrock
  • Palia

Shooters:

  • Warframe
  • Overwatch
  • Battlefield 6
  • Call of Duty
  • L4D/L4D2/B4B
  • Helldivers
  • Borderlands
  • Far Cry series/Frontiers of Pandora
  • Hunt: Showdown
  • Ready or Not
  • Aliens: Fireteam Elite
  • Risk of Rain

Other:

  • Monster Hunter Wilds
  • MTG: Arena
  • BG3
  • Slay the Spire 2
  • RDR2
  • OSRS/WoW/GW2
  • Torchlight
  • Webfishing
  • Civ (any)

...plus too many other to list. I really just love all sorts of games and want to have fun with others instead of playing singleplayer all the time! DM me if you're interested in any of these, or any other games you've been itching to try multiplayer! Not looking for a competitive rage-inducing time, just a fun time! I'm down with either sticking with one game til the end, or switching it up every so often depending on your playstyle!

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u/poriferu — 3 days ago

(USA, English, F29, PST, Minecraft, Heartopia, Elden Ring, & more.) Looking to make some friends who enjoy the things I do. ☺️🌸💖

Goth Gamer Girly, Steam/Xbox game pass. I am looking for Friends with mutual interests, values, opinions etc. Age 25+. One thing I want to clarify is want to get to know people on Reddit before randomly adding strangers. I am looking for friends & looking for my “person”/bestie & I’m looking for people who have time. People who work from home or have a flexible schedule or whatever the case may be. My sleep schedule changes all the time. So no worries if your time zone is different or you aren’t in the US (that’s actually preferred)

Examples of games I play:

Diablo 4, Heartopia, Modded Minecraft (I mostly play Cobblemon but open to other modpacks), Sims 4, Coral Island, Disney Dreamlight Valley, Harry Potter, Powerwash Simulator, Police Simulator, Golf With Friends, Chained Together, Supermarket Simulator, Ale & Tale Tavern, Luma Island, Necesse, Garry’s Mod, Hello Kitty Island Adventure, Schedule 1, Liar’s Bar, Uno, Core Keeper, Dinkum, Walk of Life, Unspottable, Don’t Starve Together, Grounded, Among Us, Town of Salem, Repo, & much more.

I want to try Grounded 2, Lethal Company, DBD, Dale & Dawson, First Class Trouble, Lockdown Protocol, & more. (I have played Stardew Valley, Inzoi, GTA V Rp & occasionally Palia & no longer play those due to boredom of them or it’s just not for me right now. Maybe someday I will again.)

A few anime that are my favorites: Ouran High School Host Club, Devilman Crybaby, Vampire in the Garden, Death Note, One Piece Live Action, & Anything Studio Ghibli.

LGBTQ+ friendly and mental health friendly. It’s important to me that people care about mental health & have knowledge on the subject. Open to trying new games but no sports, shooters, or sci-fi/space games.

A few more random things I also like tattoos, movies/tv shows, music, asmr, & I can talk about random conspiracy theories or just things I love for hours. I also enjoy culture, history & I am a foodie. Message me with a bit about yourself please & understand I am here to get to know people before adding them. Thank you. ✨🙏🏻☺️

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u/XObsidianHeart — 3 days ago

Lf a chill fun gamers CET/PC

Hey everyone! Im 26 and looking for some chill gamers to play some games with. I have no specific requirements other than be chill and have fun.

I play many games including League of Legends, Valorant, Phasmophobia, Repo, Peak, Lethal Company.. and many others.

Im big fun of horror games, medieval, strategy games.

I often use discord to communicate.

I usually play from 17:00 till 22:00/23:00.

Im open to try new games as well.

If you are interested, please feel free to dm or comment. 😊

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u/Visible_Tangelo_2731 — 3 days ago

Solo gamer 29m lf gaming buddies :) Getting back into gaming again!

Heyy people!! I've picked up gaming again and I'm in need of gaming buddiesss. My old friends all quit gaming sadly, so I play solo most of the time. I mainly play on PC and have a large game library with roughly 500 games on Steam! I have tons of free time to game currently. I also own a PS5, however I don't own that many games on it, mainly just the ones that are for grabs on the ps plus store lol. My fav genres are horror, rpg and sim/friendslop games. But I'd play anything if the company is good!

Don't have that many games installed, but currently I have:

- Wuthering Waves

- Phasmophobia

- Ghost Janitors

- Demonologist

- REPO

- World of Warcraft EU

- Slay the Spire 2

- Outlast Trails

- Smite 2

I can always install more though! Got tons! Let's see uhm... I'm in the GMT+2 time zone, but I'm mostly up throughout the night and barely sleep, so time zones don't matter to me at all. Can pretty much play at any time, since I'm very introverted currently. Also down to just hangout on discord and do our own thing. I'm a good listener I swear! All I ask is that you're at least 21+ and I'm not interested in joining any large servers/groups. Feel free to DM if you're down to game sometime and see if we vibe! Thanksss!

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u/No_Increase_3013 — 4 days ago

21+F/CST/PC Looking for a close friend

I’ve really been craving to have a close and tight knit friends that plays multiple games in common instead of having a larger circle of friends but you only play one or two games in common with each person. Because of that, I’m here trying to find that. A little about me is that I’m a Christian and I enjoy playing everyday and texting throughout the day, everyday. I have a pretty open availability, typically available between 4pm-1am. God willing. My time zone is CST. I am open to trying games / buying games. My discord: paperbird1

My games, dead by daylight, Outlast trials, Phasmophobia, peak, ready or not.

Discord: paperbird1

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u/OrigamiOwl22 — 4 days ago