Like the title says, I’m curious as to what you guys choose to wear to the club? Do you wear something that hides your brick or do you not care? Something thinner so you can feel it more? Shorts?? Pants?? SWEATPANTS?!?! Just curious lol

I went to a strip club for the first time awhile ago and I seen a vip section I was thinking what the hell else does that get you wouldn't that just be more lap dances and that's it??

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I (30F) am visiting Las Vegas soon, and while I've been to strip clubs before, I have never done more than simply watch from the crowd and tip. I am hoping to spend decent time at some clubs while visiting, but in the past my friends have always chickened out and wanted to leave within 30 minutes of arriving. I've tried finding help online, but most strip club etiquette is tailored towards men receiving attention from women.

I guess my main question is, what should I expect as a woman seeking a dance from a female dancer? I of course know things like keeping my hands to myself and of course being polite, but I'd be lying if I didn't admit that I'm beyond scared that maybe the women won't approach me in fear that I won't tip as well as a man, or I'm a deviant, etc. (I am also horrified that I'll get snubbed and end up leaving in shame..). Perhaps I'm over thinking this, and considering it's Vegas I'm sure the performers will know how to handle an embarrassed, first-time bisexual, but I'd sure love some advice before I try.

If any women are active here who often go to strip clubs, I would love to hear your experiences and any tips you yourself find useful!

So, in a twist that I'd never really seen coming, one of the clubs near me is starting to actually do contests for the strippers.

Few days ago we had the trivia contest, which was just general academic questions about the solar system/continents/presidents etc. Audience members can go up to win VIP vouchers, which is pretty cool.

Then we had jello wrestling, didn't go to that one.

Tomorrow night we've got the back to school spelling bee event.

It got me thinking though, there's no way the girls like these events right? I mean, 10-15 girls are on stage spending around 40-50 minutes in some contest game show. No one is dancing either during this.

Do your guys' clubs do this kind of thing too?

Y'know.. I really hope they put on outfits for the event though, that might actually make it kinda worth, no lie.

Did you meet a new favorite or regular this weekend? Have an amazing or terrible experience in the VIP room? Find a new favorite club? A new favorite club song? Maybe just a new favorite club cocktail or club outfit?

Do you have story to tell about the club that doesn't warrant a trip report?

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Had multiple solid privates with a fairly new dancer in my club over two consecutive nights. We also had some drinks together and I really liked the vibe with her. It felt relaxed and easy – good energy, nothing forced.

The second night we did a room together. When time was up she asked how we wanted to spend the rest of the night. I suggested drinking champagne and more privats after that. She agreed, I handed her the money for the drink and told her to go order while I quickly used the bathroom.

When I came back she wasn’t at the seat. She was sitting near the bar still holding the cash. The manager walked over, asked what drink I had ordered for her, took the money out of her hand and told me to find a seat.

A few minutes later he returned my money and said she had been thrown out – she tried to order something cheaper and keep the difference.

That one hit harder than expected. One minute the interaction feels natural and easy, the next the whole thing just collapses. Suddenly the night felt flat.

Has anyone else experienced something similar? Does an ejection like that kill the rest of the night for you, or do you just move on?

I met this really cute stripper one day during the day. We chatted maybe 5 or 10 minutes and went straight to vip. She was latina 21 maybe 95 pounds. Super cute and sweet personality. We actually hit it off in vip and lets jusy say I left happy. I got her number however I decided not to text her much. Maybe 2 weeks later I saw her on roll call and she asked me to swing by and since she was responsive I went. As I arrived I waited 30 minutes but couldnt see her. Finally she shows up on stage. But sure enough this customer was clearly in love with her and tipped her maybe 500 on stage. She mentioned theres a 45 yr old dude in love with her and Im sure thats him. Im also 100% sure he just finished smashing so I lost my appeal. By this time its midnight. I texted her Im still here and she texted me back shes leaving on a 30 minute break. I texted her Ok im leaving then. So I left immediately and as I was opening my car another car next to me was parked kinda blocking my door. It ended up being the girl. The girl was inside and I pretended I didnt see her. As I was about to leave she told me to roll down the window and we started chatting..she said where you leaving to. I said to eat at in n out. She said that sounds bomb. She ended up hopping in my car and we went to the drive thru. The whole way there were chatting and talking. It was just overall super cool having a hot 21 yr old in my car. I dropped her back off at work since she said she was really on a break and took her food inside. She told me I was impatient and I should go inside but told her no thanks that I had a long day. Again although shes cute I didnt want to spend hundreds on leftovers. She then texts me at night and next day she texts me lets meet up outside the club to eat again this week. This girl is definitely my type

Shes smoking hot and I wanna see her. So now I dont know the situation. Is she really looking for a food date or quick hotel or both? I dont know what she means. I do wanna see her at a hotel. My best experiences with strippers have been when weve hooked up outside. It completely changes the dynamic. It feels like youve officially earned there trust. But right now just insure what this girl means. Im like 80% shes good with hotel only. Or maybe shes down for the meetup but wants the hookup to be kinda unplanned. Well see.

