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22[F4M] #Online ruh roh, them midnight urges...are urging........wanna join? :3

*pulls up in an office chair spinning at 128 mph*

Hoi hoiii!! Call me Kariine!! c:

Currently I’m lying in bed exhausted n tired due to some errands I had to run, so whilee I am likely to fall asleep soon, I’ll have a tiiiiny bit of free time tonight and a bit more tomorrow so I’m mainly posting rn so future me doesn’t forget /bleh

ANNNYWAYS yee hoiii, I’m a gal who’s going to college online rn alongside a seasonal job, tho I can’t really go anywhere on account of me living in a rural town, so that's why I’m only interested in online convos atm.

  • Ideally I’d wanna have a FWB situation, but like…circle with a red sharpie on the F part needing to be solid first. Once we connect a bit I think it could be a bit easier to get into the more NSFW stuff. Equally I’m also just down to being friends who can flirt lol. Oh and umm also I’m a sucker for friends-to-lovers dynamics hehe ´∀`****)
  • I’m very much someone into light teasing and flirty behavior, and while I may groan when told a dad joke, I do in fact like puns and funny wordplay. Puns and goofy/silly banter are an easy way to win me over!!
  • Ooo before I forget I’d say I’m a bit inexperienced with both being flirty back and handling like…compliments n kind words so please be gentle and bare with me heh. I'm also just easily amused so I tend to keyboard smash A LOOOT lol

‼️ALSO AYO HEADS UP:: I’m mainly looking to chat with folks in the age range of like 21-26, SO PLEASE if you’re not in that age range please be respectful, don’t DM me. This goes for the creeps as well ‼️

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Some stuff about me:

  • I live in Washington State, though the main reason why I’m not trying to tag this under the WA/Online one is because I live in the countryside and NOT anywhere near the big cities. I have gone to visit places like Seattle and Bothell several times tho, so I’m somewhat familiar with the area.
  • I’d say I’m pretty patient, lil awkward, open-minded, VERY introverted until I meet a poor unfortunate soul someone I feel comfy to share my yap sessions with. I used to be sensitive, but now I’m more like selectively sensitive?? Meaning that I try to let my emotions out when I feel safe. I’ve definitely made dome progress in being kinder to myself tho so yaaay c:
  • Since I live on the West coast, while I don’t mind having friends across the globe, I do have a preference for people who live in PST to EST timezones. Though it’s a pretty lenient rule of mine lmaoo.
  • I’m a biiit into techy stuff, recently I’ve decided to look into some IT certifications cause I think it’d help justify the...*numerous* attempts I’ve made at fixing my laptop lol. OH ALSO one day when I got the time, money, AND space I wanna build my own PC hehe. I still am a bit rusty tho since a few years ago I decided to shift away from comp sci (not cause I hate it mind you, more cause I realized I do like techy stuff, just not to the point of carrying that into a career that I HAVE to make a living out of).
  • My taste in music is very far and wide pfff, but some of my all time fav artists like Cranky, t+pazolite, Camellia, lapix, owl*tree, and KASAI HARCORES are a few I always have on loop <3
  • I got Stardew valley [PC], tho I’m still new to it, and I also have Minecraft handy ( I keep procrastinating on my worlds AHH) and Human Fall Flat. The rest of the games I have are very solo player stuff, like I JUST got ultrakill so we shall see if I can get myself to play the gosh darn game I GOTTA start saving up to buy more indie games tho dsjhkskds.

AND NOOOW to the freaky stuff: I think I’ve been leaning into vers dom alot, tho for the most part I’m a switch. I’d say I’m a fan of freeuse, thigh rides, TIT FUCKS HOLY SHOOT I crave that more than anything in the world omgsdjsdkcs, rough sex, a good face fuck every then and now, needy moans ^(oh lord I crumble like a streusel if you got some pretty moans,) maybe cockwarming?? clothed sex too, and ig anything with grinding or riding lmao x3

Umm but yee that should cover the most of it! Sorry for shoving a big wall of text to ya heh. I think I can be fairly active on here, sometimes on discord too so if you're more comfy talking over there I don't mind!! I'm hoping to save up for a good mic soon cause I can't do calls atm (noisy background, similar to construction but not quite lol), tho if I time it right maybe voice notes would be cool. I've been told that my voice can be soothing?? but I'll let 🫵YOU be the judge of that.

but umm yee if you somehow scaled this whole post and haven't been deterred yet, then noice!! Oh and um be sure to DM me your ASL, hope to chat with ya soon!!

