Do I need to invite my fiancé’s sister in law to bachelorette party?
Do I need to invite my fiancé’s brother’s wife of 1 year to my bachelorette party? I have been with my man for 9 years now and she has barely came into the picture last year. I have been close friends with his sister for 7 years and only known her for a year but it will be two years by the time we get married.
Back story: I don’t have a problem with her but we aren’t close. My bestfriend who is going to be a bridesmaid is obviously invited and she used to date that same brother for 5 years. The wife has never told me anything negative about me being friends with her after they broke up ,but I have a feeling it would be awkward with both of them in such an intimate setting. ultimately I want my closest friends with the exception of my sisters and my fiancé’s sister there with no awkwardness. Plus, she’s very against drinking and everything like that so i just worry the vibe wont be her scene. They also had a small thing at a courthouse where they got legally married and I wasn’t formally invited to that so I didn’t attend as they said it was immediate family only. I was invited to her shower and attended, and I’ll also invite her to my shower but I just think the bachelorette party is a more intimate gathering.
I need help lol. Also his family is very traditional where I know they will think it’s messed up I invited his brother’s ex (who I have been best friends with for 7 years now) but not my future sister-in-law.