I’ve struggled a lot with being assertive, and it’s getting to a point where it’s negatively affecting me. I was wondering if any of you had tips on how to get better at standing up for yourself and saying what’s on your mind.
Thank youuuu😊
I’ve always struggled with indecisiveness, and having to make choices, even when it comes to trivial things. It’s frustrating because I end up wasting so much time and energy on decisions that shouldn’t be this difficult.
Sometimes I think about all the other possibilities, but it feels less like I genuinely want the other options, and more like I’m afraid of making the wrong choice. I hesitate out of fear that maybe there was a better alternative. And sometimes I honestly can’t tell what I truly want.
I really wish I could be more decisive. I’m tired of getting stuck in these over-analysis loops when I just want to move forward.
Does anyone else relate to this? Is this related to INFJ cognitive functions, or is it something else? And if you’re a lucky decisive INFJ, what helped you?