r/taobao

I am spending some time in China again, but this time I am looking to order at least from 7-8 shops in Taobao. Usually I try not to overwhelm my hotels, and try to get the things I need from as few sellers as possible. What is the maximum amount of packages, that a hotel is willing to accept on my behalf (and doesn't count as "rude"?).
Usually I try to divide my deliveries between the hotels I am staying at, but this time I am spending half of my time in Yangshuo, and both of my hotels said that they don't advise me to send packages to them, as the delivery services in the region are not reliable, or don't deliver to hotels at all. The exception would be SF Express, but the Taobao sellers are not really willing to switch to them due to prices.
So that leaves me only with my hotel in Chongqing, but it kinda feels a bit rude to dump all my orders on them...

I can't login through alipay, account flagged as suspicious. The problem is the fact that I already verified Alipay with my passport, but it seems to not matter?

I do not know where to verify it.

Maybe I should try deleting somehow taobao account and try again, as sign up through alipay, but I don't if there's such an option.

Honestly, I'm past all 4 stages of denial, I am just on acceptance of just how shitty TaoBao is, but I keep trying and so far nothing helped