u/ADHDandDesire

Currently surviving a two hour car ride to my new home with my parents. Then I get to go be the “special guest” at my parents’ friends’ cookout tonight, which honestly feels a little funny considering I’m mostly showing up tired, sore, and running on nicotine and an empty stomach.

Life’s kind of in-between right now. I’m newly single, moving, and trying to settle into a new normal. I’m not rushing into anything serious, but I do miss having someone consistent to talk to. Someone I actually look forward to hearing from.

I tend to click best with men who have a naturally dominant vibe. Not controlling or trying too hard, just calm, steady, direct, and capable of taking initiative. Someone who can carry a conversation when my social battery dies, check in without making it feel forced, and actually enjoy getting to know me beyond surface level stuff.

And before anyone tries it, if your message is immediately overtly sexual, you probably won’t get a response.

About me:
I’m basically attached to my iPad. I read trashy romance books with zero shame, doom scroll after draining days, and recover from stress by hiding under a weighted blanket with my squishmallows nearby. I’m a passenger princess even though I get car sick. I get hangry. I overthink. I can be anxious and ramble sometimes, but if I’m comfortable with you, I warm up fast.

I’d really prefer someone in a similar time zone (I’m in Arizona) because I’d like something that feels consistent and natural instead of impossible timing-wise.

Please be 27+, actually introduce yourself, and ask me something interesting.

Hey (:

Currently drinking a seltzer and dealing with sore muscles from cleaning all day. Life’s a little in-between right now. I’m in the process of moving in with family and adjusting to being newly single, so I’m not 100% sure what I’m looking for yet.

I do know I miss having someone to talk to consistently. Someone who can hold a conversation, has a little personality, and actually shows up. I tend to get along best with someone a bit more dominant in a calm, steady way. Not controlling, just naturally takes the lead, checks in, and keeps things grounded.

I’d also prefer someone in a similar time zone (I’m in Arizona) so it’s easier to actually connect and talk regularly.

Also, I recently lost my one consistent gaming friend, so I wouldn’t mind finding someone new to play with or just hang out with while we do our own thing.

Not rushing into anything, not forcing a label. Just seeing who’s out there and what feels right.

About me:

I’m usually on my iPad watching shows, reading, or playing little games. I like cozy nights, good food, and keeping my space clean (even if it takes everything in me). I can be a little anxious and talkative, but I warm up quickly with the right person.

Please be 27+, introduce yourself, and don’t be weird.

(NSFW marked just to be safe, but not where my head is at right away)