AITA for not wanting to redo my brother's art commission?
Like a week ago,my brother asked me to draw his yt pfp since I'm going to art school.
I was reluctant at first because he wasn't taking this seriously and spamming me when I asked him to send me the inspo, pose etc. When I send him progress of my other art to try to make an active conversation, he totally ignored it.
Then the next day my mother guiltrips me into doing it. She scolds me a few hours after for not doing it already, as if that's my only priority. I have art account that I have to keep working on. I don't start the following day due to a birthday in our family, but my brother still wants me to work on it that day.
The thing started Friday and I start drawing on Monday. My brother comes to me every night asking me to do it right then. The artwork was digital, and I've been only drawing digitally for a year and a half.
On Monday I show him the sketch, he tells me what to fix, I do and I start coloring. I don't finish it on Monday due to it being a really long process, since I'm not the most experienced. I work at least 4 hours.
I pick it up again two days later and I even redo a big part of it bc I felt like it could be better. After another 4 hours I finish it and even add lots of filter and pixelated options for my brother to choose from. He doesn't say anything about it. Not even a thank you, but doesn't complain either.
Then the next evening my mom calls me over and starts ridiculing my drawing. Tries to get me do it all again. I literally gave my best, I couldn't do anything better but she tells me I didn't put any effort and it shows. She follows me to my bedroom and won't leave me alone. She's judging it but not even saying anything certain thing that I could fix. Just the whole piece. For whole minutes, she bullies me into sobbing(I'm very easy crying thanks to how her ex-husband treated me and I told her that recently. Now she starts ridiculing me for that too and says that she isn't allowed to criticize me ever.) I try to peacefully tell her that I didn't ask for her criticism, but she keeps attacking me. She even starts doing the laundry on the balcony of my room right then so I couldn't tell her to leave. My brother joins too, but he keeps silent and stands in the corner of my room on tiktok. I tell them to leave repeatedly. She just keeps going on how "she's never allowed to share her opinion again" and "it won't be good for me in art school if I can't accept criticism". For context, I went to art lessons for months to get into art school and I was criticised by my teacher and took it well. But my mother's criticism is just "do it all over again but better". Nobody in my family knows ANYTHING about art.
Later, she makes me give away my tablet and pencil to him(I was on my tablet to get background noise so I could sleep). Next morning, he send me a poorly made caricature that doesn't even have the same more complex pose and background he wanted. My mom says that this one is okay.