r/r4r

42 year old fun, happy,
Positive, always laughing female from Vancouver, Canada. Just looking to meet new people if anyone is from this area or anywhere really. I often feel so alone and so left out. I have a couple close friends who I talk to daily and have a good job. I love traveling, being outdoors, watching sports and going to games. Going to restaurants and walks, dinners and drinks. Coffee,
Cooking, baking and just laughing and having fun.
Just wanting to talk and meet new people and get to know, hang out if close. whether it’s friendship or romantic that leads to long term. Someone who wants to talk daily and not vanish after a day! Looking for someone who will make effort and get to know me! Not disappear after a day of talking!!
Would be nice to have a convo that isn’t about that and someone who is normal. Gotta be someone out there!

Bored all the way from Australia and would love to meet some people for fun chats as friends, sometimes it's fun if it clicks for more but if not that's ok too

I like meeting people from all over the world and love to learn about anything and everything.

I'm a huge animal lover, alternative with coloured hair and tattoos. Love horror movies, old classics and good comedy. Always chasing the fitness dream and getting out and about. Bit of a workaholic but I love chats in my free time. I don't mind if it's how is your day or a random meme.

Please say your age and more than just hi

Hello 🥰

I'm female, 25, and I thought I'd give this a try again. 😊

I'm looking for genuine connections—friendship or maybe something deeper in the future. What matters most to me is a real connection where both people can be themselves. Because of language barriers, I'm mainly looking for German-speaking connections.

A bit about me: I'm very active and love trying new things. I do fitness classes (Zumba, Yoga, BodyCombat) three times a week, dance Standard & Latin, enjoy walking, and I'm always open to new experiences.

I also love singing, pop music, paint-by-numbers, escape rooms, murder mystery dinners, climbing, and board game nights (especially casual, fun games every Friday).

I absolutely love animals. I don’t have pets yet, but I dream of having a dog and two cats in a few years, so animal lovers are a must for me.

I'm interested in psychology and relationships, and I'll soon start group therapy. I'd love to meet people who are open to talking about mental health and deeper topics.

My friend circle has gotten smaller over time, and I often struggle to find people I truly connect with. Maybe someone here can relate.

I also love anime (Erased, Anohana, Your Name, Mushoku Tensei) and children and I hope to have a family one day.

I’m looking for kind, empathetic, emotionally available people who genuinely listen and show interest. Mutual trust and honesty are very important to me.

For a relationship, I can only imagine being with a man.

I’ve kept my childlike side—swings, stuffed animals, and enjoying small things—but I’m also working on myself and try to grow.

Smoking is a red flag for me.

If you think we might click, feel free to message me. Maybe it becomes a good friendship or something more. 😊

hello there..

I'm feeling a bit lonely so i would like to be someones cat girl for a bit so You don't necessarily have to be good at roleplaying i really just wanna be cute and silly with someone. Besides that i genuinely would like to be someones companion and purr and meow extra loud at them if i need something or wanna go outside ...

I would like to also be extra affectionate with the person I am doing this with. I will be a bit of a brat at first but that's cause i want to still be able to learn from you and know how to be a good girl for you.....I'm cool with meeting up if you are in the lower part of texas but you really don't have to be....I also dont have many limits except things involving blood so i am open to trying other dynamics if you want

The only thing i ask is that you're at least 24 years or older and that you're not cheating on your partner

I’m looking for something not too deep, I like any gender really.

Some stuff about me: I like to do anything artsy, rn I’m drawing, crocheting and writing a lot. I love to video/voice chat. I’m quite disabled so I don’t go out much, and I live alone so it can get lonely sometimes. I have a tendency to overshare so if I talk too much about certain stuff, just tell me. I can be somewhat blunt, and I like it when people don’t dance around whatever they’re tryna say.