Alright I know you guys have heard this before but yesterday I went to strip club alone I was bored af and my original date flaked. I never really go and got a dance with one of the dancers. I think most dances are like 40 which I gave her the only thing is she might have extended the dance and charged me 60 so maybe I got finessed a bit. Regardless after we talked for a bit and asked for my number, after we texted for a bit and she said we should hang out, obviously I’m skeptical but I said sure we should sometimes just hang out but I kept it to something more like a fun casual date. The conversation died after she said she’s usually busy so I assumed maybe she was building rapport to see her again but today she texted me saying her plans fell through and if I was free to hang out. What do you vets think should I be weary or go for it.

Go to both Fantasies Nightclub & McDoogals? Or pick one and stick with it for 2 hours?

Both seem to have no reputation. These are the only options available due to contraints, at least they are both nude.

Soon I will direct my discretionary fund to my love for baseball and as such I will not be clubbing for at least a couple of months.

Tonight after the UFC event I decided to hit up my local club since it was early and I had no other plans. EDIT: this was my last trip before hiatus.

Mostly because of convenience I regular at all nude "extras heavy" clubs. Thing is, I don't want extras. It's not something I need fulfilled in a club environment. But the vibe of these clubs and the ladies I regular with have kept me coming back.

As you might imagine, word gets around and the ladies know this about me. Some avoid me because of it. But, the majority are fine with it and will regularly approach me.

I work the club economy in such a way that they know it's worth the effort. I'll often have conversations regarding my preference and some wonder why I'm not hitting up topless clubs where the experience is more tailored to guys just looking to drink and hang out.

With some exception, I don't take the ladies up on their offer to communicate outside the club because well, I don't really have a reason to and I don't want to mislead them.

At one of the clubs there's a large clique of ladies who are friends outside. They travel together and they stay with each other while in town etc..

Over time, and because I've spent plenty of time in the VIP with most of them, I learned which ladies are in their network of friends. It's not weird or anything and they know that I'm aware of this. It's a nice conversation starter as we will often talk about what they have going on.

Tonight as I was chatting it up with one of them in the VIP she revealed a bit of a conspiracy. She was a little more talkative than usual. Likely because it was late in the evening and she was flying high on the weed.

She explained that they all know my preference and proceeded to give me their theories on why I wasn't interested in extras.

Then she let the cat out of the bag: They have sort of a competition going to see who might be able to convince me to partake.

She repeated a conversation I had with one of her friends regarding OTC and pushed to get me to set that up with her.

She always goes all out in VIP pushing boundaries trying to entice me. But this time because she was high AF we couldn't stop laughing about it as she was using her words sucking my ear and kissing my neck, more than usual.

Did I love it? You bet your ass I did. They know how I spend or else they wouldn't waste their time. But it cracks me up that it's become a goal of theirs to take my extras virginity.

Extras virgin, over and out!

So this strip club in RI does a BBW Night on Fat Tuesday where they bring in amateur strippers to compete. When I went two years ago it was absolutely packed and a lot of fun. Im trying to convince one of the local clubs near me to do it...what do you think the best way to do that is?

I'm just curious what the dancers think when they see a conventional attractive man in the club. Im fairly young, 26M. Sometimes I get comments about my outfits and looks, but this could just be them flirting for the job idk, but I know that I'm attractive and I like to go alone when I'm not dating around. I guess people see it as strange, new to the city, no friends, and I like to go alone anyway. So yeah ladies what goes through your mind when you see a customer that could potentially be your type ? Do you see them often ?

I wondered whether people were generally positive or negative about the setup of having waitresses in strip clubs?

In the U.K., most of the clubs I have been to just have bars, mainly with male bar staff, presumably as extra enforcement for the no touching rule.

As I travel a lot, I have however been to clubs abroad where the waitresses are frequently arguably hotter than the dancers (I understand there’s the ‘unobtainable’ argument). I have been to clubs where they have incredibly skimpy uniforms, or can even work topless in private rooms. Similarly, I’m aware some clubs have waitresses dress to fit in with theme nights - bondage wear for BDSM night and cheerleader uniforms for sports night are some examples I’ve seen.

I have always found this a great addition to the club environment, however I have seen some negative comments here, especially about conflict between strippers and waitresses due to potential conflicts of interest, or favouritism.

I wondered what the general opinion was and also if anyone has any recommendations of clubs with especially hot waitresses anywhere around the world?

Are the private rooms the best bang for your buck when your going to the strip clubs? I wasn’t really ever satisfied with the 20 dollar song.

I’ve been attending strip clubs. I noticed a pattern where regulars become dancers. After a while the mystique disappears. Friends don’t get it. I’m interested in learning more about becoming a male exotic dancer. I have a history with martial arts, dancing, and fitness.

What I’m interested in knowing more about isn’t being a dancer. It’s about the clientele male exotic dancers serve. I’ve heard a lot about how in sales it’s asked how do I help this person.

What kind of clientele do you mostly serve? Men or woman?

What services do you provide as an independent contractor?

What are the clients usually looking for? In VIP, bachelorette/bachelor parties?

Is this a good industry to get into for fun or just to make side cash?

Have you been able to form new connections and build networks?

This is a serious question, multi passionate single mom of one hoping to gain more experience for research purposes. I need to make XXXX a night.