u/Abir_astroboy

Losing erection during penetration despite being hard during foreplay

I’m 32M and newly married, and I’ve been dealing with something frustrating since my very first night after marriage. During foreplay I get fully hard, feel turned on, and everything seems normal. But when it comes to actual penetration, I suddenly lose the erection or it becomes too weak to continue.

What confuses me is that the attraction is definitely there. I enjoy the intimacy, kissing, touching, everything. The more I notice it happening, the more anxious and pressured I become, which probably makes it worse.

I don’t think it’s a physical issue because erections during foreplay and mornings are normal. So now I’m wondering if this is performance anxiety or something mental.

Has anyone else experienced this, especially in the beginning of marriage? Is this Erectile Dysfunction?

Please give a thoughtful and courageous insight on this

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u/Abir_astroboy — 4 days ago