
AIO I was so upset about my group mate not doing any work and Im ignoring her spamming me she can’t pass to graduate unless I email my professor
This was a 5 month long project meant for 7 people. Huge amount of work where we had to basically act like we were building something for users and use all the concepts we learned. I spent weeks trying different ways to help keep everyone on the same page, ask questions and bring opportunity for collaboration and none of them reciprocated.
In the mean time I pulled all nighters to keep this project progressing while no one responded back to me each time.. And dealt with a major car accident that totaled my car and had to take care of my dad after rushing him to the ER. I had to compartmentalize all of that bc I had interviews too. Then the person who ran the red light and hit my car was trying to sue me fraudulently. So I was literally at my last straw for a moment. And I still stayed up contributing on the project when none of them did
My group mates didn’t even do anything after they said they would cover and I was so disappointed bc I left them docs of hella pages w resources to kind of better explain my thought process and read what I researched, milestones and everything written out for them to either collaborate/change or follow.
So I was honest in the contribution statement I did all the design planning, documentation, 14 page report, 80% of the implementation. last minute they were wanting to contribute but never read the doc or responded to my requests for them to confirm they like the design ideas for months. Some of them did end up helping a lot with getting stuff finalized n tested so i did believe they deserve full points as they did help with the overall functionality
All she did was constantly reply she would look and work on xyz part but never worked on it, even one part she didn’t do and I had to finish for her an hour before it was due. I literally listed so many things she could do when she asked what was left.
She’s spamming me all over email, found my linked in, spamming discord to essentially say she contributed when she only read one slide. I don’t care but from her spamming me I feel bad. Am I being too petty? Should I just email the prof to let her pass? What should I do?? Am I being too harsh?