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Something I Have Learned

  Over the last 23 years, I have seen many changes in the wedding industry.  From the way couples plan a wedding, to the kinds of weddings they plan, to the attitudes of the couples about the industry.  But, one of the biggest things I see is how easy it has become to start a business.  

  It used to be that you started out working under someone, learning a craft, whether it be flowers, photography, planning, etc.  Now, all it takes is a pretty website, that anyone can build with stock photos, an Instagram page and a simple marketing material that can be created on Canva.  

  Every seasoned professional started somewhere.  But, pretty pictures are not the same as proven experience.  When you are choosing the team that will be responsible for such an important day, look beyond the pictures.  Ask questions, read reviews, go through the contract carefully and find out how long they have been in business.  

  Ask them what would happen if something goes wrong.  Ask them how they have handled emergencies in the past.  Because you are not just hiring vendors, you are hiring judgement, professionalism and peace of mind.  Your vendors are not just creating a pretty picture, they are helping you feel confident in your decisions, building a relationship, guiding your way through the process- long before your wedding day.

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u/wendyangell03 — 8 days ago

Top sites to find wedding venues with actually real photos

Most venues look the same in stock photos which makes them basically useless for vetting. Sites that show real wedding photos from events held at the space are way more useful for figuring out if a venue fits your vibe, vs the staged portfolio shots venues use to market themselves.

  • carats & cake: Editorial site that publishes real wedding features by venue, lots of detail on how a space transforms with different aesthetics and seasons.

  • zola: Listings include real wedding photo galleries from couples who married at the venue, so you see the space staged across different dates and aesthetics.

  • weddingwire: Listings include photo galleries with real wedding shots mixed in with stock and styled shoots, useful but you have to scroll past the staged ones.

  • junebug weddings: Curated real wedding archive thats searchable by venue and style, the photo coverage per feature tends to be pretty thorough.

  • instagram: Search the venue tag or hashtag and you get years of real wedding posts, more variety than the venues own marketing photos show

Anyone got other recs Im not aware of, especially for less major markets.

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u/PrudentAcanthaceae88 — 12 days ago
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Need Wedding Registry Suggestions Please!!!

The wedding is next year in August and really struggling with what to put on the registry. Got a few things but blanking on what else would be good.
If you are married please let me know what you wish you had put on your registry or things you are glad you had one there. Or just things you think would be fun.
If you aren’t married what are your dream registry items?

Thank you so much in advance!

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u/AnonymousOtter0804 — 10 days ago