I am so glad I had an abortion 8 years ago
In early 2018, I was 18, I got pregnant with a guy I’d been in a relationship with for 3 years (almost 4 years), it was completely unplanned we just weren’t being careful. My boyfriend at the time, who was 19, was over the moon about it and was unbelievably excited. Until we told his family and his mum and she told him that if I didn’t abort the baby that she would essentially disown him, when I was 13 weeks he finally decided that he didn’t want the baby and that if I didn’t have an abortion I would’ve alone as he would never see or talk to me again. I was scared he would never see me again so I got the abortion against my own wishes.
I had to travel for the abortion as I refused to be awake for the procedure and it was one of the most traumatic days of my life. It was an absolutely horrific experience and it scared me for life.
We broke up in late 2018.
Fast forward to 2023, turns out he’s a nonce. An old friend from college messaged me asking if I knew and I had no idea what they were on about until they sent me screenshots showing my ex begging this 15 year old girl not to tell everyone he was sending and receiving nudes from someone he knew was only 15.
What made me giggle was that the girl blackmailed him for money saying that she won’t tell anyone what he did if she paid him, he didn’t have the money (I’m not surprised) so she put the screenshots on social media. He was even cheating on his girlfriend with this 15 year old.
When I found out i sent all the screenshots to his mum so she can see just what her precious little baby boy has gotten up to whilst in university.
So yeah, I could have had a kid with someone who is now a nonce. I dodged a fucking bullet there and so did that child I aborted.