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so 20/f here and very much single . Creeps don’t msg ; i am just sharing my experience. I always wanted to have a connection and to be intimate with someone who loves me deeply tooo but that was not happening from a long time so i discovered masturbation a year ago . I always try to do it by rubbing my clit or humping a pillow . but i just can’t physically squirt or cummm like in the videos they show . i used to think maybe i am doing something wrong so one day i was like i wanna see is any cumm coming out or not . So one day when i was horny , when no one was home i tried putting a mirror infront of me like a big mirror ; got naked and started rubbing slowly slowly while my legs wide open ; i was watching porn too i wanted to be sucked very badly at that time i remember ; in some time i had an intense orgasm where i was shivering and they i saw the mirror ; it was a white liquid ( little bit only) but i was very very happy that oky i can cummm .
Now yesterday i was feeling horny too but everyone was at hone so in the night i put on my headphones and put a sound of guided rubbing in men’s voice ; i started doing as he instructed as omg one of the best orgasms i had . felt the orgasm 2 times in a row for the first time . i wanna try with a vibrator tooo but i just can’t order bcuz of parents . (Thanku for reading , i just vented out my experience)

ok so i am 21 and my bf is 22 we are quite sexually active but recently when i did have sex with him blood came out of his penis because it was very tight, i don't know what to do it makes me extremely sad ,he told me it could be related to my past trauma and my body hasn't healed yet but i realize that when we do it sometimes it hurts him, he said it doesn't bother him but it really makes me cry the sex is incredible with him and i feel like we have a good dynamic in bed and in general, does anyone know how i can become less tight, i feel safe and secure with him so i don't think that would be the cause so can someone give me an advice

So me [18F] and my girlfriend [19F] had sex. She's nineteen. I'm eighteen. I really don't know how to feel about it. For context, I was raised very conservatively like racist, homophobic type conservatively. Ironic, isn't it? Anyhoo, We've been dating for just over two months, and we said to each other our timelines, for certain romantic events, like sex, marriage, etcetera. I said, like, you shouldn't have sex until you're, like, going to get engaged or something like that. Yet here I am. I don't know what to do, and it wasn't like it was Internal sex. Clothes on and everything. i talked to her about it. You made the joke of don't feed the gremlins after eleven PM. And I think I love her, but that makes me feel any worse because it's just I think. I really don't know how to feel or what to do. vibrations kinda scattered. I feel really embarrassed and overwhelmed and hot in the face. LOL. I feel so guilty for doing it because I feel like it ruins a relationship. That makes sense at a certain time, especially with their age. And I know in a lot of today's culture, it is very much not like that. But for me, I like to take very intimate acts like that very, very intentionally. Like, months into it. Perhaps it comes from my background, but also I believe that it can be overall better for relationship as it prevents over emotional bonding without fully knowing the person. Yet here I am defying my own rules and my own beliefs. She is my first real girlfriend. The only relationship that I've really had before was a year long relationship with this dude in eighth grade to middle of ninth grade. when I realized I didn't actually really like him. I'm graduated now. I feel like I should know these things, and I know that in today's culture, I'm kinda old for this, but I'm overall still just absolutely flustered. I feel regret, I think. Maybe more just that wasn't the best idea. For additional context, it was grinding on each other‘s legs and using our legs to put pressure. And also a side part of me is I really hope my mom didn't hear. Looking for any advice really!

TLDR: I had clothes on sex with my girlfriend and idk how to feel about it, like maybe it was to early after 12 months considering we originally said at time of engagement would be our timeline to have sex.

Sometimes when my girlfriend plays around/ teases me for any more than like 3-5 minutes of like really soft gentle touch I get extremely erect to the point where its painful and it feels like my penis is trying to escape the skin its confined to.

I am 19 and have 7.5" normally but this bumps it to around 7.7-8". I am circumcised, if that means much. Is there a way to fix this or at least ease the pain, it is overwhelmed when I am pleased but it is not enjoyable before.