If you disappear from nowhere or are a stale texter then it’s not gonna work out. And if your first message is boring like just a hello then I won’t reply. Actually say something about yourself.

hi hiiii, just reposting since I’m still looking. i’m a girl who spends way too much time in ffxiv, posing bun boys, hanging out with friends, and procrastinating on drawing.

i want someone affectionate and a little obsessive in the cute way. double texting? wanting my attention? excited to hear from me? yes please. i love clingy energy as long as you understand i do have my own obligations/friends too. i’ll always come back and yap eventually ♡

would love someone to play xiv with, run content, watch you stream games, make cute glams together, and take embarrassing amounts of gposes with our bun boys. if you don’t play xiv that’s okay too! i have other games i could be convinced to play. bonus points if you’re flirty and can keep up with teasing.

i’m open to fwb if the vibe is there kink friendly (can talk more about it in dms), but mostly i want someone i genuinely enjoy talking to every day. make me laugh, be sweet to me, and give me attention tbh.

send me your favorite job/class + a bit about yourself if you message me ✨

EDIT: Thank you for all the birthday wishes, i’m trying my best to sort through all of them! Obviously with today being my birthday I may be a little preoccupied with IRL stuff but I’m making my way through them all slowly! Pls don’t let that deter you from messaging if you haven’t yet! My post does not have an expiration date.

My birthday is in 15 mins & I’m not terribly excited lol I’m not really the type to celebrate fourth of July either, so if you’re from a different country: perfect. I’d rather think about anything other than this (pardon my French) fuck ass country. I need someone to take away the boredom forever preferably.

About me:

I live in NY, I’m a full-time (at least during the summer) executive assistant at a law firm. I’m still in university for my master’s in psychology, with a minor in law. In my free time I love to sew, play video games, cook/bake, read, & watch YouTube and/or anime. I’m currently reading the Dungeon Crawler Carl series, as for anime I’m working on Frieren & Black Clover! I love to play video games with others, but usually find it hard to because I’m unable to speak. My vocal cords were irreparably damaged when I was 13 years old, I’m more than happy to answer any questions about it! That does mean any/all calls end up being more or less one-sided 😅

Personality-wise I’m an ENFP who can be very clingy 😅 Once I like you as a person, you will never know peace. Hopefully you can keep up with that!

What I look like:

160cm
Curly Blackish-Brown hair
Blue eyes
Fashion style: Metronome between soft pastels & alternative/grunge

I’m looking for:

Someone 25+ with similar interests/hobbies who can hold a conversation & won’t disappear after a few days. Someone who can respect boundaries and take no for an answer. Someone who’s sensitive with emotional maturity. Have a sense of humour, laughter gets you a long way. If you’re generally described as kind/caring or “the parent friend” you get bonus points. Preferably 420 friendly.

i’m not really particular when it comes to looks/gender/sexuality/location. Just don’t be a bigot/racist, don’t be more than 6 hour time difference, & don’t just send “hey.” Vocaroos are encouraged, but given that I don’t have a voice I don’t expect you to flaunt yours.

Please send an introduction (the more detailed the better!) along with 2 truths & 1 lie about you! If you read this far be sure to out a ⭐ in your message to make sure you read everything! NSFW tag is on because we’re all adults. Pls be respectful in DMs.

Thank you for your time! Bye! 👋

Incoming love letter-esque post. If that makes you puke a little in your mouth, I'm sorry. We all gotta get laid, sometimes, somehow.

Hi, dickhead.

Where the fuck are you? Do you enjoy playing all mysterious and hard to get? With your mischievous smile and focused eyes? I can see behind it, you know.

I'm 28 years of age and I have yet to meet your dumbass. I wonder what you're doing today or thinking about. Hopefully me, even though you don't know me yet.

And I don't know you. But we all have projections of the ppl who fucked us up and... Oh well, we'd like to fuck us.

And I truly find it annoying the way you're making me wait. I'm quite impatient. A bit angry, maybe. Though IDK how threatening a 5'4 girl with a childish face would look. My long hair and stupid big eyes only add to how non intimidating I look.

Though I seem to keep going for things that piss me off, like you, my career in IT or world politics. When do we go French revolution? I'm sick of having to pretend I'm civilized all the time.

Well, some things taste better when they fight back... (Like pineapple which produces enzymes that literally eat you back, or the working class eating the rich), wouldn't you agree? Obligatory ;) emoticon.

I hope I managed to pull off charming dorky nerd. I used all of my brain cells for that flirting attempt.

