r/sexeducation

I am 17 (F), and I’ve been having some vaginal health issues. I think it might be BV, and I want to see a gynecologist just to make sure everything is okay. The problem is that I don’t know how to tell my hispanic mom. I’m worried she might get the wrong idea or feel disappointed in me. I know I’m getting older and my body is changing, but I just want to make sure I’m healthy. How can I explain this to her in a way that helps her understand and lets me see a gynecologist?

I head a lot of people among my friends and in social media say that jerking off reduce the muscles and power of the hands, is it really true? Im just confused !

Soy hombre, tengo 27 años y he tenido sexo con 85 mujeres (se la cantidad exacta porque tuve que hacer una lista para no olvidar algunas), e incluso llegué a momentos en los que ya ni siquiera lo hacía por mi propio placer, si no por complacer a las demás.. pero poco a poco he ido notando como me cuesta poder formar una relación seria a pesar de que ya quiera formalizar algo.. fácil me canso o me aburro, es como si tuviera una mujer que no existe en la cabeza que es con la que me quiero casar y no la encuentro, y al conocer a alguien y no ser esa mujer la dejo, y por culpa de esto he dejado muy buenas mujeres.. ya hasta he pensar que me quedaré solo toda mi vida.. quisiera volver a tener la inocencia de antes

A throwaway because my friends know my Reddit account. Some background; My boyfriend and I both enjoy 'kinky' sex, and up until now it's been enjoyable for both sides.

Our sleeping schedules are also pretty unaligned but they work weirdly well.

We will both be in bed by 10pm and he will cuddle with me until I fall asleep, but will often not be able to sleep himself, so after I pass out he will get up, do some chores, finish some uni work, etc. and go to bed at like 3am.

Then I'll wake up at 7ish to a clean house and get some morning me-time to make breakfast, chill out, go grocery shopping, etc. I'm also a pretty deep sleeper, who talks in her sleep and even when I'm woken up at night it's basically like I'm only half awake and I won't remember things in the morning. All my family know that If you ask me to do anything when I'm half awake or just woke up don't expect me to remember to do it.

Anyway the other day I'm studying and I hear this clicking behind me and for some reason it's a really familiar sound and I get this reaction in my body, and I turn around to see my boyfriend holding this clicker you use to train dogs with a shit eating grin on his face. And I'm like "what was that?" And he says that he knew it would work, and explains that for a couple of weeks (I think two or three) when I've been fast asleep at like midnight or 1 am he's been coming back into bed and cuddling with me, and asking me things like "xxx, xxx, who's my good girl?", "who wants to make me happy?" Etc. and when I respond positively in my sleep (or maybe half asleep) he will praise me and click that clicker. So at night he's been touching me and cuddling me and dirty talking me, and getting me subconsciously horny and then clicking the clicker when I give the right response. We haven't done anything like that in this relationship before, and the relationship itself is relatively new. We've been together for a year. He said I've been enjoying it, and I mean I must have been because the sound of that clicker thing turned me on, but is this even consensual?

What is problematic to me here is that if he had talked to me before I would have probably agreed to try it. And there have been some hypothetical day-dreams or things I've shared with him that have made him think that I'd be okay with this, but nothing was set out, no boundaries were put in place. No, apart from the pre-setting of boundaries as a boundary he hasn't crossed any lines for me personally though, which is where I'm very thoroughly confused as to if this is okay or not. I know everyone has their own relationships and other people aren't into this at all, so it would be assault, but there's a basis in our relationship that I can see where he's worked off of. I genuinely don't know if he's slowly pushing past boundaries to do something worse in the future, or if he's made a simple mistake.

I don't have anyone in my life who I feel comfortable talking about this in any way with. I'm a pretty private person when it comes to my sex life and just don't talk about it past the bare minimum with friends and family. So I don't know who to get advice from

Hi I’m 23 and everytime I get a bj or I fuck I cum in seconds. I always cum in like 10-15 seconds. After that I usually get hard again but when I dont find the person hot I get instantly turned off and dont get hard anymore. Any advice?

why?