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Thank you

I am 13f, yes im aware that im a bit young to be on reddit. I’ve always suspected hypersexuality. Since I was four, I’ve had very high libido and I was exposed to pornography. I have really bad intrusive thoughts a lot of the time, and I see family, friends, animals and small children in ways I wish I could obliterate from my mind. I feel oddly disgusting afterwards. I’ve only opened up to an adult about it once and they told me it was just because I was a teenager and then I refrained from telling anybody about it till now, since I felt really invalidated and like I wasn’t being taken seriously. Earlier this year I was very depressed. I was SHing (self harming) and not taking care of myself properly except for showering. The thing is, showering was actually deteriorating my MH. I had very bad arachnophobia, eating disorder (undiagnosed but likely) and suspected hypersexuality. I would get into the shower and make it piping hot. My thought process was that I needed to burn the spiders off of me since I sometimes felt them crawling on me through fear. Something else I would do in the shower was scrub myself until I looked like a tomato because I felt so disgusting and uncomfortable in my own skin knowing what I was thinking about literal ANIMALS and family… I would also try and make myself throw up from three things, feeling gross about myself and something telling me I deserved it in my mind, an ED and the thought that I wanted to look just as sick as I felt, since I was always having my feelings downplayed or told that it wasn’t that serious since I was only 12 at the time so I wanted validation for feeling how I felt. I’m better(ish) now but here’s my main problem. I’ve been having wet dreams about this one specific cousin. I’m gonna call him cherry. We see eachother rarely but I find myself glancing his way a moment too long sometimes and when I’m around him or even just seeing a photo of him my “hypersexuality” (I don’t have a word for it) spikes up. It just skyrockets and feels so much worse than normal. I have 🍇 fantasies about cherry and I’m really scared I’ll fall back into my old coping mechanisms if this persists. I’ve been hanging out with him more than usual too which doesn’t help at all. Which really sucks is that I love spending time with him as a cousin, but I feel so out of control of my own mind. I never have and never will agree with incest, but my brain keeps pushing otherwise and it feels like I’m in a constant battle with my mental health. Therapy is expensive and my dad is one of the people who tells me to just tough it out and that he doesn’t wanna waste money on therapy I apparently don’t need. I just want to hear any advice on what to do in my situation and I’d really appreciate it if there were a diagnosed hypersexual that could help me out. I hope nobody I know irl will find this

i’m very very knew to this and i’m very scared rn , can i possibly be pregnancy?

me and my bf were doing stuff and he
fingered me he probably had some precum on his fingers but didnt immediately finger me we were getting organized and wtv and then after he fingered me we also dry humped me but with boxers and shorts so ik im okay there but unsure of the fingering part.
flo said i was ovulating a day after so idk , my peroid has been missing for 2 days already , i had no sex i’m still a virgin , my boobs hurt more than usal , i sometimes wanna throw up after eating , my stomach and abdomen hurt but it comes and goes and idk what to do help me please

I’m probably overthinking this, but I wanted to get some opinions.

I’m in a casual sex situation with this guy. He made it clear from the start he only wanted something casual, so I’m not asking whether he wants a relationship. I’m just wondering if this sounds like he isn’t physically attracted to me.

The first round of sex is usually really quick because he finishes fast. Then he’ll want to go again, but during the second round he’ll sometimes go soft. If I give him head he’ll get hard again, but once we’re having sex, especially if we stop to change positions or there’s a little break, he’ll lose it. This has happened the last few times.

He told me it’s because he finishes too quickly the first time and because I’m tight, but I don’t know if that’s actually why or if he’s just saying that. And I’ve asked him if it’s me or if he doesn’t actually want to go again but he said it’s nothing to do with that.

Does this sound like a guy who’s attracted to me but just struggles with the second round after finishing, or could it actually mean he’s not that into me? I’d appreciate some feedback, as I’m just worried that he might not actually be attracted to me and maybe just the idea or benefit of me if that makes sense.

Thanks everyone :)

My partner and I tried vaginal fisting for the first time last night. It felt good at the time, but today I’m feeling a little uncomfortable while walking and moving around.

There’s no severe pain or heavy bleeding, but I’m wondering if mild soreness or discomfort the next day is normal, and how long it usually lasts. Is there anything I should do to help it heal or feel better?

