u/044SHUTDOWN

At last Saturday open mat I did rolled with some young guy 18-19 years old. We started from butterfly guard, I swept him, he immediately up kick me in the face pretty hard ( I got bruised from it ) - no apologies from him, nothing.

I kept rolling, passed guard, mounted him, locked triangle from the mount. Started to squeeze - the guy didn’t tap, I don’t won’t to pull his head to finish the choke since he looking like a kiddo to me, so I kept an triangle but also taking his hand and starting to do a kimura - his hand bend like crazy and starting to looking like Z letter. But again I looked at him and I saw a kid that will let me broke his hand but won’t tapping - so I let kimura go. So I decide not to hurt him.

But after the roll I left with mixed feelings - should I finished the kimura until his shoulder popping off? For his better understanding that you should behave a bit different (in new gym especially) Should I tell him, that hard up kicks, with no apologies afterwards, is not the best way to introduce yourself at new club? Or this is coach work to do so?