u/AMartin1213

Guys in a mlm relationship , do you also see things that women have been saying and think to yourself in your relationship, “wow I feel validated.” Like I’ve genuinely been dealing with the concepts of weaponized incompetence and emotional abuse and manipulation tactics and in both of my previous relationships with other men and it makes me admire women even more who know how to put up with that.

There’s a lot of people questioning and that’s normal. So I wanted to create this thread to share this information and to let people discuss it because I see it brought up a lot but not necessarily addressed.
Gender Identity ≠ Romanticallity ≠ sexuality
This means that just because your gender is fluid or that you present more feminine or masculine or that you have romantic feelings towards a same sexed individual does not mean that your sexual identity is affected. Ie speaking for myself I am Bi-gendered (both male and female at the same time) and Bi sexual (sexually attracted towards both men and women) but I am masculine romantic (only romantically inclined towards men and masculine presenting people). There are ALOT of straight men who are romantically inclined towards men and sexually attracted strictly towards women. That does not mean they are gay or bisexual. This is where the idea of the spectrum comes in but a lot of people don’t realize it’s more like 3 different spectrums.