My boyfriend is insecured about not cumming from BJ or HJ ....but he says he is really attracted by me and he likes what I do ...but if takes lot of time to cum ...but for penetrated sex he cums really fast ...what to do....is if my fault that I am doing wrong 😕 or he's is not really turned on by me or what else can be the issue

I was with my now ex for 2 or 3 years and I feel like I put in more work then he did when we would have sex or at least the lead up to having sex. we were both 16 both 17 both 18 both 19 when we were together he had basically erectile dysfunction.

i would have to suck his dick for 15+ maybe even 30 40 minutes or so each time and then I would have to get on top to 69 to suck his dick some more or ride him for a bit and he would put a blanket over his eyes sometimes during while I rode him. then he would would start fucking me for a bit, get soft then I would have to suck his dick for 20 30 40 minutes maybe an hour until he came, sometimes he would watch porn while I sucked him off. and then right after it he would turn on YouTube and start watching his YouTube videos, and he wouldn’t give me after care, we sat with out physical contact for hours after sex, watching his pick of YouTube videos. he does have autism and I should've spoken up more about how I felt about watching youtube right after sex but yeah that’s what Ive experienced.

I did gain a long stamina (considering we would engage with eachother for 2-3 hours) and I learned how to suck dick (although how long it takes says otherwise) and so on but I heard from other girl friends of mine that they don’t do any of the work, it made me feel kind of not special, which I don’t need to be, and I do like having sex and sucking dick, but I kind of wish someone put as much as I put in.

Recently this friend of mine wanted me to take his v card and I sympathized with him and took his v card. since then we have been continuing to hang out and get freaky, but most of the time he‘ll have me humping him sucking him off and all that and i tell him he can do what ever but he says he’s lazy and has joked around like “oh no i totally don’t like you getting freaky with me noooo” he does infact like it. it just kind of sucks because I feel like the “man”, but these guys want me to take control of them. again I like giving all I can give but I do wish I would be treated like the “girl”

I am a 19-year-old female, and this happened two days ago with a 19-year-old guy I have been talking to for about four years. We have hooked up twice before, but we had never had actual intercourse until two days ago.
I decided to go to his house and gave consent to having sex only if he used a condom. He agreed and put one on, but then proceeded to have really rough sex with me—to the point where I am now bruised. It was a lot more intense than I was anticipating, but because I’m not very experienced, I didn’t say anything.
In the middle of sex, he stated that he hated using condoms and insisted I give him oral sex instead. I did, but then he told me to stand up. I was super confused, and he proceeded to continue having sex with me without a condom. He told me to ride him, and I told him "not for long" because he didn't have a condom on. He just continued to have rough sex with me anyway. We only stopped because we heard a knock at the door. He never finished, which is a blessing, and I am on the birth control pill.
Afterward, I cried in my car because I felt so used in the moment. I can’t tell if what happened to me was normal or not, and I would appreciate any advice.

I’m 19 and I’m terrified of getting pregnant, so much so I used to use condoms and the pill. I have been taking estrayella a combination pill for a few years now. We have now resorted to pulling out but I’m wondering if it’s safe to let me bf finish inside. What are the risks and how perfect do I have to take the pill.

I (f18) have known this guy (m19) for 6 years. we met online, lived JUST ONE state apart and didnt meet up until yesterday. i met his mother. everything was greaaatttt. like 10/10. some kissing, which was already pushing it because im celibate. no penetration. he 100% respects my decision. we've talked about what would happen if i decided to have sex with him and it was a mutual understanding that we would have to be SERIOUS. i want to sleep with him so bad but im okay with just doing what happened yesterday 1000000 times over. i guess this isnt even about him, im ready to do it. its js my two years of celibacy, down to drain.

he asked me to come over next wednesday but i have a test on thursday so i probably cant do that. but he genuinely wants me to sleep over with him friday-sun. his birthday is that saturday. him as a person is nothing new to me but im just now able to see hes clingy like me. im literally ranting. should i do it or no??? i like him smm. based off yesterday, i know the sex would be good because he was prioritizing the things i liked and wanted to feel. like being squeezed and some other painful stuff. he seems very experimental & did wtv i asked.

