u/90sslam

as the title suggests, i quite frequently find myself unable to finish when i try and masturbate. this is kind of frustrating to me especially because when i have sex with my bf i want to be able to finish. ive done foreplay, taken my time, toys, ect yet i can never finish. i just get extremely sensitive to the point where i physically can't handle touching myself anymore, but nothing ever comes out?? the feeling just peaks then goes away and i don't release anything. if im lucky, ill just start practically urinating as a release but it doesn't feel like im genuinely finishing.. it just feels like im pissing myself lol. i am on antidepressants, don't know if this plays a role in this or not but yeah. any advice or suggestions ?