AITAH for telling my gf(23) of 7months to eat the food she made me order for her ?
I(M24) ordered indian food and passed her the phone so she could get what she wants and when she gave it back to me it was 2 main dishes (bhindi bajee+butter chicken),1 starter (samosas) and 2 sides (garlic naan and pulao rice). I also ordered quiet a lot of food so the whole order amounted to a little under 100 euros.
When she was done, she still had some food left so, as I was cleaning the table, I proceeded to put the food she had left in the fridge but she said she wouldn't eat the rice as she didn't like it because there were dried raisins in it. I said she should eat it because it was a big order and that's what she ordered. I believe it is basic respect that if you make someone pay for a lot of food, you have to eat it as long as it's eatable, as a form of basic consideration for them offering you food. She starts laughing in my face and says "Im not eating this btw". It felt really disrespectful and a lack of consideration to me.
We have been in an argument since because she argues me saying she has to eat the food she orders is me trying to control her and lacking consideration for her while I feel like she lacks consideration for me and am deeply hurt by her not at least acknowledging it. AITAH ?