u/here4theg0ss

Insanely Rude Brother

My little brother (18M) is insanely entitled and rude for no reason and it’s been like this for years. He uses everyone around him, his gf buys all his meals, his gf and my mom fill out job applications for him and when he gets a interview it’s up to him if he wants to go. Today he said he was having trouble breathing, and he has asthma, right away I told him he needs to set up a appt to get more medicine and to that he replied calling me “stupid” and the n word. After I told him to stop starting things for no reason he just told me to “stfu” he didn’t start respecting me til i called and got his medicine ready for him and set up a dr appt for him. Everything has been peachy and quiet until i saw that he had left and i texted him saying “hey please let me know if you’re coming back tonight or around what time you’ll be back so i can unlock the door for you, goodnight I love you”. No response for hours so I figured he wasn’t coming back, then i get a text saying “you didn’t even have to fucking lock it”. I said once again the attitude he was giving is not needed then he replied “It’s not for no reason stupid, you knew I was out, you could’ve js told me to lock the door before js locking me out” as if I didn’t give opportunity to literally tell me when or if he was coming back so I could unlock the door. This is only 1 day of dealing with him. Does anyone else have a brother that is a manchild and makes you feel like shit because there’s just nothing you can do to help him anymore?

EDIT: i’m seeing a lot of you say that I need to step back and stop treating him like a baby, usually I am not the one to step in and I do put a lot of space in between me and him because I see through his tricks. However, my parents are in Hawaii so I kind of had to step in especially because it was medical and he has bad asthma and I could literally hear him wheezing and he has landed himself in the hospital just to manipulate us. I figured I would rather pay for his medicine than a ER visit. After he started acting rude again after I had gotten his medication, I told him he was on his own and can figure out the rest of it from here.

AITA for being mad at my friend for talking to a married man? She says they are getting divorced but still… She always is telling me how relationships don’t work for her, yet she repeatedly goes after unavailable men. Why would you get with someone who isn’t even freshly out of their marriage because they are still IN their marriage. I just think as a wife no one should move that quick after a marriage comes to an end and no one should be ready to hop on someone who obviously isn’t going to be emotionally ready.

So I recently got a new job, it’s a cleaning job. I’ve had a cleaning job before and loved it. I was expecting a similar experience when walking into this job, paid mileage, paid training, easy going. I get paid to clean and some mileage is paid. However when I go into the office to talk to a supervisor I’m not paid for that time. I’ve had to drive up 5 different times because she either forgets something or etc. All of the 5 meets could have been put together in one meeting. It’s wasting my time and gas. Today she told me that I would need to pass a 120 question quiz to continue this job. I’m only 2 days into this job. I feel like a 120 question quiz is insane to have a cleaning job. On top of that I have to read a 50 page essay. This company just doesn’t seem considerate of my time. I have a day job and am also going to school so I simply asked for a day of the week off to catch up on everything and I got a response saying the only reason I was hired was because I was available throughout the week. Someone please tell me if I’m over exaggerating and what you would do in this situation.