*as I leave,"You Spin Me Round (Like a Record)" plays while I spin away in my chair*

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u/LilaSpritez — 15 hours ago
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29[F4M]#online- looking for a love worth keeping forever

I'm fine with doing my own thing buts theirs day and night I wished I had that connection with someone where my heart wishes and I can't get over how much we have in common. Theirs days I wish the cute pictures flowed and the funny thoughts n sharing was endlessly back n forward .. even the romance flowed naturally. I like to think that being myself cute, fun, romantic, and really strong, especially since all my life experiences lead me up to where I am now.

Looking for a guy who has alot of patience and chill and id love someone whose hard worker but still has a goofy fun free spirit. Tattoos are welcomed an encouraged as I think they add more appeal. I love the idea of starting off with a yap and I can talk especially if u need someone to listen or just vent.

if u would love the super bubbly girl whos be down and chill for you, Or im sometimes a mix of both. I love pets and family, open to travel and I enjoy a homeboy life to but my heart will always be where ever life takes me. Most days im Chilling to music with my headphones or working, gaming is great. I found alot of great Xbox games n anime I enjoy. Also enjoy walks outside. Msg me ur favorite color. Ttyl.

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u/Low-Citron-3232 — 17 hours ago
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21 F4M NYS ~ Romeo Romeo wherefore art thou Romeo

Hi! I 21F am currently accepting boyfriend applications ! I’d like to start out with a friendship that would hopefully build to a happy relationship. I’m a bit shy when it comes to opening up (please don’t let that scare you off, once I feel comfortable, I can be pretty witty and fun to talk to. ☺️)

(I can’t change my title unfortunately and I don’t wanna take my post down again, so just as a heads up I do mean anywhere in the U.S for applications- this company only works domestically; sorry 🥹)

The position is currently: VACANT 💌

A little about me:

⁠Video games 🎮: i play a lot of life simulator, fps/tps, story driven/decision based games, i built my own pc- if we exchange discords i’ll send you a picture of it !
• ⁠Comic books 📚: DC, Marvel, you name it. If you can nerd out with me about your favorite superheroes (or villains), we’ll definitely mesh well.
• ⁠Anime 🍥: I like a good variety of anime SpyxFamily, HxH, the Dragon Ball franchise, Death Note, The promised never land, Doctor stone, etc. I just started watching Demon Slayer and bonus points if you're into FMAB or Frieren: Beyond Journey's End! (I finished those recently)
• ⁠Star Wars 🌌: I’m definitely a Star wars fan (I mean, what nerd isn’t?).
• ⁠Fitness 🧘‍♀️: I’m far from a gym rat, but I go a few times a week I like to keep myself healthy inside and out- I’m also really into skin care and I’d hope maybe we could do that together if you’re interested ? 🤭🫧
• ⁠Cooking 🧇: I love trying new recipes and cooking (sometimes I even bake... well, I try to, lol). Want to be my taste tester? I promise I’ll try not to burn it. Not responsible for any accidental sugar overloads or sweet tooth addictions !!
• ⁠Perks of the Job:
• ⁠Someone who’s looking forward to building a real future with you
• ⁠Movie nights and TV show marathons
• ⁠Calls whenever you’d like !
• ⁠Frequent replies
• ⁠If all goes well- a girlfriend who would care for you unconditionally
• ⁠Planning cute dates with you

Companies red flags 🚩

⁠Management may be clingy and crave your attention- so you may be working overtime
• ⁠Night shifts ! we need security detail on what management deems “bed time” calls
• ⁠The manager is nosy, and may ask personal questions such as “what’s your favorite dinosaur?” and “when’s your birthday?”, she may keep these answers on your file
• ⁠Management tends to fall harder than intended on accepted applicant 😵‍💫
• ⁠You will be building lego sets in the workplace
• ⁠Management will take a nap if the opportunity arises

Are you the right fit for this role?

