r/stripclubs

How likely is it that a stripper is actually into you enough to have sex with you? Or is that a myth? If so what has to go down?

Kind of like how casino dealers talk about watching the same faces come back for years, slowly losing everything, savings, marriage, health. I'm curious if you've seen the same pattern in the club.

Not just a guy who blows $2k on a wild night and regrets it the next morning. I mean a regular you watched over months or years. Someone who kept coming back, kept spending more than he could afford, and you could see it adding up.

Maybe he mentioned money problems, or you noticed he stopped wearing a wedding ring, or he started looking rougher over time, or he just seemed to be chasing something he couldn't afford to keep chasing.

Did you ever see it coming before he did?

Did you or anyone else ever say something to him, or is that just not how it works?

What was going through your head watching it happen?

Did it change how you felt about the job, or about certain regulars in general?

Not trying to be judgmental toward customers or dancers genuinely curious about the psychology of it from the person who had a front-row seat, the way a bartender or dealer might.

Recently i’ve gotten bored of strip clubs. Kinda. I enjoy going out to them, but they enable my worse habits that i’m trying to break away from. They can also get pricy if you visit as frequently as i do (weekly)

A few weeks ago i walk into my spot. Its mostly dead, but i see this really cute girl with a nice butt. She walks up to me, tells me shes Russian and asks for a dance (i was a few drinks in so it was easier to say no). I get a couple of dances (lot of grinding and rubbing) and they’re Nice dances, and she takes zelle (they arent supposed to do this). Fun enough and i leave

Fast forward a week or so i go back. I dont even expect to see this girl again because in the summer things get a bit slow and turnaround is fast. But there she is. She asks for a dance but i decline because i was there just to wish another dancer i know a happy bday and leave (this other dancer also always makes me LDK, even when i ask her not to. She is getting a nut out of me whether i want to or not).

However, that dancer never shows up, and ms. Russia comes back. Ok, lets do a dance. I pay for 2 but only get 1, and save one for later. The first dance she changes up a lot and its like she was possessed by the spirit of the other woman i was waiting for. Shes grinding super hard, and fast. Not even trying to be shy about it. Shes going to get that nut. I tell her to chill, and she refuses, but the song stops and im saved. I catch my breath, and head to the bathroom to put on a hat so i don’t make a mess out of myself. I should have just left but the alcohol made all of these choices seem responsible. My friend never shows up and i got to go, and what do you know, ms russia comes back

She asks if im ready and i say sure. I thought she would chill out, you know maybe she’s tired. Nope. She went demon time. Even worse than the last dance. Sometimes the girls will do some flirtly and silly air dancing, than grind for like 10 seconds and chill. This girl said fuck that. She clamps down and dry humps the hell out of me. There was nonway i could escape so i play along. Grab her waist, and now we are both going for the goal. I get there. She blows a kiss and goes away

I needed a cigarette after that

I mean literally it seems like Everytime they all ask buy them a drink.

WHICH IS FINE. I'm happy to buy you a drink.

But I've got a sneaky suspicion the server low-key just gives them water haha

Ain't no way your drinking all that and turning into a fidget spinner at the pole 10 minutes later.

Do girls get some kinda kickback for the drinks sold or something?

Which are the best American cities for nice black booty, if that’s what I’m into? Other than the obvious Atlanta.

I'm visiting Detroit at the end of the month and i'm looking for recommendations for the trip.

The days I have free for going to the club is on Sunday night, and thursday/friday afternoon-night.

So the plan to make the most of the trip would be to visit 2 days and spend about $100 in dances in each of those days and on one day spend $300-400 in the full VIP experience.

I plan on going on Sunday to Flight Club or Landing Strip as I will be near the airport, which one would be the best on this day?

And on Thursday-Friday I would like to visit BT's and the other missing one.

Any specific recommendations on days to visit each one or if I should go more than once to the same one?

