am i crazy
so for context i’ve known this guy (we’ll call him bryce for the story) since about october 2025, we were in a talking stage situationship type thing until about april 2026 and it ended because he unadded me saying i seemed not into him and that i was over him and i left it alone because i was really upset and didn’t want to worsen the situation. during our talking stage he basically lead me on the entire time, said i love you, slept on the phone, basically what you would do in a relationship. every time i brought up commitment it lead back to “im not ready for a relationship” or some bullshit about the distance (2 hours and i’ve offered to pay for gas or even go to him) so it lead nowhere basically. last time i spoke to him was april 17th about 2 weeks after my birthday and i was honestly too drained to do anything but accept it. i’d never blocked him and he’d never blocked me, i kept him added on snapchat just to show myself i wasn’t crazy and didn’t imagine it (our saved in chats were videos of him saying i love you and complimenting me). july 4th 2026 (literally a couple of days ago) he texted me on spotify, i was really shocked because first it was just some random corny meme and second because i didn’t expect to be in contact ever again, i replied being really confused and as i was typing he added me back on snapchat. the first thing he said was flirty and he kept saying he was free and anytime i had asked from what he was shady about it and replied saying you know, i assumed it was the relationship he was in previously because it felt implied and he was being flirty. i basically told him we could be friends but nothing more because of how i was treated previously, he was a little whiny about it but then was fine. we’ve been snapping back and forth for a bit since then but i went to go check instagram yesterday and i’m blocked by him (which was weird because i hadn’t been blocked even when we were on bad terms) so i went on a family members phone and checked and his post with his girlfriend was still up. i was really confused and honestly felt super weird about it so i texted him tonight asking if they were still together and he said yes and that’s why were only friends but i feel crazy because he was flirty when he readded me and implied a breakup. am i crazy??? i don’t know this whole situation is honestly making me feel really upset especially because i really liked him during our talking stage and he thought he could come back and be shady and it’d be fine