The company is looking for someone who isn’t nonchalant- who can be themselves, is good at communicating, will send management good morning and good night texts, has a sense of humor, and isn’t afraid of a little nerdy banter. If you’re into all of these things and maybe want to talk more over a call or gaming session, msg me- I’d love to hear about your interests, do you have pets? Tell me about them; even just small chats about your day and what you have going on !

Talk to you soon? 💞

P.S Being a nerd is a requirement for the position ! 🥰

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u/Fun-Tone-3738 — 19 hours ago
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25 [F4M] online / anywhere / georgia seeking a nerdy golden retriever bf for a long term thing

hiii

my name is kashmir. i’m 25, 5’2, from GA (EST), and open to meeting the right person anywhere.

despite being a huge homebody, i actually love traveling 😭 hoping to finally do a cruise soon and eventually visit places like japan and greece someday.

honestly i’m pretty introverted and naturally kinda “floaty.” i disappear into my hobbies/thoughts a lot and definitely need space to recharge sometimes, so my ideal relationship is very “together but separate.”

peak intimacy to me is honestly just peacefully coexisting together: discord vc while gaming, building legos beside each other, parallel play, random little moments, or just being together in real life doing our own thing. i’m definitely down to actually meet if we click.

✨ about me:

originally went to school for radiology tech before switching into cybersecurity recently (way happier now 😭)

currently obsessed with eventually learning game/app development

huge anime fan — inuyasha, bleach, saiki k, mob psycho 100, black butler, violet evergarden, dbz, naruto, ranking of kings, etc

i LOVE horror: nosferatu, terrifier, as above so below, psychological horror, creepy atmosphere stuff >>>

recently getting into comics too (started reading sandman!)

slightly obsessed with GIR from invader zim

hello kitty + strawberry shortcake own my soul

used to do tattoos!

love art, reading, food, museums, bookstores, libraries, botanical gardens, cozy nights in, and accidental 4 hour naps 😂🫠

i also genuinely love learning, so if you have hobbies/interests you’re passionate about, i’m the type to wanna experience and learn about them with you too 😭

✨ gaming:

i still play on console sometimes but i’ve mainly been on pc lately!

my rotation lately: ow2, valorant, marvel rivals, fortnite, wizard101, demons souls, plus the other 300+ games i bounce around between depending on the week 💀

✨ what i’m looking for:

i love nerdy men BAD 😭

especially sweet/gentle “golden retriever” energy. somebody emotionally intelligent, patient, funny, driven, and secure in themselves.

tech guys, creatives, gamers, gym guys, tradesmen etc are all welcome as long as you’re sweet 💘

i really value consistency, emotional openness, and people who understand that needing space isn’t rejection.

i can be a lil chaotic and bratty sometimes but i’m also very loyal/intentionally loving once i genuinely click with someone

bonus points if you can match my weird little floaty energy.

let’s swap discords if we vibe 👽🍓

“may your heart be your guiding key” 🗝️🖤

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u/firenodesire — 19 hours ago
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28 [F4M] #Online Hoping to meet a guy who is a little submissive on private.

Hi there! I’m stepping a bit out of my comfort zone here, but it feels a lot more practical than going on endless, mindless dates trying to find someone who checks my boxes, right?

​To start with a bit about me: I’m 28, 5'2", and I like to keep life interesting. On the weekends, you can usually find me wandering through a museum, heading to the beach, or getting completely lost in a cozy bookshop for hours. I love going to local flower shops and always make sure to have fresh flowers around the house. I also stay active with pilates and yoga, but I have the absolute biggest sweet tooth and love trying my hand at cooking and baking. My next big project is baking a birthday cake from scratch for a family member, and I already have a shit ton of cookbooks piled out for research.

​Outside of the bedroom, I am very affectionate, feminine, and look for a pretty traditional dynamic. Family is incredibly important to me. I absolutely adore kids and plan on having at least three in the future.

​Behind closed doors, I’m hoping to meet an amazing guy who happens to be submissive in private. Nothing hardcore or crazy, I don’t want or plan to use handcuffs, whips, or anything like that, but I am looking for someone who is naturally eager to please and enjoys letting me take the lead. It’s an extra bonus if you happen to be much taller and stronger than me.

