Went ghost for a bit
So I’ve been seeing this guy since Feb this year. We’ve been on 5 dates, almost once a week until first week of April. We both had overlapping trips coming up in April. I was going to Europe for 2.5 weeks and he was going to Bali, Vietnam and Thailand for almost 2 months. I left first and communicated pretty consistently, every couple days if not every day. Then he left for his trip and communicated well with me up until the 2 week mark of his trip. He disappeared for almost 2 weeks. My last message was May 6 and he just got back to me today May 18. He was active on WhatsApp all the time. Posting stories on Insta daily…obviously partying out there. Prior to the trip, he was telling me how he was overthinking being away for so long and how that might affect us in the early stages of dating. We’re not exclusive but definitely were dating with intent. I was going to suggest we don’t text and just reconnect when he’s back since he’s going away for so long. However, he’s the one who said himself he wants to keep in touch. After a week of not hearing from him I started to slowly detach because his actions weren’t matching his words. What do you guys think? Am I overreacting? Should I continue seeing him when he’s back?