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Friendship advice

So for the past 2-3 years my friendship with my best friend hasn’t been the same. She hasn’t prioritized our friendship like she used to. Summers we would always be on the beach and now for the past couple of years she’s canceled and I probably only see her 2-3 times a year. She has had issues with her husband not being faithful so I feel like she has to spend a lot of her time with him to make sure he isn’t doing anything he shouldn’t be doing. I remember when they separated I took her flowers and food to cheer her up and then one night we were out and he showed up and she basically dumped me to hang out with him. So she’s male centered for sure which I am not. Especially when it comes to men who are unfaithful anyways. She took on some side income because her husband doesn’t get the hours he was which I think he lies about being at work and he is at someone’s house. Why do I think this because she had his location and it was at a residence for hours but she was too naive to believe that he would cheat on her again. So for the past years she’s prioritized just about everything over me but when it comes to pet sitting she will reach out. When it comes to me going over and checking on her dogs if she’s gotta work both jobs she will text me. Last week was the final straw for me. We made plans to go to the beach on Thursday. An hour before we were going to go she texted me to cancel just like the pattern she’s been doing. She said we could go tomorrow and I said okay. I received no further communication from her since then. She has completely avoided me. So the advice I need is what would you do? I definitely don’t feel emotionally safe with her anymore. So do I even bother to tell her or just block her and move on with my life?

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u/Elegant-Wolf-7251 — 6 hours ago