​I only used the NSFW tag because I'm looking for a real romantic relationship rather than something platonic. That said, I'm absolutely not looking for casual sexting or hookups. I genuinely hope to find someone to build a beautiful future with.

​If you are a nice, fun, and intelligent man who is emotionally mature, stable, and takes good care of yourself, feel free to reach out! To break the ice, tell me what your favorite dessert is 🥮.

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u/visionswithyou — 1 day ago
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24 [F4A] looking for kinky online friends !

hey! i’m 24 f and i am looking for someone i can text, flirt with, and someone to enjoy my spontaneous pictures! if it develops into more, then awesome.

i’m very fun, outgoing, adventurous and i love good banter. i want someone who matches. someone who is never boring, go go go. someone who wants adventure and whimsy with me!

outside things i love doing is camping, hiking, golf, tennis, swimming, paddle boarding, and bonfires.

inside things i love to do are read mostly, write, hangout with my animals, bake, and organize ! i also try to crochet but let’s be real, i suck at it lol. but i still try!

if you can be fun and whimsical and are okay with mutual flirty banter, then absolutely reach out! please :)

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u/exquisitepussy1 — 1 day ago
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24 [F4A] #Online - Alt gamer looking for friends🕷️

Hi, I’m a 24F from Europe, looking for people to chat with or play games with. I have insomnia, so any time zone works for me.

I have quite a few tattoos and some ear piercings. I also have cat and dog. I love memes, dark humor, rock, and metal, but I’m open to pretty much anything, so we can definitely share playlists.

And most importantly, obviously, I LOVE games. I’m on PC, and some of my favorites are: Cyberpunk 2077, Forza Horizon 5, Elden Ring, Dark Souls 3, Detroit: Become Human, Baldur’s Gate 3, Layers of Fear, Life is Strange, Stardew Valley, The Witcher 3, Red Dead Redemption 2, Resident Evil, and Outlast. I also play otome and visual novel games.

If you want to reach out please be 18+, and max around 30, since I don’t really feel comfortable with bigger age gaps, sorry. Also please tell me a bit about yourself, including your age, it makes starting a conversation way easier. That’s it, have a nice day or night y’all! 🖤

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u/Pandora_777 — 1 day ago
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22 [F4A] Switzerland/Germany/..? Looking for help comforting my soft side (erotic/ non erotic)

Hey!

I am looking for something quite particular and I'm not quite sure if this is the right group to post in, but I'll give it a try! This post is a bit lengthy, but well structured. We call that Berufskrankheit in German..
Maybe it will help me weed out people who are just looking for a quick fuck.

About me:

General
As stated above, I am 22 years old :3 I have recently started working in public government administration and will soon be studying again. I enjoy reading, nature, debates, photography, going to the sauna and much more. Good food, spending time with friends and going swimming makes me happy. Also, very much in love with oceans and beaches.. and my cats! How could I forget..
Ever since I was young I have been very ambitious and driven and so I have started only recently to allow myself to break out of this shell and make (more) place for the soft and silly girl inside of me :)

Looks
I am mixed, 157cm tall, have brown eyes and brown curly hair. Usually it's straightened or manually curled and reaches slightly past my shoulders. I have a few tattoos that have been done out of poor judgement by 16 year old me. They aren't visible in everyday life for the most part.
What I like most about myself is my skin, because it's very soft; and my eyes.

Additional information
I speak fluent High German and Swiss German, English, decent French. Weirdly, I can understand Spanish quite well.

So, enough of me, here's what this post is about:

I am looking for a man
who will hold me in his arms and comfort me while I cry. (I know: F4A.. more on my bisexuality below)
He should either let me cry before getting intimate or after I came, when I'm a quivering, raw and vulnerable mess. I imagine me laying in your arms and you stroking my hair, wiping off my tears. You then start tracing the outlines of various parts of my body with your finger, softly rubbing my private parts, telling me that I've been doing so well (etc.).!
I want to feel safe and secure. Eventually this could lead to penetrative sex, as I've been feeling very sexually frustrated lately and desperately need to be fucked.

