Men and children?
Am I right to say it’s kinda girly for men to want children?
Am I right to say it’s kinda girly for men to want children?
Every man has one.
The thing he carries quietly. The thing he is trying to rebuild. The thing he has not fully said out loud yet.
Name it in one sentence. No shame here.
Is this ok or acceptable to police someone's natural tone and voice - Each person hold different tone/voice when happy, excited and otherwise. My bf said I should maintain some base voice or subtle voice around him and should not shout even a bit of irritation - if happens he becomes passive aggressive. Earlier at the beginning he did not have problem with it - he is a party person enjoys loud music but somewhere the women around him as to speak softly, quietly and kindly - even a TV reality show host voice makes him resented and angry and he mimics it.
is this ok?
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Straight men dress in full drag to compete to win a date with a dream girl. Willam Belli and Raja Gemini lead the way.
What do you think of the concept?
A guy was after me from a year .So I gave him a chance,we dated for few months it seemed real and somehow I know he had feelings too,then he got caught by gf ,I was unaware ,he got scared and went back to his girlfriend and lied to me that he is not going to be with anyone.and tried contacting he ghosted me.Idk which kind of girl she is that she stayed,and friends keep saying all guys do come back once ,do they or will he ,im confused I've never seen this kind situation before.
compared to my height I look like a child, age 23. But I feel like 15/16 years old, no beard. Also my face shape is small, body circumference is small, what can I do to become a young man and a man in a tight body, please help me😭😭
Like seriously? At first you might think “why do those girls go on the podcasts just to get shit on?” But then I found out that they actually get a lot of conversions off of appearing on those podcasts.
THE SAME GUYS WHO ARE WATCHING THAT CONTENT AND HATING ON THEM ARE ALSO BUYING THAT SAME CONTENT!
Are they all circle jerking eachother? Why do these people openly complain about women to the other people in the community and then go behind everyone’s backs and subscribe to the same girls?
Not gonna lie, this has kind of been my whole adulthood talking to men in general just feels like I’m being analyzed, judged, or misunderstood 😭 I’m a very silly girl at heart, but sometimes the energy feels overly logical or critical, and even the ‘cool’ ones can leave me drained.
At this point I don’t even dislike men, I just don’t have the energy for conversations that feel like debates or evaluations 😭 I’d rather have peace than feel like I’m performing in a conversation.
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CNN profiled a $5,000 California retreat where a woman and her mostly female staff "reframe" men out of their masculinity and away from the manosphere.
The men arent there because some influencer got them. One buried his wife, one his father. Theyre grieving. The coverage jumps from that grief straight to a diagnosis: masculinity is the problem, and the cure comes from outside.
Heres the parallel that sits with me. Decades ago, programs promised to help gay men "escape unhealthy influences." We banned most of it. What people objected to was the premise: that something unchosen in a person is a defect to fix from the outside.
CNN piece:
https://www.cnn.com/2026/06/21/us/mens-camp-california-manosphere-masculinity
My take:
https://medium.com/@ipsteak/conversion-therapy-for-masculinity-is-progressive-now-186178048209
Is there a real line between liberation and conversion, or does it just come down to whether we approve of the outcome?
Walk into a bookstore. Wellness section. Count the books written for men not about what's wrong with them. You'll run out fast.
Open any wellness app. Meditation, therapy, hormonal health, postpartum support. All real. All needed. None, by design, for men.
Search "empowerment" on YouTube. Watch what loads. Watch what doesn't.
This isn't a complaint. It's a pattern.
A man struggles. He doesn't have language for it. The language he tries I'm tired, I'm flat, I'm lost gets read as weakness. So he stops using it. The quiet gets called "fine." The "fine" gets called strength.
Then he reads that men die earlier, kill themselves more, have fewer close friends in their 40s than at any point in recorded history. He nods. He files it. He goes back to fine.
Nobody talks about men's empowerment because we decided quietly that men don't need it. That the floor they stand on can never also be the ceiling trapping them.
Both can be true.
I'm not asking anyone to feel sorry. I'm asking why a whole category of human well-being got so embarrassing to name that we let men opt out of their own lives in silence.
If you've felt this and didn't have words for it you weren't imagining it.
Let's make some room.
There is a window of about seven years where a man is at the peak of
nearly every physical and cognitive curve that matters. It opens around
25. It closes around 32.
Most men sleep through it.
This is not a motivational post. It's what the studies actually say,
and I pulled the data so you don't have to.
Five sections in the comments below:
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There is a man you said you would become. He is on the other end of this
window. He has been waiting.
Most men don't lose their thirties to one bad decision. They lose them
to seven small ones, repeated daily, for seven years, while the curve
starts to bend without their permission.
Same days, different sentence, different man.
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Why is it you tell someone from the gate that you’re not ready for a relationship they continuously hit on you! Me, I want to get to know someone on a friends level first before going forward. What are your thoughts on this?!