r/AmItheAsshole

I’m ( 22F) and my best friend is 23F. We’ve been friends since high school and normally get along really well.

About two weeks ago, she broke up with her boyfriend after finding out he had been texting another girl. She called me crying and asked if she could stay at my apartment for “a few days” because she didn’t want to be around him.

I said yes, obviously.

The problem is that the few days turned into two weeks, and she has basically moved in.

She has brought clothes, makeup, and several boxes of her stuff. She also started using my room when I’m at college because she says the couch hurts her back. Last week she asked if I could give her a key because she “doesn’t want to feel like a guest.”

I told her I love her and want to help, but she needs to figure out another living arrangement.

She got really upset and said I was abandoning her when she was at her lowest. She reminded me that she let me stay at her place for almost a month when I was having problems with my family last year.

The difference, in my mind, is that when I stayed with her, I actually asked before extending my stay and paid for groceries. My friend hasn't offered anything, and when I mentioned splitting utilities, she said she shouldn't have to pay because she's temporarily here.

Yesterday she told our mutual friends that I kicked her out while she was going through the worst period of her life.

Now I'm wondering if I'm being unnecessarily cold. I genuinely feel bad for her, but I also don't want my apartment to become her new home without me agreeing to it.

AITA?

​I (18+ M) work as a decorator on a small team (4 decorators including me, plus 3 laborers) doing school redecorations over the summer. I’ve only been in the trade for a year, but I take a lot of pride in my gear. I keep my kit clean and well-maintained—a clean kit means a clean job.

​Because our 3 laborers don't have their own tools, I’ve been lending them my personal kit on the condition that it comes back clean. But Every single time, it gets returned in a disgusting state.

​Yesterday was my birthday. I arrived late to site by mistake, but my boss had pre-approved me leaving early for my birthday, so I wrapped up early. I came in today to find my personal kit scattered around site and in a state again.

​I called my boss to ask why people were going through my personal bag without asking. Instead of addressing it, he called me "petty" for caring about my tools and told me he was docking my pay by 2 hours for leaving early yesterday (even though I regularly stay late unpaid to get jobs finished).

​Now my boss is acting like I'm in the wrong for protecting my own property. AITA for being angry about this and putting a stop to lending my kit?

And WIBTA if I add the hours for staying late?

me and my roommate (we'll call her J) have lived together for almost 3 years, used to be genuinely one of my closest friends. rent is $1850 split down the middle so $925 each. starting around december she started being "a few days late" which whatever, shit happens, but it became a pattern where she'd venmo me like $400 on the 1st and then trickle the rest in over like 3 weeks, sometimes not fully catching up before the NEXT month's rent was already due

i started just covering the difference to the landlord because our lease has both our names on it and i was terrified of a late fee or worse hitting my credit. i told myself i'd get reimbursed. mostly i did, eventually, but there's currently about $1400 i'm out that she keeps saying she'll "figure out this week"

her mom was in town last weekend and picked me up specifically to grab lunch, just the two of us, which has never happened before. she point blank asked me how J was doing money-wise because apparently J asked her for a loan and gave a reason that didn't add up with what her mom knew about her paycheck. i panicked and kind of froze and then just... told her. the venmo pattern, the $1400, all of it.

her mom was calm about it, said thank you for being honest, and left. i didn't hear anything for two days.

then J calls me screaming. apparently her mom confronted her, it turned into a huge fight about "irresponsibility," and J found out through her mom that i was the source. she's saying i had zero right to discuss her finances with anyone, that it's humiliating, that i "weaponized" her mother against her, and that our friendship is probably done.

i keep going back and forth. on one hand yeah, it wasn't really my story to tell unprompted like that, her mom asked ME, i didn't go seeking her out. on the other hand i'm not a bank and i've been quietly stressed about money that isn't mine to be missing for 8 months and nobody in my life knew that until this happened by accident.

my other friends are split. one said i should've just said "you'd have to ask her" and left it. another said J created this problem the second she involved her mom in a lie that happened to touch me.

aita for actually answering the question when it was asked directly

My sister is pregnant with her first child, and her gender reveal party is over the weekend. She’s been super intentional about keeping the gender a complete surprise, making it clear that nobody in our family knows yet, not even our mom.

