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When it comes to EIYPO, many question whether it's even valid. How can someone act the way you want them to? Aren't they their own person with their own personality and such? Well, yes, they are. The way they act with you, though, is a reflection of who you are. If you embody an identity full of love, abundance, etc, you will reflect that with the people you interact with.

Think about it, say there's somebody you know who treats you rather poorly. But, you witness how they are around someone else and you see that they treat them great. You wonder why that is. What an asshole. What did I do to them? Why are they treating that person better than me? Is there something wrong with me? By questioning their behavior, you're feeding the narrative of how they treat you even more so. You question yourself and your validity with them. You're putting your worth in their hands.

Neville teaches that you have to decide you have your desire, persist in that state, then you'll receive what you want. Simple stuff, right? Well, it works the same way with other people. You want a crush to see you and want you? Decide that they see you and want you. Mental conversations. If they're acting differently, disinterested, unengaged, etc., affirm, affirm affirm. They want me so bad. They see me and they always want to be with me. I'm the type of person who gets whoever I want. I'm wanted, loved, and I'm in a loving relationship with them. Tell yourself what it is that you want, you have. Tell yourself that you have them. Persist in that state. If doubts arise, or if you get emotional and react to the 3D because they're acting a certain way, continue persisting regardless. Then, do your best to let it go, knowing that they're yours and they're acting the way you want them to.

This goes for anybody else, too. You have an annoying coworker? You have an inconsistent friend? A shitty boss? Well, it works the same way. First, embody the identity of being loved, chosen, etc., then affirm how you want them to act instead. And if you see that they're still acting the same way, keep persisting, even if it's showing up right in your face. It's only a matter of time until that all changes.

I personally have been having major success with this. At work, I have this coworker who can be inconsistent with the way he acts. It was getting on my nerves, and I started to decide that he changed his ways. Literally, the next day, he would act the way I'd want him to. Word for word, same attitude, everything. And that's because I decided, and persisted in that state. At first, it was a bit difficult when he would act that way. But then, I remembered that I can change that. So, I remembered that I am all that is, that I am source, then I decided how I wanted him to act. And of course, he's now acting how I want him to. Simple as that. Sometimes we tend to make it more difficult than what it is, but it's simple. The persisting can be challenging, yes, but it's all worth it in the end.

Think about it. When you’re consistent in the gym, even on days when you aren’t feeling it, you go anyway. You do it because you know you’ll feel better, achieve the results you want, etc. You go because you know it works. Of course it does. You may not see results right away, but they’re coming because you’ve claimed it as yours. It’s happening in the background, even if you don’t see it. Your muscles are growing stronger each time, your stamina increasing each session, etc. Not only that, but you then begin to reap the mental benefits. You feel stronger, more content, and more resilient to life’s challenges.

This is just like manifestation. You know it works. You get into the wish-fulfilled, and you stay consistent with it. You persist, even during moments when you aren’t necessarily feeling the wish-fulfilled, or during difficult moments. You persist anyway, and you continue returning to the wish-fulfilled, because you have faith. You know the desire is yours. Of course it is. Your inner-knowing increases each time you practice the law, just as your muscles improve each time.

Not only that, but let’s think about this in terms of weightlifting. Say you have a goal of being able to bench 250lbs. Well, at first, you may only bench 50lbs or whatever it is before you’re able to do 250. It’s similar to putting the law to practice each time you persist. You keep going to gym to increase the weight you can bench. Just like you keep persisting in your wish-fulfilled state. Then, you go up, and let’s say now you can bench 150lbs. You’re now a person who can bench 150lbs. But of course, you don’t stop there. You keep going to reach your ultimate goal. Eventually, one day, you’re able to bench 250lbs. You’re now a person who can bench 250lbs. You’ve always been that person, but because you persisted in that state, it showed up in the 3D, as well. It’s the same concept. It just proves that the law does in fact work. Of course it does.