u/Abdelrahmanad

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عندى ٣٥ سنة
شغال مبرمج فى القاهرة
عندى شقة فى اسكندرية وشقة فى القاهرة
منفصل من ٦ سنين وعندى بنت سنها ٧ سنين

هل فى فرصة انى اتجوز ؟

حمايا دايما عايز بناته هم ٣ بنات انا اتجوزت اصغرهم الثانين مش متجوزين اعمارهم ٣٧ و ٣٤ طليقتى حاليا ٣١ قدى

المشاكل بسبب الطلاق كلها حصلت بسبب ان طليقتى ابوها دايما بيحسسها بالرضا ان الطريق الاسمى والوحيد انها تاخد الماجستير والدكتوراة وتشتغل فى الاكاديميا اخواتها خدو نفس الطريق.

فا كان اى انجاز لاخواتها واحنا متجوزين بيسببلها هشاشة نفسيه ليها بسبب ارتباط الرضا عن نفسها بالطريق الزرعه ابوها فى مخها من صغرها … حمايا استاذ جامعى.

I’m a father to a young daughter, and I’ve started a little tradition with her.

Almost every time we meet or go out together, I buy her a children’s storybook and read it with her. Inside each book, I write a small note telling her that I love her, sign it as “Dad,” write the date, and sometimes write a few lines about what we did together that day.

I also record myself reading the story so she can listen to my voice later. I’m planning to print small photo stickers of the two of us from our outings and put them next to the notes inside the books.
Her mother also reads the stories to her, so the books are part of her everyday life, not something she only uses when she’s with me.

My long-term goal is that by the time she is around 10 years old, she might have something close to 1,000 books collected over the years.

I’m not really asking whether she will remember every individual book or every outing. What I’m wondering is whether a repeated tradition like this can become one of those things a child strongly associates with their father later in life.
For those of you who are adults now: what small repeated things did your parents do when you were young that you still strongly associate with them today?

And if one of your parents had left you hundreds of books containing handwritten notes, dates, little memories from your days together, photos, and recordings of their voice reading to you, do you think that would have meant a lot to you as you got older?