u/3ecky69

I’m totally craving one after the post on the other sub, what has overcame me. My local Chinese doesn’t do a spice bag.

Can someone point me in the direction of one they’d recommend, thank you

I don’t know how to articulate this but I will try.

My grandmother was the most important person in my life. I’m a 22-year-old woman, my grandmother has been my rock since I was born.

Long story short, in her passing, my aunt (Granny’s daughter) and my uncle in law, weaponised my Grandmothers sickness, humiliated me and my mother (Granny’s daughter) and did the usual, turning evil when money is involved, stealing keys, withholding property, weaponising my grandmother in her last days solely for their financial benefit and gain.

My mother has told me that she wants me to be present at the funeral , obviously they are going to be there too. I don’t really want to go. Within myself I believe my grandmother and I’s relationship was so solid and beautiful that I can avoid the funeral because she is with me everywhere that I go and no matter where I am. Regardless, I do not want to let my mother down and she needs my support.

I know many things about my aunt and uncle and if I see them or interact with them I know I will inevitably berate them and scream and shout at them because they deserve to at least be humiliated in front of the people who aren’t aware of the situation. They are true pure scum and I cannot sit back and keep quiet at her funeral if the people who objectified her into nothing more than a pay check when she was more than a wonderful woman, she was an absolute fucking angel and there will never be another human like her.

I cannot hold myself back when it comes to hatred and lashing out, especially when it’s someone or people who genuinely deserve it. I can’t bite my tongue.

What am I supposed to do? Do I just tell my mum that I’m not going full stop? But I can’t force her to be alone, she needs me. “ staying calm “ isn’t a choice for me

I have recently been invited to an interview for a trainee intelligence officer.

I was under the impression that HMRC operated from Erskine house in Belfast city centre. The interview is closer to airport Road.

Basically, what I’m asking is, as someone who is unable to drive and exempt from driving, is it realistic that I’m going to be able to work here?

I am travelling from close to Newtownards and I have to get two buses into Belfast city centre. My impression of Erskine house meant that it was definitely doable for me to travel to and from.
But I do not know how sustainable it is for me trying to get to Carne House.

If anyone knows anyone or if anyone has been to this building before, could you please give me some advice? I don’t want to get my hopes up and then be disappointed because I’m unable to commute to work