As extra details I'm more into white/asian below the age of 30, and I like much more skinny/fit girls.

Appreciate everyone's help im excited for this trip haha.

Ight so I'm a truck driver.

Went to a strip club with a friend a few weeks ago for the first time and it was a tonn of time.

It just so happens, on Tuesday I'll have all of afternoon and rest of the night all to myself not far from Indianapolis. Well shit. Figure why not hit a club.

Hoping to be hanging out at around.... Say 4-8 or something.

Not looking for something crazy, just chill for a couple hours, have a couple beers. toss bills on the stage and get a few dances.

Probably looking to spend like 3-400

Any particular places y'all recommend?

If you're really familiar with the area. I'll be parking in Shelbyville, so the closer to that the better.

Thanks!

Hey just wanted to ask you fellas and or women(assuming dancers are on here too) how much cash should I have on me for a night,drinks,possibly a lap dance as well,and also how should I approach a woman for a dance if I wanted to?

In the past year I've noticed that the veteran dancers are always giving me hugs, telling me the drama in the club or in their lives, talking to me about random stuff, security always welcome me and jokes saying I should work there, bar tender also jokes with me occasionally, dancers, and security also ask me to smoke with them, my favorite dancer either asks, or tells me to smoke with her and always ends up doing things beforehand then asks if I mind, which she knows i dont, other things I've noticed is I'm talked about quite a bit to where new dancers also know me even though I just met them, customers also ask if I work there which I say no, is all this a good thing or bad thing?

Did you meet a new favorite or regular this weekend? Have an amazing or terrible experience in the VIP room? Find a new favorite club? A new favorite club song? Maybe just a new favorite club cocktail or club outfit?

Do you have story to tell about the club that doesn't warrant a trip report?

Post about it below! The MONDAY AFTER THREAD is your chance to rant and rave about your recent experiences at the club. Patrons, dancers and other club workers are all welcome to participate. Feel free to post whatever you like, so long as it is relevant to the club and meets our community standards.

Hey, it’s my friends birthday and we want to hire a stripper for the event. Any advice on how to go about doing this?

So I bent down and kissed him on the forehead instead
😂😂 I love teasing the little guys at my club! Once I break out my pleasers all the men are pretty short in comparison, height mogging is soo much fun.
(Obviously I knew he couldn’t reach, otherwise I wouldn’t have offered lol)

I am curious to know if there are actually any strippers that actually enjoy their jobs, and are passionate about what they do, and don’t just do it only for all the money they happen to make there?

I went to my usual club the night before my birthday. I usually visit about once a month, and for the occasion I had set myself a pretty generous budget. Since it was a weekday, the club was unusually quiet.

I picked a table with a great view of the stage and settled in to enjoy the performances. My CF wasn't there, and I only recognized a handful of the dancers from previous visits.

After a few minutes, one of the dancers I'd had a dance with on my last visit came over for a chat. While we were talking, I suddenly saw her.

The goddess.

Maybe the most beautiful woman that ever walked the earth. Definitely the hottest dancer I have ever seen in the club. The problem was that she spent the whole night sitting in a corner with a group of dancers and never really interacted with customers. I never worked up the courage to approach her.

Apparently, I completely froze this time too, because the dancer I was talking to looked at me and asked, "Are you okay?" I must have been staring. The goddess was back in her usual corner, surrounded by other dancers, and I knew I still wouldn't have the nerve to walk over and introduce myself. So, to boost my courage, I asked the dancer for a short private dance.

It was a great dance—and, as it turned out, exactly the lucky break I needed.

When we returned to the main room, I saw the goddess on stage. I quickly grabbed a seat right by the stage just as she finished her performance. I tipped her well and asked if she'd join me afterward. That was about as much courage as I could muster.

After collecting the tips from the other guests, she came over and sat beside me.

What can I say? It turned into the best night I've ever had at that club.

