Anyone else’s husband get irritated with their kid 30 mins after being home?
Okay this actually annoys my damn soul. My husband (23M) gets picked up from work everyday @5. We live in Dallas so rush hour is like dragging ur coochie on burning rocks and glass but we normally arrive home round 5:30-6:00. My husband is normally fine except I noticed around 30 mins after being home that he seems completely annoyed and over the fact he has a child. He does small baby things that normally aren’t a big deal but he blows up and yells “HEY” really loudly instead of doing something constructive with discipline. I just want to know im not crazy lol. It’s hard talking to him because he seems to always be defensive when I bring up parenting. I come at the topic in a “how can I help you” not a “why do you react that way” but regardless hes still defensive and any constructive criticism about his parenting is an argument. Ive told him I have no issue stepping in to help yet he refused help and blows up when he doesn’t listen. How do I go about this without him feeling attacked or is this just a fucked situation?
Edit: we both planned our son btw so hes a very wanted child.