Everything was going according to plan until her friend "Teresa" got involved. Teresa has a history of taking advantage of my sister's kindness and making things about herself to the point where my sister’s husband dislikes her. She has major main character syndrome, and this pregnancy brought out her dark side. She even told my sister to her face that she didn't expect my sister to have a baby before her!

When my sister called Teresa to invite her and mentioned I was the gender keeper, Teresa offered to "help me out" even though she rarely speaks to me. My sister explicitly told Teresa that she would call me to ask if I needed her help. But the second Teresa hung up, she ignored what my sister said and called me. I asked her directly if my sister said it was okay for her to know, and she twisted it, saying my sister told her I could tell her if needed since she was going to help with the planning. I wanted to give her the benefit of the doubt as a close friend, but because she inserted herself before my sister and I could talk, I fell for the trap and let it slip.

Almost immediately, I realized I had been played. My sister texted me warning me that Teresa was going to ask about the gender but it was too late when I saw this. I called my sister right away, and she told me Teresa was being very insistent about knowing the baby's gender to help plan events, claiming she had to plan everything even though nobody asked her to. My sister found this deeply offensive since Teresa isn't immediate family and it was completely out of line.

My sister said it would be a bad idea to let Teresa be a second gender keeper because other family members were more deserving. Realizing how devastated my sister would be, when she asked if I had told Teresa, I panicked, lied, and said no. I only did it because I didn't want to ruin this special moment for her.

I knew the next step was to talk to Teresa. I explained to her how offensive it would be to our mom, cousins, and family if she knew before them. We agreed we would keep quiet, but she kept complaining that things felt rushed and claimed my sister should have been "more specific" about keeping it a secret.

During the party, I will be taking photos, which gives me the perfect excuse to stay busy and keep distance from Teresa. I’ve been feeling so guilty about lying, so my plan is to let my sister have her perfect, stress-free party without drama, and then sit down with her privately right after to tell her everything.

AITAH for waiting until after the party to tell my sister the truth, or should I have handled this differently?

A relative asked to borrow money again. This person already owes money to at least three other family members and has a history of not paying people back on time (or at all).
When the request came, it was turned down. The response was that it didn’t feel right to add to an already long list of unpaid debts. There was immediate pushback from some family members saying it was cold and that “family helps family.”
The pattern has been the same for years — borrow, promise to repay, then disappear until the next request. Saying yes would just continue that cycle. Saying no created tension.
So… AITA for refusing?

My husband (M30) and I (F30) went on a cruise abroad with his immediate family. My FIL booked this trip 2 years ago and generously paid for everyone’s flights, cruise fees, hotel rooms, excursions, etc. When we travel with my in-laws, my FIL always pays for my husband, me, my siblings-in-law, and their spouses to fly in economy or economy w/ extra legroom. My FIL and MIL either fly first class or charter private. I want to be clear that I have never, and will never, complain about economy; I always fly economy, apart from a handful of occasions in my life, and I feel grateful to be on these trips and to have such a generous FIL. 

This was the first time we did a family trip abroad. For this particular trip, I had the points and money to upgrade my husband and me from Comfort+ (which my FIL booked us on with my siblings-in-law) to Delta One (the flat-bed seats). My husband is a tall man with back issues, had never flown in flat-bed seats before, and the flights were 10+ hours each, so I wanted to surprise him with this upgrade. I didn’t think it would offend anyone given my FIL and MIL were also in Delta One, this was a one-time special upgrade, and my siblings-in-law are all adults and with their spouses in Comfort+, so no concerns of splitting up the family.

