Need advice
I need advice on approaching my ex about sleeping arrangements at his partners house.
My ex has been with his partner close to 2 years. Due to different school districts and parenting agreements they live several towns apart. He lives about 20-25 minutes from my house, which is home base for the kids and where they go to school. His partner lives about 20 minutes from him, so 40-45 minutes from my house.
The kids spend a lot of time at his partners house but only spend the night on weekends. My concern is that my kids do not have a dedicated space at his partners house. They both (15f and 11m) sleep in a living room on couches. The kids have been complaining to me, but don’t want to cause issues for their dad so I haven’t said anything yet. But I’d like to bring up my concerns with the lack of privacy and sleeping arrangements.
After 2 years it seems reasonable that a dedicated space and beds could be accommodated/incorporated into his partners house. So I’m curious how others have handled situations like this. Both from my perspective and my exs and what solutions have been effective.