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Do white men find hijabis attractive?

I’m genuinely curious, especially to hear from white men living in Europe.

I’m a 20yo Moroccan hijabi living in the Netherlands. I’ve realized that I’m mainly attracted to the white native men from here than the people with immigrant backgrounds. and I also used to live in Spain and for some reason there I was only attracted to the white tourists that came hahah.

I’m usually attracted to tall men with light hair, light eyes, and fair sharp features and most of Dutch men or north europeans are like that but they are normally either non believers or Christians.

At the same time, I wear the hijab, dress modestly, and my faith is a very important part of my life.

One thing that makes this complicated is that, as a Muslim woman is looking for a Muslim partner that is the way I like. There aren’t many ethnically Dutch/north EU Muslim men, unless they are converts, so the pool of people who fit both my religious values and my personal attraction is quite small.

I meet many people who are kind, respectful, and have qualities I appreciate, but religion is still an important factor for me.

So I’m curious:

Have any white European men ever genuinely found a hijabi attractive?

Does the hijab make you less interested, or is it something you can appreciate?

If you have been attracted to a hijabi before, what attracted you?

Are there white men who would consider marrying a hijabi, or is the religious difference usually too big?

U can also just say ur opinion on all this.

I’m not trying to start a debate about religion or preferences. I’m just curious about people’s perspectives.

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u/notsureifimby — 11 days ago