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My bf has told me many times that he doesn’t find me attractive or pretty but he loves me and I’m the most important person in his life, he wants to be with me for the rest of his life.
The pain for me is intolerable. I have told about this to him many times. He thinks it’s my own problem to handle. What should one do in this kind of relationship?
He is good and caring bf but i can’t get over this pain.
Have any of you been in the same kind of situation - how to handle it?
tl;dr: My boyfriend says he loves me and wants to spend his life with me, but openly admits he finds me unattractive. He thinks my pain about this is my own problem to fix. How do I handle this?

My bf has told me many times that he doesn’t find me attractive or pretty but he loves me and I’m the most important person in his life, he wants to be with me for the rest of his life.
The pain for me is intolerable. I have told about this to him many times. He thinks it’s my own problem to handle. What should one do in this kind of relationship?
He is good and caring bf but i can’t get over this pain.
Have any of you been in the same kind of situation - how to handle it?
tl;dr: My boyfriend says he loves me and wants to spend his life with me, but openly admits he finds me unattractive. He thinks my pain about this is my own problem to fix. How do I handle this?