r/r4r

Hello fellow Humans!! 💖🌍

I use reddit a lot, so I figured I'd give this a shot I guess 🥰

Happy Monday!!! lol 🥳🎉💖 My name is Lou, my favorite color is blue, I’m a huge gaming fan and I'm from Florida, seeking a long term relationship with someone that I truly connect with on a deep level. Someone who isn't perfect, but is willing to grow in the right direction. Bonus points if you're a gamer, open minded, have tattoos, and love animals. I don't want to be with someone who hates cats and dogs and just animals in general. If I could live a second life as any animal, I'd immediately pick living as a panda. I'd love to have a pet one day when I'm in better situation to properly take care of one. I love cats and dogs 🐶🐱I also love gaming and play all kinds of games ❤️

EXPECTATIONS / WANTS

- I'm okay with long distance dating and I'm also cool with dating someone in Florida as well.

- Emotionally mature, truthful and willing to grow together

- Values compassion, empathy, kindness, being considerate, 100% honesty, and understanding

- Open minded and curiosity to learn about a variety of topics

- Passionate about their hobbies and willing to talk about anything from the most simple things like the beautiful rain outside, to funny things like pandas dancing, to more serious topics about societal issues

- Someone who complements my personality and matches my energy.

- I prefer someone that is my age (25) or maybe someone that is a few years older or younger.

- As far as attraction is concerned, I'm genuinely attracted to all kinds of body types and shapes, but I do like some sort of thickness or curves with something back there lol I hope that doesn't sound superficial, tattoos are awesome as well :)

- I'm a democrat/leftist, so if you're a republican or in the middle, we are incompatible.

RED FLAGS / TURN OFFS / NON NEGOTIABLES

• Homophobia, Bigoted, Racism, Colorism, Misogyny, Sexism, Transphobia, all of the other methods of discrimination that make me mad.

• Once again, I'm a democrat/leftist, so if you're a republican or in the middle, we are incompatible.

• Completely against science, anti - science

• Being superficial, materialistic, obsessed with vanity, overly judgmental,

• Hating animals, being superficial about animals in terms of their appearance, treating pets like personal play toys, rather than living beings with their own personalities who need love, respect, and proper care.

• Smoking, drugs (Exception - Medical weed is fine as it can especially medically help with autism and adhd, ptsd etc.), excessive drinking, hard partying

* I'm not religious, so I prefer to be with someone who is also not religious. Exception - If your spiritual that's okay :)

* Most people including myself want to be liked and loved which is a good thing, but if you're willing to build bridges with bad people at the expense of your values or change yourself into a different person in order to be liked by people, than we absolutely incompatible.

ABOUT ME / HOBBIES

• I'm 5'9, 230 lbs (chubby to fat), brown eyes, my ethnicity is Haitian, I'm Agnostic, and I love being black. Also, my left arm is fully functional, but can't extend as far as my right arm can. I have sort of a thunderbolt like scar from surgery.

Here's what I look like: https://imgur.com/a/4kSPPWk

• I love learning, talking, watching, and playing video games. There are so many to choose from, but my favorite game of all time would be Katamari Damacy, I play on PS5, PC, Nintendo Switch.

• I have a high school diploma and no degree at the moment. I'm currently working as a mental health technician at a mental health facility. It's pretty wild job especially as a first job, but I've learned so many life lessons from working there for the past three years. I also live with my parents so if that's a turn off for you, I completely understand :)

• Over the course of my life so far.. or rather the 25 years I've spent with the earth spinning around, people have told me that I'm kind, chill, and have a deep voice for radio. I've been told that I'm funny, I don't really see it in myself, but I appreciate the compliment. I can also be too cynical sometimes, overthink things, and can be a bit afraid to step out of my comfort zone.

• I also have ADHD and have struggled with education my whole life, so school has been hard and annoying for me, especially when figuring out what my learning styles are. So having an understanding of neurodivergence and seeking a diagnosis is also very important to me, as people tend to be very mean, inconsiderate, ableist, and just not very understanding of how learning disorders exist on a spectrum.

• I'm honest, kind, chill, caring, compassionate, thoughtful, open minded and introspective. You can tell me anything and I promise you that I will never tell a soul about what you've told me in confidence. I deeply respect people's privacy so I would definitely want to earn your trust.

• Music: I honestly listen to all kinds of music from different genres, as long as it sounds good to my ears, I'm listening. My earliest memories of listening to music was when my parents would play Britney Spears, Mariah Carey, Norah Jones, etc. Mariah Carey - We Belong Together is one of my favorite songs. I love Beyonce's Irreplaceable as well.

• TV/Film: I'll watch a movie from any genre If I truly like it. I really love animated films and Finding Nemo is one of my favorite movies ever. I've been quite behind on movies and watching tv shows as of late, but I do have a favorite movie and that would be Spiderman Across the Spiderverse right now.

• I'm a very casual sports fan, so I don't really tune into games that much, more so highlights. I really have become a big fan of futbol and I like watching futbol(soccer) ever since watched the 2026 FIFA World Cup. I probably watch futbol highlights the most out of any other sport. I also like watching the basketball and watching basketball highlights as well. I love watching Coco Gauff, Aja Wilson, Caitlyn Clark and Angel Reese play in their respective sports. I once had a cute fantasy of being a professional basketball player, but that was more of my parents dream to be honest that they attempted to forced onto me.

• I'm also into writing, pop culture, cooking, reading. I really love watching the rain though and the weather channel.