Also, my BIL and his wife had a baby 10 mths prior and, despite my FIL asking them to reconsider, they decided to come on the trip and bring baby with them. None of us had kids when the trip was booked 2 years ago, so the itinerary and cruise line were not baby-friendly. I had already intended to upgrade us before their pregnancy, but their decision to bring their baby solidified my decision to upgrade (although I’d never say that). My husband and I are prioritizing travel before we have kids, so we wouldn't have enjoyed sitting beside a crying baby on every flight. As much as we love baby, the entire mood of the trip was altered. It was no longer the relaxing and adventurous vacation we had envisioned and the trip used up all of our vacation days. Sitting in the lounge and plane was the only time we didn't hear crying.

Our upgrade has caused some tension from my BIL’s wife and my MIL towards me. My MIL told my husband that first class isn't for "kids" (referring to us 30 y/os), that sitting in economy w/ the siblings makes for great memories, and "who is going to help with the baby?" (if we wanted to take care of kids while traveling then we wouldn't wait to have kids ourselves). I want to give my BIL's wife grace given that she's postpartum, but she spent the trip "whispering" to my MIL, side-eyeing me, will interrupt anytime someone asks me a question, and is extra bubbly with others but flat towards my husband and I. My husband can’t tell if his brother is offended. My FIL was surprised but not offended; he doesn’t like surprises, so I should have told him ahead of time. I truly did not think this would cause issues, but maybe I'm not as sensitive as I should be?

I (26F) recently (March) moved in with my husband (28M) and his housemate.

We generally have a good understanding of roles in our relationship and there are certain things we do individually because we want them done:
I.e I make the bed every day because husband doesn’t believe in making beds as we “are just getting back into it”
He cleans the floors because he hates the feeling of dirt under his feet and likes walking barefoot.

Then, we share the task of Cooking & Dishes

However - I have been the only one cleaning up the kitchen (wiping counters, stove, tidying up etc) after the cooking and he only washes dishes when he knows he is cooking.
I have also been the only one doing our washing.

While I understand there are some roles/tasks we do individually, I have asked him MULTIPLE times to help with the washing and complained about them not cleaning up after themselves after cooking.

He then said he doesn’t feel the need to do washing as much as I do because he has a lot of clothes and would only wash every 2 or so weeks. We live in a small apartment with our housemate in London and do not have enough space to hang up 2 weeks of both of our washing. It also piles up and takes up a lot of space in our already small room.

He also was not saying thank you to me when I was doing it which upset me as I feel he is entitled. We have fought numerous times about me not feeling like he helps and he said I should “just ask him”?!! Which I think if very unfair when it’s a shared space. Why should I have to ask an adult to clean up after themselves or help with washing?

After many fights of this and me grumpily doing washing - he has started saying thank you, which he thinks is a nice thing and in theory is good - BUT he still has not changed his actions of helping with those things.

So AITA for getting annoyed when he says thank you?

I 35F have a friend 36F who has a husband caught cheating by other people including me. Yes saw him and the woman myself but that time i could not take a photo to show her. He's good in a sense that he can trick his wife though. The wife is oblivious and says she believes her husband despite the cheating reports. I stopped talking to her because she would not listen. That's her life anyway. But when she said she believes and KNOWS him very well, out of frustration i replied, that is because you are dependent on him (financially), that's why you have no choice but to blindly believe him. Yes she has never had a good career. When she got married less than a year she got pregnant and was staying at home since then. She did not manage to setup anything for herself. No money of her own. AITA for saying that to her? I was thinking maybe it can wake her up. But what do i know

I'm 30M and my brother is 27M.

Last year my brother was getting married and was short about $4,000. He asked if I could lend it to him.

I said yes, but I told him I'd need it back within a year. He agreed.

A few months ago I reminded him about it and he said he'd start paying me back after his wedding expenses were settled.

Then last week I found out he and his wife had just booked a $6,000 vacation.

I asked him about the $4,000.

He said, "Bro, it's not like I don't have the money. I just don't want to think about debt while I'm enjoying my life."

I told him that's literally what debt is.

He got annoyed and said I was acting like his bank instead of his brother.