I ordered a bottle of champagne, and we ended up talking for quite a while. She was not only beautiful but also funny, easy to talk to, and genuinely engaging. At one point I mentioned that I'd be turning a year older at midnight. Without telling me, she let the DJ know.

Sure enough, when midnight hit, the DJ played a birthday song for me. Completely unexpected, and it honestly made my night.

After that, I booked a 30-minute VIP. It was incredible, so I extended it... and then extended it again. For the third round, she suggested bringing one of her friends for a double VIP. I was a little hesitant, but she convinced me, and I'm glad she did. It was a lot of fun and the perfect ending of that night.

The cherry on top? Even after the champagne and three rounds of VIPs, I still came in under the budget I'd planned for the night.

Couldn't have asked for a better way to turn a year older.

Do y’all ever feel an empty feeling or regretful feeling the next morning after a strip club outing…like yeah I spent money and had fun in the moment but was it worth it ?lol it’s like I didn’t gain nothing but lost something if that makes sense. I’m not downplaying the strip club game because I did have fun and its a great business. Maybe I’m just greedy and I don’t like my account dropping, but it’s always a new day to make money lol

TLDR: It all depends, but how would you navigate this OTC with two CFs you’ve seen regularly each week for the last 5 months when they pitched an ostensible platonic only outing first early on, and now months later after I simply didn’t entertain it, am thinking I might want to revisit but add on a FS session after.

Background: been PL since mid 2020. Began in SE Florida, been in central TX for the last year. Typical visit is drinks with a CF or two, then a VIP with extras, often FS. Then just drinks and hang after till I leave. Frequency of visits ebbs and flows between 2x/week and 1x/month.

Context on this Scenario: Been seeing these two CFs together consistently every week for the past 5 months, however I’ve known them for a total of close to a year. Met around September last year, saw each one separately on occasion maybe a handful of times, then was away for a few months. This recent 5 month stint is a solid “Regulars” dynamic. They know when I’m coming in, we spend the night together from when I arrive till close. The typical visit has been much like above, drinks, hour VIP, drinks, maybe a cabana (semi private 3 song dance) or two.

Potential OTC: I’m personally undecided on this, and am exploring it because of the pitch they offered unprompted. It boiled down to going to a regular nightclub to drink and dance. Not really my thing, but I could enjoy/tolerate it if I could turn that into a FS session back at my place after. I conduct my visits the way I do because it’s the time I want to have, the tradeoff being FS in my own private space is preferable to ITC, and I’d be willing to make that trade for a nightclub session. I really don’t pursue OTC because I haven’t had much luck getting one that is precisely what I’m looking for, and the more likely successful model seems to be going on a date which to me is exactly the effort I avoid in choosing this lifestyle. My best internal reflection is that I’m just now growing accustomed to the limited aspects of ITC FS and want the novelty of OTC FS.

The way it came about was early on in this 5 month stint. They were telling me about a previous client they did this with, in the context of explaining how they feel comfortable with me and my energy was similar to that guy’s. Since in that moment I wasn’t interested in the OTC prospect I just joked that I’m not a good dancer but it could be fun. I believe they picked up I wasn’t going to do it. They mentioned the prospect maybe one more time on a subsequent visit and after again my being surface polite but moving past the topic they haven’t broached it since.

Now I’m thinking about pitching it back to them and introducing the FS at my place after part I’d like from it.

How would you broach it?

What price would you set?

Since I know the above are in general not truly answerable, I’ll color in some additional details that come with all the known grains of salt e.g. it’s a business relationship, all conversations to date could be lies, everything is a sale, etc. I’m only looking to hear what experienced PL’s would make of this, and enjoy the discussion.

The Club: Overall nice. Not a dive, not e11even, but closer to the latter and professional staff. Clean. Prices are listed and set by club. No negotiation. You pay the manager the full freight, they take house cut and give girl their share. Tips to girls are client discretion, my norm has not been additional tip because the prices are pretty high. 1 hour VIP is *listed* at 1400 per girl. That goes 1000 to girl and 400 to club. I grease the manager 200 for both, pay total 1200 per girl, which saves me 200.