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I'm really concerned about my size down there as I'm 16 years and 8 months old it started growing first time 2 or 3 years ago and till now it has grown about like 3 or 4" more basically my erect size is 5.75" my height is 6"3 and I have a decent amount of facial hair that I have to trim. Will it grow more? I have to take these 2 medications for a disease that I will forever have and the meds make me gain weight that I can’t lose (I keep doing and have tried everything and the doctors have said that’s just what’s going to have to happen to keep me as healthy as I can be) but so I only show like 4” to 4.5”. I worry a woman will never want to do things with me because of this. Can anybody tell me what next?

So basically I went on one date with this guy before my boyfriend and it did end up pretty sexual. It was only a one time thing and he's the only one other than my boyfriend, but my bf knows that some stuff went down and is feeling insecure now. How can I help him?

We’re planning to have anal sex for the first time, what to do to make it pleasurable for both of us?

I’m a m six teen. This is a genuine question. When I fantasize during solo time what’s the youngest and oldest age I should think about so I don’t screw my self up. Like I said this is a genuine question because I don’t want like I said to screw myself up. like I said I’m six teen

How do you learn to accept your sexual past? I regret it every single day and the body count is lingering over my head): I feel so ashamed of myself and I wasted a body for sex that wasn’t good. Do majority of people engage in hookups and how do you learn to come to terms with it? I wanted to try out hookup culture and now I feel disgusted with myself and I lost my virginity to get it over with and i regret that too

i’m only 19

Allora,parto dal presupposto che so che non dovrei chiedere queste cose(M14),Però ho avuto un po' di mesi fa una prima esperienza del sexting,ed è uno scarico di stress assurdo,mi piacerebbe trovare un F14 disposta ad avere delle chat eccitanti con magari anche uno scambio di foto e video,nulla di impegnativo.

I recently became more aware of my body movement through dance, and I noticed I can do a slow “body wave” or rocking motion during sex instead of traditional in-and-out thrusting.

When I’m inside a partner, I sometimes stay fully connected and use a wave-like pelvic motion (almost like rolling or scooping with the hips). It creates more continuous contact and sometimes a scraping/pressure sensation along the front wall rather than repeated thrusts.

I’m curious from a women’s perspective:
How does this kind of wave-like or continuous motion feel compared to thrusting?
Is it generally more pleasurable, less pleasurable, or just different?
Does it feel more like internal (vaginal/G-spot) stimulation, or does it also affect clitoral sensation indirectly?

The other thing I’ve experimented with is when the woman is on top ,I gently guide a rocking motion instead of vertical bouncing, so there is more pelvic contact.
In that position, does this usually feel more clitoral, more internal, or both?
Do women generally prefer this kind of rocking/grinding motion or more up-and-down movement?

I’m just trying to understand sensations and improve awareness rather than assume what feels good.

i (26f) recently had sex for the first time, and my partner and i tried penetrative sex (piv) at first but we ended up needing to stop because it was hurting too much (we didn’t use lube nor was there enough foreplay). he then proceeded to do anal. it was definitely uncomfortable and painful and i don’t recall him asking me for explicit permission.

with those who have done anal, does your partner typically ask for permission first or is it something that they just do? at the time, it didn’t feel like a violation bc i had assumed that anal was as common as piv sex but upon talking with friends, i’m realizing that it is in fact not normal?

on top of that, the 2nd time we had sex it was piv sex followed by anal again and that time, the condom actually broke which honestly shook me to my core.

in all honesty, it hurt less than piv sex which is why i was ok with it. however i realize in hindsight that, although i gave consent (responding “yes” to “is this ok”), i definitely should have stood my ground, especially now knowing that this may have been a violation that i wasn’t aware of at the time.

looking for any and all insight, thanks, i greatly appreciate it.

Hi, I am (17m) and have a girlfriend (17 f) who is bisexual. we are both virgins and were talking about having sex during the summer break. We were talking about our boundaries, kinks, etc. and she proposed an idea of having a threesome with her ex-stepmom (who she's really close to). We both find her stepmom really attractive & think that she can help us make our first time easier. Should I do it?