AITA for wanting my husband to move our family to a smaller and manageable house?
My husband owns a few small to medium sized successful businesses with his friends. He grew up in a upper middle class working family. His parents worked really hard to bring up the family from middle class to upper middle class. He believed that now is the time needed for a change, so he bought a piece of land and hired an architect to custom build a 10,000sqft house for 6 people not including our maid. His parents live with us too, but they are mostly away at their vacation house, so it's just me, my husband, our 2 young children and our maid.
Since he's away at work most of the day, it's just me alone at home with our children and maid helping me out with cleaning our house, cooking, laundry, grocery runs, taking care of our children etc. Living alone all by myself in this big house did a huge number on me. I feel scared at times to go across the other part of the house. I feel lost all the time. I just don't feel comfortable living in this house.
I've already mentioned this to him several times, but he just told me to get used to it. He even advised me to go out with my friends if I feel that way.
I begged him to sell the house, and just get us a small house where I don't feel scared for no good reason. A small house where I can see and interact with people inside the house all day which won't make me scared and lonely.
It got to a point where he got fed up of me, and asked me either live with it or go live with my parents and come visit him every weekend.
AITA?