I said, "You asked me for a loan. Banks also expect the money back."

Now my parents think I'm being petty because I clearly don't need the $4,000 urgently.

My brother says I embarrassed him by bringing it up right after he announced the vacation.

I don't think asking for money back after the agreed deadline is unreasonable.

AITA here?

My sister(22)and I(19)currently share a car, and I’m starting to get really frustrated with the arrangement.

I’m trying to save up for my own car, but the problem is that I need to be able to work in order to actually save that money. One of my jobs requires me to drive, so I’ve had to turn down shifts that I otherwise could have worked simply because my sister needs the car.

I also tutor on the side. For example, on Mondays I sometimes have two tutoring sessions back-to-back in different locations. The only realistic way for me to get from one to the other on time is to drive.

My sister also works, and she prefers/feels that she needs to drive to work. However, her job is at one location for several hours and is accessible by public transport. It would definitely be more inconvenient for her to take public transport, but it’s possible. With some of my work, driving isn’t just more convenient, I literally cannot take the shift without a car.

Another thing that’s frustrating me is the cost. My sister drives the car more than I do, and as far as I understand, she basically only pays for petrol. Meanwhile, when I don’t have access to the car, I’m paying for public transport and constantly having to top up my Opal card. So I’m sometimes paying petrol and public transport, despite using the car less.

I know I’m the one who needs to save for my own car, and I don’t think my sister should never be allowed to use the car. I just feel like the current arrangement is making it harder for me to get to the point where I can afford my own car in the first place.

I think work that requires the car should take priority over situations where public transport is realistically available, but my sister doesn’t agree.
So, AITAH for thinking I should get priority for the car when I need it for work, especially when the alternative for me is turning down shifts and losing income?

Apologies for the copious amount of red flags in this post.

My ex and I are both from the same town, where I now live while he has moved across the country. We have known eachother for years and he was one of my closest friends for a time, until we started a long distance relationship two years ago. Said relationship ended a few months ago, due to mental health issues (he has depression and I have anxiety and that relationship was slowly making us both feel worse) and long-term incompatibility.

After a few months of no contact, I wished him a happy birthday. We got to talking, and the conversation was a nice one. We agreed we were better off as friends, so I suggested we meet up for coffee, since we were both in my hometown for a few days.

I mentioned it to my friends, and my parents. My friends told me it was a bad idea, because it might make us both suffer. Which I understand.

My parents...freaked out. They started screaming that it was a bad idea, that he would hurt me because he might still be in love with me and not handle rejection. That he's autistic (he's not diagnosed, but I suspect he is: the whole reason he ghosted me was that I said "perhaps it's better that we do not talk for a while" and he took me very literally) so he may not take nonverbal clues well, that he will not even care that we are in a coffee shop. That I'm leading him on.

So I negotiated. I asked him if he would be okay with just spending like one hour catching up close to my house (so my parents can see us), and he said yes. My parents were initially okay with this, but then changed their minds and started saying it would still be dangerous and that they would not let me out of the house (?), that 4 months is still too early to meet up and that I may be giving him ideas. And that, if I did give him ideas, he may not handle rejection well. That he's lonely and depressed, and that this is "a dangerous combination" and not to complain if we meet up and "something" happens to me.

For context, my ex has never been even remotely aggressive towards me or anyone.

And I'm honestly so annoyed, not even about this particular incident, but more regarding my perceived lack of judgement. I know you never really know someone, but it's insulting to suggest I haven't thought this through. I am 27 ( I am still saving up to move out and live in a country where it's normal to live with your parents well into your 30s), have lived in several different countries and met several different people and somehow survived unscathed. I don't know if I am being unreasonable for being upset.

I may not meet up with my ex anyway, but AITAH for feeling insulted?

I am 15 (M), i have a nice group of friends who always hang out with and we are rly close. We have this discord server where we vc a lot and play games together, it is owned by a previous student in our school whos our friend (hes out of school now). theres like 30 other out of school friends in this server.