An absolute No Go is any pressure to do something I don't want. If I cry, I cry and if we end up getting intimate, I more than welcome that, but if we don't, then that's fine too. Ideally you come with the expectation of us not sleeping with each other, so neither of us feel pressured to do so. We can eat something or have a coffee or take a walk before meeting, so we can both make sure we are comfortable with each other.

About you:

You have a caring, nurturing and gentle side.
Perhaps a guiding sort of nature to you. You're emotionally intelligent and grounded. You receive mostly by giving pleasure (ideally in a (semi) dominant way). You're okay with, or even welcome, me showing very soft behavior at times. Body wise I don't really have a preference. I do enjoy dad bods and dark eyes, but this is very flexible, because the most important factor is your personality and how we feel around each other.

Generally, I am very open towards any body type/ look whatsoever. Preferably around 23 - 58 years old. If you think we might match, please reach out to me. I am looking forward to hearing from you :3

Not sure what to write? Which part of this write up resonates with you the most? What do you like to do for fun? What would your ideal wishes be if it came to us meeting up? Any No Go's?

Why F4A?
I am bisexual, but have never been 1:1 sexually intimate with a woman and although I would love to-it intimidates me tremendously. I'm usually not very shy, but I believe I'd be very shy in this regard and would need lots of reassurance and proactivity, which might be a bit tedious for my counterpart.
If this is something you don't mind then please text me. Hearing from a woman would be amazing.

Thank you for your attention on this very important matter (and getting through this lengthy introduction) :P

I look forward to hearing from you 🐇⭐️

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32 [F4R] #online - I get it, you love me.

I apologize deeply if you weren’t ready to fall in love with a recently divorced, thicc, bi sexual Aries, Afro Latina with a love for laughter and a desire to continue learning, because here I am. Let your love for me commence.

I am looking for a fun conversation. I’m hoping for some back and forth shenanigans and playfulness. I’ve tagged this post NSFW because I know who I am, and that’s a big fucking flirt. Being tagged NSFW doesn’t mean I’m looking for sexual fun though. I’m not trying to dive into anything. (But I am a bit delulu so if we hit it off I might start planning the names of our future children. )

I’ll be honest, if I’m not engaged, I will not respond. So please send your best intros and skip the basic questions. I’m sorry but I do not want to know your favorite color and let’s be real, do you really wanna know mine?

I wanna be hooked. Make me borderline obsessed with you. And I’ll make you feel like I put the sun & moon in the sky. Too much? I don’t care 🤷🏾‍♀️

I’m funny, intelligent, sassy, charismatic, kind, a lover girl, a little chubby, with curves in all the right places, on the East Coast of USA, and I’ve been described as a sensitive gangster. Don’t fuck with me or I’ll cry about it. Genuinely- I’m crying rn thinking about it.

I look forward to chatting with some of you. I’ll be planning our wedding in the meantime. Toodles for now.

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u/uselessmortal — 1 day ago
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27 [F4A] Germany/Online - Lets get spooky :3

I have recently decided to turn my life around a bit and bring some more meaning back into it. The past few months have been incredibly tough for me, as I have been living in a constant state of derealization. I am completely done with that. I want to regain control over my life and finally feel a positive, beautiful sense of living again. However, because I struggle with social anxiety, it is incredibly hard for me to just step outside and actively make connections. I cannot just go out there and say, here I am world, please give me some friends. That is why I decided to give Reddit another try. I am putting a lot of effort into this post because this really matters to me, and I am simply hoping for some nice conversations, honest interactions, and hopefully even a great online friendship.

To give you an idea of who you are talking to, I will share a little bit about myself. I am 27 years old and I am from Germany. My English is actually quite decent, even though my grammar might be a bit messy sometimes. Most people would probably categorize my appearance as alternative, emo, or goth. Matching that vibe, my taste in music is extremely diverse and I listen to almost every genre, but the absolute staples in my Spotify playlists are definitely rock, grunge, and metal. That being said, I love talking about music, so please feel free to share your own favorites with me. It is quite important to me to mention that I am looking for someone who shares the same or at least similar hobbies and interests.

