u/24val

Buenas gente, una consulta.

Me falta ya 1 año para graduarme de la U y por el momento no he conseguido trabajo fijo (solo freelance) y 3 meses de pasantía como dev. Soy de Ingeniería en Sistemas, me aterra ahorita la situación del mercado y la IA, estoy en ese punto en el que todos los días intento aprender algo nuevo para no quedarme botada y ver si encuentro trabajo pronto.

En fin, me gustaría sacar una maestría en el TEC en Ciberseguridad apenas me gradúe y aprovechar este año para sacar certificaciones y proyectos pero he visto que en los requisitos piden 3 cartas de recomendación de gente con alguna Maestría en TI y es lo que se me hace más difícil de conseguir, pero dejando eso de lado, realmente vale la pena? es muy difícil entrar a ciberseguridad sin exp? y también qué tan difícil es entrar a la maestría como tal? (siento que tengo desventaja porque soy de u privada)

Y si no, qué me recomiendan hacer en este año que me queda?

my boyfriend and i have been living together for over 3 years now, and we are currently in the process of building a house. i'm 22 and don’t have a full-time job yet, but i work as a freelancer and sell clothes on the side to contribute to the household until i graduate college in about a year. my boyfriend (25), however, has a full-time position and makes decent money. for the past few months, we’ve been working really hard to save up for the house, and i’ve been buying furniture and other things for when we move in.

however, 8 months ago, my fil (60) lost his job and has been unable to pay his rent. he lives with my sil ( 30). ever since this happened, everything has fallen apart. my boyfriend is the only one supporting them, and my sil refuses to get a job until she graduates college, even though they are very close to being homeless.

i feel like i’m being selfish for thinking this way, but i’m tired of her refusing to put her plans on hold to get a job. i’m also tired of feeling like i’m not a priority to my boyfriend because of this situation. we are planning to get married after building the house, since our main priority right now is having a place to live.

this situation has caused us so much stress, both financially and emotionally. i am willing to help, but i feel like they’ve become too comfortable with the idea of him providing for both of them. i feel like our house should be the biggest priority, especially since we have already put a lot of money into permits, furniture, and insurance. right now, we are saving for the final step which is the building company’s first payment and we’ve been working extremely hard for this, just for the two of them to get in the way.

i understand that it is a very tough situation, but nothing has changed in these 8 months. there has been no effort from her to get a job. nothing.

am i wrong?