r/venting

Hi! If anyone needs to seriously vent, please feel free to reach out to me. I’m here for you 😊

I’m just someone trying to help if anyone needs it.

also I want to vent about the fact that I probably can’t post this because it might go against the community guidelines, since they say the post must be about venting too. I’m not completely sure, but technically I am venting about that… so here we are 😅

its not even the greek kind of nose thats considered unconventionally attractive. mine is very round and big, bulbous with large nostrils. i used to pick on my nose a lot as a kid and i very much regret doing that now. it ruins my face, combined with my long unnoticeable philtrum. once i turn 18 i want to put piercings all over my face if im already hideous like this. the skin on my cheekbones are fat. i figured an anti eyebrow piercing could work on it. and an eyebrow piercing for my hooded eyes too maybe. just wish i could wear my glasses without looking it looking like a groucho glasses with my stupid bigass nose

Maybe this is on me for being naive and new to Reddit but like, every single community I join or try to be part of is a cesspool of negativity and people just wanting to shit on you. Even if you aren't in the wrong, they will do their best to spin it back on you and make you the bad guy and just plain tell you you're trash. Everyone talks the same, and just want to be assholes to each other. Can't ever be right lol. Idk man. Fuck Reddit and all the sheep who use the same shitty language...

I dunno if much people know what it's like, but I have a friend group and we have a couple servers where I share stuff I worked on so hard to make

And then it's just like I'm sending it to myself. Nobody really sees it besides one person and if they did they either ignore it, don't gaf, or muted the channel so they don't have to see my shit because I guess I'm a burden to them

I get the excuse of "oh they must be busy" but that's wrong, because even when they're online they completely ignore anything I send

I just need someone to be like "oh that's awesome" to the stuff I create without repeating it. I make art and a lot of the times I send it in there I have no response so I feel like I'm making it uselessly for myself

But I guess I deserve being ignored by my friends while everyone else sends something and expects me to react to it

I've already tried ghosting them all as a warning but literally nobody gave a shit that I disappeared on them

I'm just so fucking done with my friend group they only care about themselves

I’m writing this hunched over at my bathroom sink at 7 AM.

I’m an AFAB 14 year old, and I’ve been menstruating since I was 11. It’s never been difficult, I’ve always been able to function for the most part. Until today.

My period just started a day ago. And I’m cramping for hours at a time, I just bled through my pad for the 3rd time in the span of about 5 hours, and I didn’t get a single wink of sleep last night.

I feel like I’m being stabbed, I could barely even get myself to move out of bed at all.

Quick update from my last post.

I’m 24, he’s 42, and we work together.

Over the past 6 months we got really close. We texted constantly, met up outside of work, held hands, hugged, kissed, made out, and spent hours together. Last week I finally asked where he saw this going and he told me he isn’t ready for a relationship. I’ve been heartbroken ever since, this literally felt like a breakup to me.

The thing I can’t stop thinking about is… if he already knew he wasn’t ready then why let us get so close in the first place? I’m thinking about asking him after work today if we can talk for a few minutes. I don’t want to argue or change his mind. I just want honest answers so I can finally get some closure instead of making up scenarios in my head.

I mainly want to ask why he continued getting closer to me if he didn’t see a relationship happening and whether me not wanting to do anything sexual played any part in his decision.

From a man’s perspective, would I be wrong for asking those questions? Or should I leave it alone and move on?

I’ve dog sat for my sister’s dogs and they are so easy. It’s literally a walk in the park.
I’ve dog sat for my mom’s dogs but even though they are badly behaved, they are small so it’s not that bad.
So I decided to get a side income by sitting other people’s dogs who I don’t know. And boy has it drained me so bad. The other day I was thinking about offing myself and how peaceful that would be. I’m overwhelmed, drained, exhausted, I feel like stale bread. Like I’m barely living my life and barely taking care of myself to take care of other people’s badly behaved drooling dogs that don’t even let me take a bite of food without slobbering all over me. I can’t make one move without all the dogs getting up with me. I don’t have my own space because they are always in my face. I’m dog sitting at home and home doesn’t feel like home anymore with them.

Thankfully they’re almost gone but then I’ll have to deep clean everything and the carpet because they are nasty. It’s like the work is never ending. I wish dogs were never domesticated and I wish that strict breeding laws existed.

I am so horrible. I’ve dug myself into a hole that I can’t get out of.

My mom spent her entire life raising me. She had me at 20. And now I’m in debt. I’m ugly and fat and at 21 I need to get dentures but I can’t because I have a tanked credit score and 3k in credit card debt and I woke up and I’m at -335 in overdraft from my bank. I am so horrible I don’t know why I do these things. I haven’t cut since 15 cause I thought I outgrew that but it’s all I can think about. Everyone at work hates me. I am so disgusting and ugly even my ex bf said it. He called me nasty and said that my vagina tasted disgusting and that’s why he cheated and he told everyone.