For instance, I am really into conspiracy theories. It is not even that I firmly believe in them myself, but rather that I find it fascinating to see what kind of stories people come up with and how they connect the dots. And who knows, maybe there is some truth to it after all and the aliens will come pick us up eventually. Along those lines, I also enjoy discussions about cryptids like Bigfoot. Generally, I spend a lot of time on YouTube watching video essays, mostly about the supernatural, the aforementioned conspiracies, or just pop culture in general.

It probably comes as no surprise then that I am a big fan of horror movies. I do not just watch anything blindly, though. A movie needs to have a very specific vibe that appeals to me for me to sit down and watch it. Movies play a huge role in my life overall, as I passionately collect DVDs across all genres. I absolutely love that special retro vibe and, with very few exceptions, I actually only watch movies on these physical DVDs. I also always enjoy hunting for used treasures to add to my collection.

Aside from that, I like going for walks and hiking. Unfortunately, this interest has faded a bit lately due to my overall situation, but theoretically, we could even go for a hike together sometime. I also enjoy playing video games, preferably story-driven games like The Last of Us or the Silent Hill 2 remake. If you happen to play horror games yourself, I would love to just tag along and watch you play via Discord. When it comes to horror, I am an absolute coward and could never play those games myself. (still reading? give me two reasons why as prove that you read my long ass text lol)

Regarding contact, I am absolutely open to Discord voice calls later on, once we have gotten to know each other a bit better through texting first. If you see yourself in these lines and feel like having a nice, genuine chat, please feel free to send me a message.

One important note for the men: This does not apply to all of you, obviously. But if we have absolutely nothing in common and you are only messaging me because I am a woman, please just save yourself the trouble and pass on this one. I somehow tend to attract a lot of creeps online, and the only place I actually tolerate them is in the Radiohead song, and to be honest, I do not even like that song all that much.

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19 [F4A] Sweden - Chronically online gymrat, anyone else bored?

Boring Wednesday so thought I'd kill time by making some new friends hopefully 😭

I’m from Sweden. I watch anime here and there, go to the gym a lot, play a bit of electric guitar, and spend way too much time gaming. Right now, I mainly play Rainbow Six Siege, Destiny 2, Overwatch 2 (my main game atm), Marvel Rivals, Pokémon Go if that counts XD, and I got Forza Horizon 6 for free so trying that out as well. Feel free to ask me anything if you wanna know more.

I don’t really care about age or gender, most of my friends are older anyway. We can also move to Discord if you want to. Would be cool to meet people from around the world.

And if I missed your message before, don’t be shy to text again. I’ll do my best to reply 🙏

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u/BananaBingBong0 — 1 day ago
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24 [F4A]#online let's be friends?

fixed my Dms Hey Hey, I'm once again searching for good conversations and genuine connections. I have a few good friends from here but I am a chatterbox and can always do with more.

I enjoy being outdoors and staying social. I like hiking, photography, trying good food spots, chatting about pretty much anything, and spending time with friends (and my cat, who is my deepest love but also the bane of my exitence)

I’ve recently started getting into lifting weights so expect progress pics in approx six months if I stick with it.

Other interests include:

- crafting

- learning random stuff

- learning Spanish (very recent)

- psychedelics

- interior design

- mental health

I look pretty average btw, so don't expect some hot goth baddie.

I don't work often so I have plenty of time to talk. I'm not looking for love or money just chats that flow naturally.

Please tell me about yourself, put some effort in and I will respond 😌, chat soon!

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u/YouAreUnderwhelming — 1 day ago
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26 [F4A] #Online #Anywhere Let’s get emotionally attached while playing co-op games

Hey. I’m 26 from Sweden and figured I’d try this again.

I’m very much a homebody and spend most of my time gaming, reading, watching movies, or relaxing with my cat Zelda. I love cozy evenings, horror movies, multiplayer games, and sharing random things throughout the day that remind me of someone.

I’d love to meet someone kind, emotionally mature, and easy to talk to. Someone who enjoys spending time together online, whether that’s gaming, watching movies, chatting late at night, or simply keeping each other company while doing our own thing.

I’m sarcastic in a playful way, affectionate once I’m comfortable, and probably a little too invested in co-op games sometimes. I also think little things matter a lot, random messages, shared humor, remembering details about each other, all that soft stuff.

