Is it me or him ?
I’m probably overthinking this, but I wanted to get some opinions.
I’m in a casual sex situation with this guy. He made it clear from the start he only wanted something casual, so I’m not asking whether he wants a relationship. I’m just wondering if this sounds like he isn’t physically attracted to me.
The first round of sex is usually really quick because he finishes fast. Then he’ll want to go again, but during the second round he’ll sometimes go soft. If I give him head he’ll get hard again, but once we’re having sex, especially if we stop to change positions or there’s a little break, he’ll lose it. This has happened the last few times.
He told me it’s because he finishes too quickly the first time and because I’m tight, but I don’t know if that’s actually why or if he’s just saying that. And I’ve asked him if it’s me or if he doesn’t actually want to go again but he said it’s nothing to do with that.
Does this sound like a guy who’s attracted to me but just struggles with the second round after finishing, or could it actually mean he’s not that into me? I’d appreciate some feedback, as I’m just worried that he might not actually be attracted to me and maybe just the idea or benefit of me if that makes sense.
Thanks everyone :)