Narc bro and mom are getting just desserts.
My husband paid for an attorney to help my siblings and I to get conservator over my nm as she is getting dementia and allowing my n brother to spend all her income plus sell assets my dad wanted for all of us.
Anyhow I was able to record mother and brother saying some awful things after she thought I hung up phone.
We were able to send the recording to our attorney. He made sure the person that was coming to see my mother’s living conditions was aware of this. This was important because she had put on a show her whole time.
So finally the gig was up. So the mask fell off and the truth came out. It ended with my brother telling the visitor that they were full of bs. And my mother admitting she was often left alone while my brother ran around.
I have never had the truth shown before. I feel like I am walking on clouds. Instead of people thinking I am this awful spoiled b ( the persona she chose for me). I am getting something I have never had before. Empathy.
I hope you guys can enjoy this too. Here is a little excerpt from the visitor’s summary.
“Mother and her son have lived together for 11 years. They speak alike and they
think alike. Son tends to interject his thoughts into the conversation, and has a great
amount of influence, especially about nursing home care and moving her, and she is
right along with him, agreeing.”