Entitled students and parents have made me less forgiving.
I just rewrote my syllabi for next year (I should be grading, but I can barely stand to look at my current stack, for reasons explained below), and I finally decided to get rid of test/quiz corrections and not accept late classwork at all. Major essays and projects okay, but it's a 10% deduction per day with no maximum deduction, making it pointless to submit anything more than 9 days late.
I just cannot deal with the nonstop flood of late submissions and corrections I have to grade. I'm over the nagging about when I'll get in all their missing assignments and sloppily-corrected tests. And I'm so sick of the rude emails from parents nagging me to accept late work weeks after the extremely generous late submission deadline has passed.
Last semester I had a student try to submit a mountain of late work after the semester had ended and harass me for weeks after I refused to grade it because, according to her, I hadn't been clear that months-old classwork couldn't be submitted after finals had concluded. She tried to take it all the way to the superintendent, which absolutely did not work, but did add a wholly unnecessary layer of stress to my life.
I also just got a long email from a parent that initially sounded fine and then transitioned to a rant about how I'm uncaring and unsupportive. This person's child has missed 14 weeks of class this year, and I have repeatedly accepted beyond-late work and devoted numerous lunches to helping the kid make up weeks-old tests, but sure. I'm uncaring and unsupportive.
I'm just over it. I'll follow the district policy for work missed while absent and provide IEP/504 accommodations, but that's it. Allowing kids to avoid developing discipline and executive functioning skills isn't "grace" anyway, it's just irresponsible.