CONCLUSION

I'm not necessarily the biggest people person and I love being single lol so if I'm bringing someone into my life, I'd prefer for that person to be someone that I actually love and appreciate. Like I stated in the beginning of this post, I'm not looking for perfection, but I am looking for someone who is willing to be on the exact same page as I am. I love talking and making genuine connections, as there is a gigantic world out there. So if your truly interested talking, then a genuine relationship can happen 😄 DM if interested!! :) It's also okay if you're not interested because I'm not entitled to a relationship and I'm also not entitled to anyone's time. 💖 Have a great day and weekend!!

I'm looking for a woman whose interested in being my player two, my life partner. I want someone who ultimately wants marriage and kids.

I love videogames, I usually get along better with women who at least have a partial interest in gaming since it's an activity we can do long distance. I love Pokemon, Fortnite, Rivals, DBD, GTA and more. Maybe we can play a game together and see how we get along?

I also like superheroes, I love the DC reboot. Supergirl was okay, but the rest was amazing so far! Excited for Spider-Man, if you're close by or willing to meet half way then maybe that could be our first date.

I like visiting museums(I plan on seeing the Pokemon Fossil exhibit in Chicago), traveling, going on walks, and love animals! Liking animals is pretty much a requirement, I need a dog or a cat in my life.

Personality wise, I'm the shy nerd type. Also been told I'm very sweet and people are surprised I'm single haha. I can be funny too

Anyways if you're interested in talking, let me know :)

about me 🩷

kinda nervous but trying this again.

hey y’all! my name is mikki! i’m 29F, plus size and honestly just here because i’ve been feeling a little lonely lately and want somebody to talk to/flirt with and see what happens 🤷🏾‍♀️ i STRONGLY prefer to be friends with people around my age (nobody younger than 25).

i’m pretty chill and kinda goofy once i’m comfortable. i’m into anime, video games, astrology, tarot/spirituality, traveling, music and honestly just finding random things to hyperfixate on. i’m also in school and working, so i’m usually doing something with my time, but i definitely love to hang out in the city and explore new places!

i’m big on conversation and getting to know someone naturally. i like people who can actually hold a conversation, make me laugh, flirt without being weird about it and just have a good personality. i can be shy at first, but once i’m comfortable i yap A LOT LMAOO.

sometimes life gets really busy so please know that i wont ghost you!! it sometimes takes a while for me to reply and i won’t expect minute apart replies from you either <3 just wanted to mention that because it was a deal breaker for some people in the past.

i’m not really coming into this expecting “omg this is my future husband/wife” or anything . i’m perfectly fine with just meeting someone cool, talking, flirting, becoming friends, whatever. if there’s chemistry and it turns into something more, even better. i’m pretty open-minded about where things go as long as the vibe is good. i don’t have a specific type, but i will make it VERY clear if i am attracted to you 🤭 (bonus points if gymbro or sanrio girl)

here is my face card 🪪

me <3

i am excited to meet new people preferably in the dallas area! online is great too. please feel free to message me / introduce yourself and we can go off from there. i won’t be responding to just “hey” btw.

Hey everyone, I am 26 F from Nepal here looking for a genuine long term connection with someone kind and open minded. I will just list it out as it would be simpler to read that way. :)

About me: I am 5'2.5, vegetarian, occasional drinker, non smoker and agnostic.

What I am up to: Busy with bar exam prep, managing a guest house and I do crossfit, honestly it's something I have really enjoyed lately.

Hobbies: Films, anime, gaming, dancing salsa and bachata, reading, learning about history and philosophy, keeping up to date with current affairs, exploring new places, hiking and diving into random rabbit holes on the internet.

Looking for: Someone 21 to 35(I don't mind if someone is a little older or younger from what I have mentioned), taller than me, communicative, emotionally mature, kind, mindful about the future, laid back and ofcourse shared hobbies too :).

I am fine with long distance as long as we would both be working towards closing the gap eventually.Also, big fan of calls or video chats over endless texting to see if there is chemistry. If you have read so far well I appreciate the time you have given it and please reach out if you think we click.

This is me : https://imgur.com/a/3WcpOYW

I’m looking for someone to game with regularly (parallel play is great too), no real preference on which games exactly. In the longterm I’d like to find love. Friends is okay but my neurodivergence makes it hard to keep friends to be totally honest… I am way too good at being alone and if the friendship isn’t intentional, I will forget that you exist.

Looking for that kind of person who says “hell yeah” to spending quality time together, and makes the effort.

The basics: I live rurally in Washington state, eastside, work part-time in social work, attend college part time, and have a psych degree. Cat lover. Short, a bit chubby, tattooed, long brownish hair, tomboy style. Neurodivergent, pansexual, far left, and a big feminist.

https://imgur.com/a/QHdoZbM

What I'm into: Cozy games, indies, and RPGs on my steam deck mainly. Right now I'm bouncing between Stardew Valley and Dressmaker. I also love anime, true crime, internet culture, and all kinds of music. I draw, write the occasional poem, and love analyzing whatever media I'm consuming. I cook, work out when my joints cooperate (chronic illness, but I make it work), and I'm usually a day behind on the dishes.

My vibe: Homebody, introvert. Curious, opinionated but not judgmental, and I love going down random research rabbit holes. I'm smart and appreciate that in others. I speak a second language fairly well, and I'm a language nerd in general.

Life is really good right now. I love being surrounded by nature, and I'd love to share the good and the not-so-good with someone and be there for them too.

Tell me what you're playing right now! If we click, I'm happy to hop on and play something together. Looking forward to chatting :)