I feel like I keep waiting for things to get better but I keep making it worse I can’t do this anymore I am so horrible

I recently graduated high school, I afforded a grad party where alcohol was involved and I drank. A good amount.

I have lots of friends, I always have. I’m also kind of an asshole so I’ve gotten a good amount of people on my bad side (I know that sounds cringe) but you get the idea. So once the party died down my friends started to leave I was mostly alone and drunk, I guess people I had fucked with noticed and took advantage. I was drugged and raped afterward. Woke up at one of their homes

My friends won’t talk to me anymore which fucking sucks. So I don’t have anyone now. Now I feel like an even bigger asshole. Usually im social with people around me and lately when I go out im silent. This happened around 2 weeks ago no

I have them. I started developing them this year after losing a fuck ton of weight when I got pneumonia. I had a baby face before. While I'm still mistaken for being much younger than my age, I feel like I look a whole lot older than 27 with this going on. I was insecure about how round my face was before this happened but now I wish it would just go back to normal. I miss my chubby cheeks.

I've seen a lot of people getting hollow cheeks with plastic surgery procedures like buccal pad removal or whatever it's called. On some people it looks good but on a lot of people it just doesn't look natural. Now that I have that hollow cheek look naturally and I see it every time I look in the mirror I can't imagine why someone would pay money to look like this. I look scary and also kind of like a dude. As pale as I am I'll start looking like orochimaru if I don't put on weight some soon. Ugh.

Might be a bit late to this but I recently saw the movie and I noticed ppl were talking about who’s the villain bear or Nikki. What about Ian tho….That dude was doing everything in his power to make bear as insecure and as stupid as possible. From the start he was feeding bear’s delusions while giving him garbage advice to make Nikki like him less.

I’m not saying bear is blameless, obviously, but literally nobody is talking about Ian at all. The dude was supposed to be bear’s friend, instead he was undermining him at every turn making him 2nd guess himself always, hell he couldn’t comprehend that Nikki liked bear even tho he had no reason to think anything is wrong at all, and has to go digging to find a reason because them liking each other wasn’t enough somehow…. And when he couldn’t find a reason he started to claim that Nikki is just doing this to get back at him, because in his mind anything but Nikki liking bear made sense…

real villain is Ian, he knew bear liked Nikki and he slept with her regardless and kept him in his delusions, bro could’ve been honest and nothing would’ve happened, instead he tried to make bear the weird dude so that he can seem better than he actually is, the biggest evidence was the billion dollar wish, even tho it was obvious bear wasn’t lying, he just didn’t care about Nikki so why would he waste his wish on her or bear.The only thing he cares about being better than bear… that’s why he still wanted bear in his life after he got the money that’s why he followed him home, he needed someone he can look down on, him sleeping with Nikki was just a way for him to do so, and the first part was him trying to make bear seem like an asshole to Nikki, for that exact reason, so he can seem like a good guy trying to be there for his friend meanwhile he’s the reason his friend is having dating troubles 😂

And while we’re at it, the only real victim in that show was Sarah. Because Nikki knew bear liked her and used that to her advantage (took the friendship but didn’t want to date bear even tho she knew his kindness is because he liked her). Ian was a garbage friend and partner to Nikki, a bad friend to bear, and sarah didn’t matter to him even tho he knew she liked bear….

Thank you for coming to my ted talk 😂😂

I’m so tired and exhausted with life my life’s been so unfortunate since I was a little girl but tonight I found something awful and I feel so miserable and fucked up I feel so lost and scared I’m only 24 and I’m trying so hard to keep up I just needed prayers and a ear that cares.my husband isn’t doing well mentally and it hurts bc he’s my best friend an I don’t know what’s going to happen to us he’s been pushing me and I found something I didn’t want to see now I’m at my dads he’s been out for a year just getting drunk and staying with his friends and don’t come home til the morning time please no negativity bc I know I’ve heard it that’s why I left I just need someone to talk to that’s not family that won’t go spreading my feelings and making things worse.

My boyfriend is really obsessed with being dominated and sometimes I really don't like it because I'm very submissive and he likes like butt play and stuff and I kind of Don't like playing into it but I have to cause I wanna make him feel good And I'm saying this 1 here cause I don't wanna say it to him straight up yet He like stuff like up the ass and stuff and I mean Not to overthink but I kind of think that's kind of zesty and I know it's not really but I'm just kind of an overwhelming person...

Well, as the title says, I (an 18-year-old female) live with an animal abuser. I can't say anything or report him because he's the one who's giving my parents and me so much pain. I genuinely don't know what to do. I can hear him beating one of his dogs downstairs. I'm unemployed and I genuinely don't know what to do. He's a dog breeder, but he already offed one of his dogs a couple of years ago, I don't know what to do anymore and I genuinely need someone to tell me what to do.