That’s 2600 from me for the hour, each girl gets 1000. This most recent time we did an additional cabana, 200 from me, 80 to each girl 20 house, and a 15 min VIP, 800 from me, 300 each girl 200 house. Plus the drinks and the girls will get a meal each usually runs me about 375 total (decent tip included). All in I’m at just under 4000 and the girls each have 1380 before house fees and tip out (can’t recall those, maybe 100-150 house and discretion tip?).

I‘d say this is an extras club. Signs strictly prohibit, but I was able to get extras from my first visit, and since from most girls. Interestingly, one of these current CF’s was a girl who at first intro wasn’t into extras, but since I’ve been back in these last 5 months has been all in. What I think helped was the two CFs together, as they’re truly close friends in real life.

Earlier in the 5 months my extras ask was HJ or BJ, as condoms don’t feel as good/hard to finish, and FS positions limited/small risk of management. But they asked me to bring condoms because they get turned on. I told them that surprised me because it’s just their job, but they insisted they get pleasure from it. So I bring condoms, they each get off on a ride, then finish me with HJ or BJ. They tell me, without my prompt or inquisition, that they only do this with me. I know, grain of salt, but again just adding color and I’ve never once asked, cared, or even suggested that matters to me, and they could’ve simply not said that apropos of nothing.

Now I’ve seen discussions about how OTC prices are not connected to VIP, and I get that perspective, but I think I diverge slightly on the underlying principal of the opportunity cost. While there is non-monetary value in having a good time and not dealing with potential rude clients and just the effort of work, when it comes down to it you can’t pay bills with that value. A person has to be in a secure enough position before they can actually afford to make that trade off. Since I can’t know what’s true about what’s been said, I default to monetary value only. So let’s say for sake of discussion these girls are netting 1200 each from me. I know from texts they send when they arrive at the club, they have maybe ~3 hours of work before I show up, then they spend the night with me. Who knows what they net in that time, so I’ll just call that the “wash” against any willingness to trade the non-monetary aspects. If I were them, everything’s been a lie, and it’s strictly business, I’d want to net the same. So let’s say that’s 2400 from me to them, let’s say drinks 400. That’s 2800 vs 4000 which I think is pretty good savings.

Who knows if they’re still interested in the nightclub OTC, who knows if they’re willing to do FS after and at my place, who knows if they’ll accept that price. But the sub needs content, right?

Very curious about the prices in general. Like I said I think these are high. When I was in FL a 1 hour VIP was 200 house, 40 tip to server, 500 girl, and I’d give 100 tip to girl. So 840 vs listed 1400. But again these are club listed, paid to manager, no negotiation. I’ve been to a couple other comparable clubs in the area and it’s mostly the same, 1200 for 1 hour VIP. I’ve been to Chicago, Boston, Denver, and never been quoted less than 500 for a VIP, though that same price has varied from 30mins to 1 hour, including extras and not. But I read about people doing VIP for less than 500 and I’m truly curious about this. The VIP I’m referring to is private. Separate room, in corner of club, beaded doorway or sometimes completely opaque curtain. The baseline minimum across all has been topless and heavy touching.

If other details would help I may add, but I don’t want to give away too much, already a bit insecure about providing exact dollars, but can’t really get at the real convo without it. And I’ve already forgotten the pw for this throwaway lol. Hope everyone enjoys.

Looking for recommendations for ATL. It’ll be a work trip so looking for a good place for a Tuesday night by myself. Looking for reasonable prices for dances, good mix of music, and a VIP section. Bonus if you can tell me the prices? My hotel is closest to Pink Pony, but not sure what else i should consider

Ok for some context. I'm 26 introverted AF and scared of girls like they gonna eat me. I'm cool with dudes but girls just terrify me LMAO.