Recently a new kid (lets call him Jonathan) came to our school and we were rly respectful with him after learning abt his conditions and we took him into our friendgroup, he was not that close but we were all friendly and inclusive to him.

However, after he joined the server, Jonathan became completely annoying: he was spam pinging everyone in the server, spamming words that didnt make sense, and joined a lot of calls that we had and just screamed. As the mod of the server i told him to be respectful to other ppl and follow the rules, but he thinks that we are targetting him because of his autism. I told him that his autism does not mean that he should be a jerk towards other ppl and it turned into a huge argument. I decided to give him another chance by just timing him out for 2 hrs.

after that two hours, he absolutely went afar, spamming more and saying that we all in the server dont care abt him. So i removed him. I think he begged one of our friend who wasnt aware of the situation to add him back, at first we didnt say anything, but after seeing the comments saying how annoying he is by the server members during the time he was gone. He initiated yet anothr argument. so I perm banned him. Now he is threatening to report us saying we are not being inclusive, and completely just sideeyes our friend group and looks at us maliciously. he also told the other friend group in our grade of our "atrocious" behaviour, they did not believe it but his threat to tell the principal abt this is not exactly a comfortable situation to be in. my friends said that i was too decisive when banning him but they would tolerate any consequences and not be mad at me. But i still feel bad because i am the one who did the thing to endanger the whole group. So AITA?

I asked my gf abt this and she said I was mature with my call to ban him: warning, striking, and then banning. However im still like shaky abt the situation considering that he does have neurodivergence.

I (female, 17yr) live in a house with other 6 people, this includes my dad, stepsisters, my stepsister's husband and my stepmother. I'm accustomed to when I'm going to take a bath I just go to the bathroom with my towel and get out of the bathroom with the towel around my body like a normal person. Until one day, my dad give this hideous bathrobe and told me to use it, I was like "oh okey" but I wasn't really gonna use it because it's an awkward thing to wear when you're wet. I didn't use it at all all those days and one day my dad asked me where was it and why I haven't been using it, I told him that I didn't like it because it's literally made of fur and it's awkward to get on it when you're wet and he didn't say anything, I thought that it died there. My mom (lives in the Dominican Republic) call me one day and told me that my dad told her to talk to me about the f bathrobe and how I'm supposed to wear it because my stepsister's husband isn't my blood family and it's disrespectful to just wear a towel when I'm getting out of the bathroom. So, AITAH?

***To have in mind: None else wears a bathrobe in the house, it's just me looking like an idiot, and my dad makes me wear it even when my stepsister's husband is not here***

I planned a 4-day birthday trip with 5 of my closest friends and paid for the Airbnb months in advance. I told everyone from the beginning that I wanted it to be a small group because I didn’t want the trip to become chaotic.
About two weeks before the trip, I found out my best friend had invited another person without telling me. I’ve met this person several times, but we’ve never really gotten along. I asked my friend why they invited them, and they said, “It’s not a big deal, there’s enough space.”
I told them I wasn’t comfortable with it and reminded them that I was paying for most of the Airbnb and that this was supposed to be my birthday trip.
They got angry and said I was being controlling and that I was trying to decide who they could be friends with.
I eventually told them that if they brought the person anyway, I would rather they not come at all.
They said I was ruining our friendship over something “stupid.”
Now two of our other friends think I went too far, while the others agree with me

Like a week ago,my brother asked me to draw his yt pfp since I'm going to art school.

I was reluctant at first because he wasn't taking this seriously and spamming me when I asked him to send me the inspo, pose etc. When I send him progress of my other art to try to make an active conversation, he totally ignored it.

Then the next day my mother guiltrips me into doing it. She scolds me a few hours after for not doing it already, as if that's my only priority. I have art account that I have to keep working on. I don't start the following day due to a birthday in our family, but my brother still wants me to work on it that day.

The thing started Friday and I start drawing on Monday. My brother comes to me every night asking me to do it right then. The artwork was digital, and I've been only drawing digitally for a year and a half.