(F19) Hi lately, I’ve been wanting to have sex, but since I’m a virgin, I don’t know if I should wait until I have a partner for my first time, or just do it with someone casually. I would love to read your perspectives or experiences if you went through the same thing.thanks

Recently i lost my virginity (25M), we did it raw and she was able to cum 5 times, but i couldn’t, we did it for around 45 mins .. tried again next day..still i couldn’t , what should i do? I think she feels bad about it

I (Female) lost my virginity to my boyfriend. We did it twice and then two days later again and while he was inserting himself the third time I felt a sharp pain in the area of my lower vagina and noticed blood. Later when using the bathroom my urine dropped onto the bottom of my vagina and it burned so bad I’ve never been in more pain in that area. Upon further inspection it looks like I have a mild tear at the bottom of my vagina as well as one near the spot in between my anus and vagina.

It is extremely painful and I (being younger) don’t know if this is normal, how to prevent this again or what to do.

Someone please give me advice thank you!!

So I have been having sex with this guy for about 3 years. We had unprotected sex one time in 2023 (I have already gotten tested since then and everything is negative) and after that we have been using condoms. I just got tested a couple days ago and I have my results. I have asked him if he gets tested and every time I ask him if the been tested he said oh it was 2-3 months ago. Yet this is the same person who said he used to have unprotected sex with random girls at clubs in his early 20s (we’re in our late 20s now.) And every time I ask him to show his results he gives an excuse saying he does not want to sign up for MyChart and that he does not have his after visit summary. He does not want to go to planned parenthood and get same-day testing either. He is completely avoiding it. He did tell me he doesn’t want to give out his personal information. I don’t feel okay having sex with him anymore.

So last night my wife and I of 10+yrs had a really kinky anal session together, I recently confessed to her how it's a huge fantasy for me to have anal sex , rimming etc a regular thing between only us. She/ we has had anal experiences in the past when she drank alcohol mostly but now we don't drink so that kinda dwindled also. Back to last night, kids we asleep so it started on the couch. We foreplayed for a bit she went down on me , I went down on her. She came in my mouth 3 times for sure and I just told her " get in doggy position spread your ass cheeks wide and let me lick that sweet little asshole" so she did. Next thing I know she's sucking me soo hard, I'm darn near fisting her pussy while I also have my tongue absolutely buried up her asshole( very cute little asshole BTW) mind blowing orgasm on my part followed by a really hott borderline harcore sex( vaginally)where we both finished together. So point being I feel like I just fell in love with my wife again, how do I show her I greatly appreciate lastnight and hopefully continue further exploring our bodies together.

People constantly tell me that most women don't care about penis size which I think is bullshit. Women constantly buy big dildos, consume porn/erotica featuring hung men, chase after hung men, make fun of men with small penises, and if you look at TV Shows like "Sex and The City" or "Fleabag", shows written by women for women, big dicks are put on a pedestal.

I think the real smoking gun is the all the men in those smut romantasy novels having huge cocks among other stereotypical attributes like being tall or muscular prove that bigger is clearly better for a lot of women in most cases.

I’m a m six teen. I don’t really know what to do. My parents had the more in depth sex talk 2 weeks ago and it was mortifying because I already know but it was more for my stepsister who is four teen if that makes sense. Over the last week literally every single family member my 2 moms and my sister all walked in on me jerking off. My sister keeps asking me questions now about male masturbation and I don’t know what to do. There was one other situation that I don’t think would be appropriate to put on here that happened also. I have no clue what to do. My parents are supportive but i don’t know what to do.