That would be all

AITA for not telling any authority figure about this?

ever since a few weeks ago, i’ve been absolutely horrified by the thought of death. i don’t want to die when i’m older, i don’t want to see my loved ones die, and i don’t want to die too early either. i’ve thought about death before every now and then, but it’s always been something ive brushed off until now and it wont go away.

it’s gotten to the point for me to where i don’t even want to go outside out of fear of somehow dying too early. i don’t know why, or how it started, but i’m genuinely scared shitless and i have zero idea how to make peace with it and become calm again.

i can’t even think about my family, graduating, or anything of the sorts without crying and knowing that i’m getting older and i’ll one day die and never come back and i despise feeling that way so much because it makes me just feel like some wuss.

I really tried, but it feels like I'm alone. I am really interested in philosophy and I accepted it's not a subject for irl. But online I still get heavily criticized. I really believe in humanitarianism, but I feel very hopeless. I believe in society and I believe it can improve,but my experiences still make me want to isolate and talk only to myself. People are so superficial and look at things like "your account is 1 month"

Every fucking movie I watch has a main character who's so fucking perfect. Perfect nose, lips, body, everything. It just makes me think there's something wrong with me, like it's weird that I don't look as beautiful as they do.
When I open tiktok most of my fyp is just gorgeous women. I can't help comparing myself to them and wondering what the fuck is wrong with me? Why don't I look like that? It's literally destroying my confidence to the point where I self sabotage good things because I don't think I can keep them for long.
I don't know if I'm actually ugly or if constantly seeing the most beautiful women on the internet and compering myself to them is just making me feel ugly.

It’s so annoying every bodies sexist and then they same some stupid shit like “oh they’re sexist so I’m sexist back” like wtf that does not help that’s gonna make it worse. You being sexist causes more people to be sexist because they think they have to fight the other gender because of the sexist people they encounter, stop being sexist if someone is sexist don’t fight fire with fire disprove their argument and if they won’t listen (which is common) than be the bigger person and walk away that person is hard headed and won’t take advice when they need it and it will help them in life also if you’re sexist just know you probably contributed to fucking up someone’s mental health.

Its a long rant.. sorry.

Growing up i was pushed into situations where I grew up faster than most. I felt like I was ready for adult hood because:

- I took care of myself, my siblings and my cousins at the age of 8.

- I was always alone to deal with stuff

- I learned how to be independent at a young age.

I couldn't wait to be an adult because I thought nothing would change except id get more respect from people.

I get up at 4am to put my laundry in the dryer. Then at 5:30 I put the away. Then breakfast, meal prep for dinner, and travel to school. School ends at 2. I have to leave early to get to work at 1:50. Then its work from 1:50 to anywhere between 8pm-12am. Then I get home, heat up and my dinner, do the dishes, tidy up, then sleep just to do it all again the next day

The worst part is that im killing myself and there's not a single thing in my schedule I can cut out because its all necessary.

School for education

Work for money for bills

House chores to live

The only time I get to myself is the bus rides in-between where I can out on music and just be dead to the world

Im so tired, all the time. Emotionally and physically. If I take my meds, I feel numb. But if I dont.. its the dark thoughts. There's no in between.

And I know "welcome to adulthood". Ive heard it before, and I'll probably hear it 1000 more times.

This literally just happened to me and it's not the first time I've dealt with this.

Dude knocks on my door. Dog goes nuts. Kids go nuts. They all rush to the door. So I have to answer it just to get everyone to chill.

I open the door. Greeted with a solar sales asshole standing on my porch with his face GLUED to his phone.

Solar asshole: "Hey." While looking at his fucking phone.

Me: "Uh. Yeah. Hi."

Solar asshole, face still on his phone, does not acknowledge me.

Me: "What can I help you with?"

Solar asshole: "Yeah...uhhhhh...." typing shit on his phone.

"uhhhhhhh...." type type type type "...uhhhhhhh..."

At this point I move my leg to let my very growly dog stick his face out of the door and see what's up.

Solar asshole: "Oh yeah. Hey. My name's Trent. I'm uh, here with uh...*COUGH* Blualuiereuaeugjhsolar and just wanted to let you know about this special offer from the power company..."

Me: "Yeah, I'm gonna stop you right there. I didn't catch what company you're with and I don't care because I can tell right now you guys are not sticklers for details. Because if you were you would have noticed THIS 'No Soliciting' sign, and THIS 'No Soliciting' sign, and the one I've got posted at the front of the walkway right there...so there's no possible way I can trust you guys on my roof. So I'm not interested. Do not come back and knock on my door again, okay?"

SLAM. I'm so tired of these guys...

And I tell you what, even if you ignored all of my No Soliciting signs and knock on my door, I'm still not going to be a dick to you. I'm ONLY going to be a dick to you if I answer the door and you're typing shit on your phone. Asshole, YOU knocked on MY door. Don't knock on my door then IGNORE ME while you're sending a text you fuck!

And yes, to all the people who say "Why even answer the door?" ...because we have lots of neighbors who drop by, delivery people, friends, you name it...the dog and kids all go nuts and get super excited whenever the doorbell rings. And the sales guys...they all know to stand out of the way of the Ring camera where I can't see them.