On Monday I show him the sketch, he tells me what to fix, I do and I start coloring. I don't finish it on Monday due to it being a really long process, since I'm not the most experienced. I work at least 4 hours.

I pick it up again two days later and I even redo a big part of it bc I felt like it could be better. After another 4 hours I finish it and even add lots of filter and pixelated options for my brother to choose from. He doesn't say anything about it. Not even a thank you, but doesn't complain either.

Then the next evening my mom calls me over and starts ridiculing my drawing. Tries to get me do it all again. I literally gave my best, I couldn't do anything better but she tells me I didn't put any effort and it shows. She follows me to my bedroom and won't leave me alone. She's judging it but not even saying anything certain thing that I could fix. Just the whole piece. For whole minutes, she bullies me into sobbing(I'm very easy crying thanks to how her ex-husband treated me and I told her that recently. Now she starts ridiculing me for that too and says that she isn't allowed to criticize me ever.) I try to peacefully tell her that I didn't ask for her criticism, but she keeps attacking me. She even starts doing the laundry on the balcony of my room right then so I couldn't tell her to leave. My brother joins too, but he keeps silent and stands in the corner of my room on tiktok. I tell them to leave repeatedly. She just keeps going on how "she's never allowed to share her opinion again" and "it won't be good for me in art school if I can't accept criticism". For context, I went to art lessons for months to get into art school and I was criticised by my teacher and took it well. But my mother's criticism is just "do it all over again but better". Nobody in my family knows ANYTHING about art.

Later, she makes me give away my tablet and pencil to him(I was on my tablet to get background noise so I could sleep). Next morning, he send me a poorly made caricature that doesn't even have the same more complex pose and background he wanted. My mom says that this one is okay.

title basically says it. I was slammed at work yesterday and quite literally went home and fell asleep. Woke up, it’s 6 am mind you. and immediately texted my friend apologizing for being late but wishing her a happy birthday, telling her how amazing she is and that i love her. and all she replied with is “it’s fine.” ??? in girl code that obviously means ur upset. no thank you, no i love u back, just a short reply. i get i missed it but we are grown at this point, we have jobs, we have things going on in our lives, and stuff happens. it shouldn’t be that deep.

Insanely Rude Brother

My little brother (18M) is insanely entitled and rude for no reason and it’s been like this for years. He uses everyone around him, his gf buys all his meals, his gf and my mom fill out job applications for him and when he gets a interview it’s up to him if he wants to go. Today he said he was having trouble breathing, and he has asthma, right away I told him he needs to set up a appt to get more medicine and to that he replied calling me “stupid” and the n word. After I told him to stop starting things for no reason he just told me to “stfu” he didn’t start respecting me til i called and got his medicine ready for him and set up a dr appt for him. Everything has been peachy and quiet until i saw that he had left and i texted him saying “hey please let me know if you’re coming back tonight or around what time you’ll be back so i can unlock the door for you, goodnight I love you”. No response for hours so I figured he wasn’t coming back, then i get a text saying “you didn’t even have to fucking lock it”. I said once again the attitude he was giving is not needed then he replied “It’s not for no reason stupid, you knew I was out, you could’ve js told me to lock the door before js locking me out” as if I didn’t give opportunity to literally tell me when or if he was coming back so I could unlock the door. This is only 1 day of dealing with him. Does anyone else have a brother that is a manchild and makes you feel like shit because there’s just nothing you can do to help him anymore?

EDIT: i’m seeing a lot of you say that I need to step back and stop treating him like a baby, usually I am not the one to step in and I do put a lot of space in between me and him because I see through his tricks. However, my parents are in Hawaii so I kind of had to step in especially because it was medical and he has bad asthma and I could literally hear him wheezing and he has landed himself in the hospital just to manipulate us. I figured I would rather pay for his medicine than a ER visit. After he started acting rude again after I had gotten his medication, I told him he was on his own and can figure out the rest of it from here.