Right now I have a bit more free time than usual, so I’d really enjoy getting to know someone properly.

Please be around 24–30. Anyone is welcome. If you game too (please be into gaming), that’s definitely a bonus.

Here’s me:
This is me

When you message me, tell me a little about yourself and what games or hobbies you’re into. Voice notes are very much appreciated and earn you bonus points!

u/Miserable_Sentence48 — 2 days ago
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40[F4M] - #Online #anywhere - What’s been on your mind lately?

I sometimes think about the quote:

“People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime."

I like the sentiment. The idea that even if a friendship or relationship doesn’t last forever, it doesn’t make it any less meaningful.

I reflect back on people who have come in and out of my life and helped in part to shape who I am. Even the ones that were only here for a short time. Even the ones that hurt like hell. Even the ones that never knew how much they affected me. I will always be grateful for all of those connections. Because somewhere in all of it, lessons were learned and memories were made.

Anyway, that’s my long way of saying I’d love to make more connections.

I suppose an intimate relationship with the intention of meeting someday is ultimately what I seek. But I’m also happy to make new friends along the way, even if we just keep it online. Who knows, maybe we can be each other’s next “reason, season, or lifetime”. Yes, yes, I’m cheesy…🙄 feel free to make fun of me!

I’m looking for someone in their 30s to 40s and single. Emphasis on single.

It doesn’t matter where you’re located, I’m open to anyone in any timezone. But I’m in EDT in case it matters to you.

I’m a homebody and comfortable with it.
I’m physically in decent shape.
I do like to be active, but also enjoy lazy days of doing nothing.
Been told I’m attractive, but I know that’s subjective so I’ll let you be the beholder.

As an icebreaker, we can start with you answering the question in my post title. What’s been going on in that beautiful mind of yours?

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u/wishfulreverie — 2 days ago
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37 [F4M] #Online - Distract Me

I’m not saying I’m dramatic, but I have cried over a perfectly baked sourdough. And yes, I have absolutely spiraled once or twice because I couldn’t remember if I sent an email or just emotionally prepared to send it.

My work ethic can best be described as: “If I do everything, maybe no one will notice I’m barely holding it together.” I’m extremely good at this system and if you ever need tips, I’ll overwork for the both of us.

I am tall for a woman. That typically means I’m forever the designated top-shelf person and also forever hitting my head on things I “should’ve seen coming.” Lie to me and make me feel small for once.

Rapid fire here: I drink my weight in caffeine and call it lunch. I’m often too kind for my own good and I’m probably the exact opposite of your perception of me at first glance. I will absolutely love my cats more than you.

I’m not looking for a savior or someone to sweep me off my feet, but I am looking for conversations that go somewhere. The kind that actually mean something and have substance to feed off of. 

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u/SirenStatic — 2 days ago
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24F [F4A] #Online #LosAngeles - Chubby Latina looking for fun

I am chubby (so if you like skinny girls that isn't me), Latina, and in LA. I have a decently big butt. It is nice when people want to know a little about me before all the naughty stuff but not a requirement. I'm okay with RP given that it involves adults.

Some non-nsfw stuff I like is music, movies, physical media, gundam, warhammer, board games, godzilla, video games, star wars, and hiking.

I'm a pleaser and a switch but I lean submissive, and like it rough. I'm into being used and I like older men (make me call you daddy). But I also like being dominant and making you call me mommy. You can seriously be filthy, hardcore, painful, and degrading to me. I like receiving and giving praise or degradation. I'm not a size queen but I am pretty curious if you are big (I wanna know if I can take it). I prefer discord to talk on and to send pics/vids.

Kinks/fantasies: free use, piss play, anal, asphyxiation, cnc, cum play, breeding, somno, knife play, miso, fauxcest, rope play, cucking, getting threats, cheating (I'll do what your wife/gf won't), and more.

Limits: Scat, gore, and beast

Not interested in or care to hear about past experiences. And no I don't want to see pics of you with someone. Neither of these do anything for me. I like to feel like I am the only sub or dom for you.