Anyways, would you be a dear and walk in straight into my very obvious trap card? Pretty please with a cherry on top?

Don't be younger than 33 and don't be late, and lead with a gentleman's introduction, preferably.

See ya in my inbox. Or not. I'll find you, either way. Xxx

Hiii, feeling a specific type of way again, so I'm back on r4r!

I'm on a solo trip, and as much as I love solo traveling, it's one of those nights—alone in a hotel room, rainy as hell, with absolutely zero willpower to do anything.

Forgive the gooner page in advance. But hey, if you can look past it, let's be lonely together.

I'm in a listening mood, so tell a stranger about your sorrows or your recent wins. Especially if you don't really have someone to talk to about these things. (Been there a too many times tbh)

Don't be shy and hmu before I decide that I actually should get some sleep haha

Hi, I’m Violet. I’m 20 years old and am from the UK. I’m genuine and love to read, love films and love intellectual guys.

A bit about me - I’m 5’7, brunette, blue eyes and love fashion and buying new clothes, especially thrifting. My favourite authors are Marquis de Sade, Erich Fromm and Franz Kafka. My favourite directors are Stanley Kubrick and Lars Von Trier.

I’m willing to get to know you and have fun but please respect my boundaries 💗 I’m a kind, fun person and hope to receive the same energy back.

I can be shy when meeting new people at first, but once I get to know you, you will see a whole different side of me haha.

Dm me! I’m open to new things and can’t wait to see where this takes me.

Hi, me again. My name isn't Olive but that's what people call me even if I tell them not to. It's literally just a username, but just call me that since I won't give you my actual name over the internet. My motivation for making this post is because I have no friends. I feel very lonely. But I am a really boring person because I have awful conversational skills and I don't have many hobbies and they aren't that interesting.

I am from Arizona. I am very far left-leaning. INFP. 420 friendly. I don't go out because I don't have a reason to and it's way too hot outside. I can't drive so I can't just go wherever the wind takes me to meet people and I don't live in a city where there are more opportunities to interact with people. I am not in school or working right now. I am currently studying for my GED test. If that bothers you for some reason then just don't message me, ok? I do have plans for life after this but right now I am not really doing anything. Most of my time is spent rotting in bed.

My current hobbies are:

Procrastinating my hobbies 😐

Language learning. I am currently learning Latin American Spanish and I have a plan to learn Welsh and then French after I reach a comfortable level in Spanish. I'm only focusing on Spanish right now.

Learning how to play the drums. I don't have a drum kit and I can't afford lessons. I'm just following tutorials on youtube on how to learn without a kit and just hoping for the best. I am also trying to understand sheet music too. 🫩

Reading. Mostly fantasy/sci-fi and some dc comics. I'm not well versed in the comic book world though because they're not really accessible to me. The Hunger Games series is my favorite. I've read all current books in the series.

Listening to music. I don't really care about genres. Whatever hits my ear right, I'll listen to it. I like Mitski, Florence+The Machine, Lady Gaga, Kendrick, Sleep Token, Killswitch Engage, Fit For An Autopsy, Slipknot, Lana Del Rey. Can't list all of them.

Bad news: I don't play video games, I don't watch sports, I don't watch anime, and I haven't seen the most popular tv shows of all time. Sorry.

What I am looking for: I *would* like to make friends but no pressure. Be a decent person. Do not be a bigot. I hate people that are racist, xenophobic, sexist, homophobic, transphobic, etc.

I don't know what we would talk about. Maybe just message each other about whatever. I don't care where you're from. I'm just looking for someone to talk to. Like I said before, I've no conversational skills and it’s completely fair if you don't want to message someone like this. So just ignore this post. Don't message me if you're not ok with this.

I won’t give away too many details, because m I want to get to know people, but I’d love to chat. It’s unlikely I’ll send pictures because you have to earn them with me, so please don’t chat just thinking you’ll get those.

I am married. If you like that, let’s talk about it. If you don’t like it, you can tell me all about how messed up it is. If you’re married, let me distract you from your wife.

I’m a super sweet girl but submissive at heart. I love to please. I want a show burn, not just to jump into the hot and heavy. I want banter and chat. Let’s get to know eachother. ❤️