get extremely wet during sex
hi, seeking help and/or advice here bc i cant find anything anywhere
for the context im a 23 NB person, and ive been on testosterone for 3 years. when i started my sex life (before testosterone) i would already get a bit more wet than ppl around me (friends/partners). then when i started testosterone i heard ab vaginal dryness and was kinda relieved, but it got worse.
since then i had like 5 or 6 different partners and the same thing happened with all of them (male/female).
ive now stopped testosterone since a year and, surprisingly (/j), it got even WORSE. i havent had any partners for almost 2 years (romantically and sexually), but i now have a gf. we didnt had sex yet, and i get extremely wet just when kissing or touching (non sexually). it makes me very uncomfortable, bc im scared she misinterpreted that as me waiting for her to give me sex or anything (i think i could compare that to having a boner idk?)
ive talked ab it with some friends that basically told me that it wasnt really a problem and that my body was just like that (also talked with an ex partner, told me that it didnt bother her and even that she kinda liked it)
so basically it makes me really insecure and embarrassed, its uncomfortable during sex and besides that it’s just uncomfortable to have a soaking underwear. i dont drink that much water so i don’t think it comes from hydration
is there anything to reduce wetness? i know that its not that big of a problem but besides my partner i bothers me a lot, if anyone has/had the same issue im all ears!