Me and my friend went to a strip club a couple days ago.

As expected, the obvious scared to death victim(me) immediately got attacked and rinsed.

We stayed till closing time and I had SO MUCH FUN!. By the end of it I was completely loose, making it rain at the stage and getting my face crushed by the performing stripper lmao.

And no I wasn't drunk, I only had 2 beers

Next next day was kinda shitty cuz I realized I dropped like 400 on... Not that much haha.

But now, like 3 days since I'm like freaking out and wanna go clubbing haha. Not necessarily strip club but I just wanna party it's soo weird I don't feel like myself haha.

Anyone else had that experience?

Ok so I went to a strip club for the first time and I just have so many questions it's kinda crazy.

I'll address one here.

This is gonna be kinda long.

So when I went, I was approached and kinda lassoed by a dancer in her mid 30s probably, which would make her about a decade older than me haha. She did her whole pitch of course, hung out with me for a little, I bought a dance, which was amazing btw she basically dry humped my Eifel tower(I thought y'all hate it when people get erections??) but yeah she deadass aimed for it lmao.

I later sat stage side while she performed (ass in my face lmao)

Anyway she was a lot of fun but it was very clearly just business.

Later once she realized I wasn't buying another dance she went back to her corner table sitting on her phone waiting for new guys to show up.

But then I went to the patio for a puff, and there I see a younger girl literally just on her phone just dancing all alone.

"There's someone that loves their art" I said. She laughed and said yeah I love to dance but I'm normally a slouch, I just get a tonn of energy when I come here.

Asked me to hit my vape, talked for a minute or two bla bla this and that. None of that "lemme give you a dance that'll rock your pants off" type shit.

Heading back in she did say if I wanted a dance come and ask cuz she ain't asking. Sure enough I haven't seen her approach a single customer there. And it was a fairly small club so I could see everything.

Then it was her turn to take the stage.

She tore that shit up. I decided to sit next to the stage and make it rain. She had a big smile on her face the whole time, not the seductive look at me I'm a bad bitch face(not saying those aren't good also) She gave me all kinds attention, wrapping her legs around my face and shit which I loved haha.

But idk she just seemed to have a party vibe, not a performance vibe like the rest.

Then she got off the stage and was still pumping to the beats while collecting the bills that fell outside the stage.

She's either a Hollywood level actress or she just goes there to have fun and hopefully make some money in the process. It was almost confusing.

Sooo like. Yeah I know y'all are there to work and make money.

But.... Do you actually have fun?

I think the reason I enjoyed that last part so much was literally because it seemed like she was actually having fun giving me the performance, like it was party time. And yeah yeah I know the bills were the biggest reason she was having fun(maybe the only reason)

Do I think she'd be here if not for the bills? No, I'm not that naive. But at least I'd like to think that .... Maaaaybe she took some joy in actually providing a good time for someone while simultaneously getting rained on.

I know you ain't supposed to bring any "emotions" to the club but I've always been the type guy that wanted to see behind the persona.

I personally don't want to be told by a stripper that I'm cute or whatever cuz like.... yeea you probably don't actually think that so that just confuses me haha.

Like I'm a young average looking dude, like I'm probably a 6-7

So does that even make a difference?

If you had to choose between a fat 60yo and idk a fit 30yo would you care at all or is money money period.

It's actually kinda funny cuz the other time that chick was performing, there was an old fat guy on one side of the stage and a young guy on the other. The old guy got ZERO action, he actually looked really frustrated.

Like he threw some bills in the air and had that face like WTF do i get some???

Actually one of the reasons that, while I did have A TONN of fun, I'm actually thinking maybe I shouldn't make it a habit cuz I have been known to fall in love easily, and maybe my brain ain't meant for strip clubs lmao.

But I'll say I was able to keep my emotions in check so not a concern FOR NOW.

Sorry if this post was all over the place I'm just a curious dude who just had his first strip club experience haha.