AITA for not caring about a silly argument over hubby's insecurities
I female 44 has been married to my husband male 54 for 2 years. We got into an argument tonight over an ex asking me to write a business letter for him and having a 5 minute conversation with my son's father.
For context, my ex and I are not close, nor do we keep in contact really, we barely spoken to each other over the years. A couple days ago, he contacted me for some help with writing a business letter for a side hustle he has. I'm a business woman and have been even while he and I were together. Because I'm transparent, I mentioned that my ex asked me to write a letter to my husband. I didn't agree that I would write the letter, only that I was asked. He said nothing, and I left it as that and kinda forgot about it.
Fast forward to this morning. My son's father came by to pick him up as it was his time to care for our son for the next 2 weeks, per our agreement. No custody court, just our co parenting agreement. My son's dad works for the government and I started chatting with him for about 5 minutes in reference to a job opportunity that I was interested in and if he knows who I can speak to about it. No whisper, didn't talk long just a quick conversation. He told me that he would get back to me with the details of who I needed to speak to.
Hubby said nothing all day about either situation. Later on this evening, as I was about to go to sleep, hubby started to have an attitude about both situations. He said he felt disrespected in both cases. I was lost for words, because he hadn't mentioned anything all day. He started to storm out and I asked him to have a conversation with me about what happened. He proceeded to yell about how he felt disrespected and I explained to him what happened in both situations. He said that I'm not acknowledging why he's upset and stormed out. I didn't bother to go behind him or respond to any of his messages since he left. AITA?