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u/pinkheart26 — 2 days ago
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25 [F4M] | #Online looking for a clingy gamer boy to bother me constantly ♡

hi hiiii. i’m a girl who spends way too much time in ffxiv, posing bun boys, hanging out with friends, and procrastinating on drawing.

i want someone affectionate and a little obsessive in the cute way. double texting? wanting my attention? excited to hear from me? yes please. i love clingy energy as long as you understand i do have my own obligations/friends too. i’ll always come back and yap eventually ♡

would love someone to play xiv with, run content, watch you stream games, make cute glams together, and take embarrassing amounts of gposes with our bun boys. if you don’t play xiv that’s okay too! i have other games i could be convinced to play. bonus points if you’re flirty and can keep up with teasing.

i’m open to fwb if the vibe is there kink friendly (can talk more about it in dms), but mostly i want someone i genuinely enjoy talking to every day. make me laugh, be sweet to me, and give me attention tbh.

send me your favorite job/class + a bit about yourself if you message me ✨

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u/smolpupslexi — 3 days ago
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23 [F4M] #Georgia #Online looking for fwb or something of that nature to purge the loneliness

Currently going stag to a few events. Trying to start to put me first and meet new people interested in my interests. I’m a short 5’0 slim thick goth girl. I live in the city I live alone. I work full time and study biology hoping to go into the medical field. Some things I’m doing alone this summer is going to a rave and renaissance faire. I’m wanting to meet others to bond with over shared subjects. I’m really passionate about music and love going to live shows and raves. I also love nature and this will be the second year I’ll be attending renaissance faire please help me pick an outfit. I have different dress ideas to choose from. Just looking for someone to talk and hangout with and spend the summer with talking and enjoying each others company hmu if interested:).

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u/Ok_Source_694 — 3 days ago
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26 [F4M] #TN #Online - Seeking Golden Retriever Energy

Hi everyone! I’m a 26-year-old woman looking for her soulmate — surely he’s out there somewhere. 😊

A little about me: I love reading, PC gaming, spending time with family, and building Legos. Right now I’m rereading all of Sarah J. Maas’s books while waiting for the new releases. As for gaming, I play a lot of Valorant with friends, but I’m always open to games like Valheim or Stardew Valley too. I’m also really fortunate to have a career I genuinely love as a nurse. It’s challenging sometimes, but incredibly rewarding. I also have three cats that I absolutely adore — they’re basically my children at this point and nightly cuddle buddies.

Looks-wise: white, blonde/brunette mix, blue eyes, and recently down 80 pounds. I’m not looking for a supermodel or gym rat by any means — I genuinely find all kinds of people attractive.

I’m hoping to meet someone between 24–35 who’s kind, funny, nerdy, emotionally mature, and open to traveling together someday because I love exploring new places. Having a stable job and a good work ethic matters a lot to me. I’m based in the Tennessee/Georgia area and not planning to relocate anytime soon, so ideally you’d be somewhat nearby — but if the connection is right, who knows?

If I sound like your kind of person, feel free to send me a message. 🙂

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u/yeehawhowdycowgirl — 3 days ago
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29 [F4A] #Online looking someone fun, flirty and exciting

Hey you. Yes, you!

I'm looking for someone I can actually *click* with, the kind of connection where the conversation flows easily and we are still somehow talking two hours later. Someone who is smart, a little flirty and genuinely interesting.

A bit about me: I'm laidback and easy to be around (or so I've been told). I love travelling, the planning, the detours, the food, the whole chaotic beautiful mess of it. Love cooking, with results that are honestly hit or miss 😂. I'm a massive film person who will happily overanalyse any movie with you. I'm into anime, psychological thrillers, and anything fantasy/sci-fi. Animal facts and pet pictures go straight to my heart. I used to read obsessively before work got in the way, and I'm lowkey devoted to F1, mostly for the drama between the drivers 👀

What I'm after: someone witty, curious, and a little flirty who actually wants to get to know a person. I love good banter as much as I love a deep conversation at 2am. And when we're comfortable, I'm very open to taking things beyond just text. Bonus points if you can keep up and push back a little, I find that very attractive ;)

Drop me a message. Tell me something that'll make me smile. Let's see where this goes 😏

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u/Only_Contract_646 — 3 days ago