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I’m a 29 year old woman who in my life has only had sex with two guys and both I was dating at the time. I’m currently in a country where I am very attracted to the guys, I downloaded tinder and noticed that in this country it’s mostly used to hook ups. I’m genuinely surprised at how many very attractive people are asking me for a one night stand. I’m at a point where I’m genuinely considering it because it would be fun but I want to make sure it stays respectful and that the guy will also try and get me off not just himself. How can I establish those boundaries and is there any sort of red flags? I’m finding it tricky because obviously the messaging process isn’t a lot it’s just matching quick on dating apps and I don’t want to talk too much as I might catch feelings.

I’m a woman currently visiting Korea and downloaded tinder. I’m quite shocked at the amount of matches I’m getting compared to in my home country but one thing is they are all looking for one night stands. Is this something only foreign women experience or are all Koreans only using tinder for casual meet ups instead of dates?

Currently on a trip to Seoul, most of my life I’ve been a very casual kpop fan. I have some groups that I like but never bought anything related to them and don’t pay too much attention. I met some girls also traveling and today we went photocard shopping and even has a casual kpop fan it was just a really fun experience. I bought a cute holder and put the photocard on my bag thinking it was fun and some other travelers in my hostel told me that if I’m going out to grab dinner and trying to socialise with local people they will see it as a red flag? Is this true or exaggerated?

I’m currently on my second trip to korea, my first trip was a couple of years ago and during that trip I was a lot heavier, bmi speaking: obese class 2. During that trip not one person made a comment on my weight, a couple of times I caught people looking in places like bars and clubs when I was out but it wasn’t anything different to what I’ve experienced in other countries. Since that trip I’ve lost around 40kg and now my bmi is overweight and I feel as if I’ve had so many comments on my body and weight since getting here. Also more looks? Is this just because people maybe feel like I’m closer to a healthier weight so can handle the talk? Or do you think things like ozempic becoming more readily available to people since my last trip has warped how people see overweight people?