I (19M) have had a “rash” oh my hand for a month and a half. A month ago I called my mother (41F) to ask if I ever had a skin condition or if there’s any in the family. She told me no that there wasn’t any , and today I went to urgent care to ask about it. Turns out I have eczema and got diagnosed when I was a baby and never had anymore symptoms until this most recent time. I called her to ask if she know about it and she said yes but thought it wasn’t important because it “went away”. She told me I shouldn’t be angry with her, that she did nothing wrong and that it doesn’t matter. AITAH for being mad about it. I feel bad about being upset because she’s my mom.

Edit: I would like to clarify that I have not yelled or taken my feeling out on my mother. This is not the first time she has lied to me about my medical history before. For example for years now she has told me I don’t have ADHD even tho I had been diagnosed by a doctor when I was a kid.

Okay, here we go... so, I'm an Uber Driver. I get a ride for a passenger to a nice neighborhood in my town. Seems good. I enter the neighborhood and as I am rounding the corner, a young girl is in the same lane rounding the corner coming at me. I hammer on my breaks coming to a halt. The girl swerves around me. She was probably a few feet from my car. I'm partially in shock. I turn around to look at this kid. She drove off like it was nothing. I'm actually upset. No joke, a car hit my car while we were sitting at the light the day before. At this point, I'm contemplating whether or not to go talk to thing young lady to tell her to be more careful. Unfortunately, the person I need to pick up is about 30 seconds away. I let it go and drove to the pickup. The pickup is a stop (meaning there-back). I begin talking to my passenger. I told them I almost hit someone just now. As we talked, turns out, that kid, and their sibling are a problem in that neighborhood. The passenger also said that family and they are not cordial. They absolutely do not like my passenger. No idea why, and frankly, I don't care. I'm just worried about the kiddo. So, I said to this person that I would go let a parent know what happened involving the electric scooter. They told me what house they're from. So, I dropped them off, drove to the house, and knocked on the door. The other sibling opened the door. I said hello and asked if there was a parent home. They said no. I said could you call a parent? They called their parent and told me if I want I can wait and their Dad would be home in 10 minutes. I actually had time to spare, and this issue genuinely mattered to me, so I waited. I waited around 10-15 minutes. The Dad arrives. He is pissed. We begin talking. I said my name and that I'm an Uber Driver. I let him know that I almost hit his daughter. He then questions me. How do you know that's my daughter? How did you know she lives here? I said I couldn't tell him that. He then says I'm calling the cops and takes a picture of my license plate. I'm thinking to myself buddy, this is how you're reacting the moment I begin talking to you? I was pretty well dressed (Yes I dress nice when I uber polo dress shorts.) He then begins to absolutely rant and rave. Saying theirs a stocker in his neiborhood. Tells me his daughter was almost r*ped by his friend last year. Blah, blah blah, blah bLaH. I then showed him that I really was an Uber Driver, and the order was for the neiborhood. He kept pressing me about how I knew where to find his house. So I said I'm an Uber Driver, I picked up a passenger, are you putting it all together? Later on he deleted my plate number from his phone and he showed me. He also told me there are cameras in x places. I said the info I got was an anonymous tip and that I was doing this as a courtesy. He then said that his daughter is 15, she's looking to get her driver's license soon yet she's driving on the left side of the road. I'll talk to her. That it's

I (16M) got a medal and a piece of paper for something I did at an athletics club. My dad told me he was going to show up and then take me to burger king or wherever I wanted to go. He gave the impression it was just him who was going to be there. He showed up with my stepmom and little stepbrother and he was talking to them the whole time. Afterwards we went to KFC (it was KFC in the end) it was just a mess, he was talking to them the whole time again and my stepbrother kept butting in and being loud as shit.

we got home and I was pissed off at my dad and I asked him why he even brought them and he got all huffy with me and said that’s a normal thing to do, bringing your family members. I said it just ruined it and he could’ve just made time for me instead of making another thing a “whole family thing”. He wants to make a good impression on my stepmom because they’re newly (somewhat) married but it just ruined it ffs. Am I the asshole for being angry he brought them